I got so little dialogue related to the romance that my only recourse is to conclude that everyone (except Karlach, Wyll and maybe Minthara) were completely ignorant to the romantic subplot. Which frankly makes sense because I don’t think my drow tav is very outwardly affectionate person in public settings. Partly because the relationship feels so fragile and undefined, and partly because I headcanon that Drow don’t generally express romantic affection openly. So the rest of camp probably thought Astarion was doing playful banter and my drow tav was just going along with his antics.











