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going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

getting lost in boston is fun because I turned around on a street corner three times and some guy yelled "hey stupid! the bus is that way!" very helpful interaction and accurate insult, 10/10 no notes

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

one time I walked around a building a couple times looking for a bathroom and this guy went "this bitch thinks she's on a merrygoround, where the fuck are you tryna go? bathroom? one floor down to the right behind the door that says bathroom."

mentohol-blog

My very first time in Boston. I was absolutely miserable, trying to drag my giant suitcase up a lengthy set of stairs in the pouring rain. This guy who had already reached the top looked back at me with the most pure expression of disgust I’ve ever seen in anyone’s eyes, marched back down the stairs, grabbed my suitcase, carried it to the top, left it there for me, and walked away without ever saying a word. I think about him often.

just7frogsinapeoplesuit

For the people in the notes going "why is Boston like this": a) the insults are a way to show you have no ulterior motives when helping someone (and don't need to be thanked or repaid), and b) Boston was settled by the Irish

direhydroid

also the Italians. mixing Irish and Italian sociocultural attitudes had the effect of multiplying the Sass Levels by the power of infinity, in the sense that you get all of the clever dry wit of the Irish and all of the bitchy gossipy condensation of the Italians rolled into one very stereotypically overly-friendly American package.

also worth noting that who you are to them doesn’t matter. they’ll talk to strangers like that and will also talk to their best friends like that. they’re just Like That.

just7frogsinapeoplesuit

More from the notes:

0ryza13

Every time I see this post someone has added a new roundup to it. So I just have to keep reblogging it. What a tragedy. Anyway,

queerwyrd

And I stand by this:

East Coast folks are kind and not polite, West Coast folks are polite but not kind.

beweep

Frost

Work all day at an outdoor event when there’s a heat and air quality warning? Sure, no problem. My chronically ill, asthmatic ass is perfect for that. Am I supposed to show up alive at work tomorrow?

Longest day.

#personal

graphicsgirlie

nobody tell him the way we pronounce "bar harbor". correct reaction btw.

localfatdemon

This scene has been living in my head rent free since I saw the episode.

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emmelyy

I promise you were not placed on this earth to try and shrink your body until you die.

catboyandroid

Everyone say thank you to trans femmes for showing us a version of femininity born from joy and desire instead of just through coercion

Everyone say thank you to trans mascs for showing us a version of masculinity born from joy and desire instead of just through coercion

Everyone say thank you to all people outside of the cis gender binary for showing us a version of gender born from joy and desire instead of just through a simple frame work in which our oppressor have used to kill, erase, and censor us.

Thank you for showing us the existence of a history before and a future ahead.

localfatdemon

S just went off to his second day of his new job and he’s so sick I have no idea how he made it out the door. He was in tears about how he just wants to be normal and doesn’t want to be sick all the time. I really feel like he can’t keep living like this but no one seems to want to figure out what’s going on. They just abort the episode and send him on his way. I’m so worried about him.

Also, if he has to apply for disability, that will mean we can’t get married because I don’t think he’s paid into Social Security enough to get SSDI. He’s worked off the books a lot during his life. I just wish I could fix this for him. It breaks my heart to see him scared of losing his income and being worried about not being able to stay with me. I’m also worried about what it will do to his mental health if he has to move back to Maine…and mine, for that matter. I hate this shit.

Edit: He threw up when he got there and they’re sending him home. I really don’t know where we go from here if he can’t keep this job. I am never going to fault him for it. I just don’t know what to do. If the job I want to apply for ever gets posted, I have no choice but to apply and to get it. It could almost double my income and then maybe I’ll be able to just take care of both of us. I will totally sell out if it means keeping S healthy and safe. I also just have no support of my own throughout this and it’s really hard. I need to find a new therapist.

localfatdemon

Edit: As of tonight he has kept some soup down for a while now and still has a job but that could change. It’s such bullshit that he hadn’t really been super sick in months and now he’s had two episodes one after the other while he’s trying to start a new job.

#s #personal

S just went off to his second day of his new job and he’s so sick I have no idea how he made it out the door. He was in tears about how he just wants to be normal and doesn’t want to be sick all the time. I really feel like he can’t keep living like this but no one seems to want to figure out what’s going on. They just abort the episode and send him on his way. I’m so worried about him.

Also, if he has to apply for disability, that will mean we can’t get married because I don’t think he’s paid into Social Security enough to get SSDI. He’s worked off the books a lot during his life. I just wish I could fix this for him. It breaks my heart to see him scared of losing his income and being worried about not being able to stay with me. I’m also worried about what it will do to his mental health if he has to move back to Maine…and mine, for that matter. I hate this shit.

Edit: He threw up when he got there and they’re sending him home. I really don’t know where we go from here if he can’t keep this job. I am never going to fault him for it. I just don’t know what to do. If the job I want to apply for ever gets posted, I have no choice but to apply and to get it. It could almost double my income and then maybe I’ll be able to just take care of both of us. I will totally sell out if it means keeping S healthy and safe. I also just have no support of my own throughout this and it’s really hard. I need to find a new therapist.

#personal

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That lovely “sometimes I can’t identify my emotions” thing when you’re not sure if you’re angry at someone or angry in general but either way, trying not to direct it at anyone.

#personal

clytemnestraaa

the idea that kink is somehow safe from critique and prejudice or harm is so fucking funny. ah yes bodies, desire, and power, three things that have famously never been utilized in harmful ways. great news everyone yes we are all existing in complex systems of oppression and violence BUT!!!!!! it’s on pause when we are horny

nettlepixie

yes yes yes

everyone needs to read the right to sex by amia srinivasan btw on the politics of the social construction of desire

hippopopotame

hello yes i would like to add some additional book recs:

pleasure activism: the politics of feeling good by adrienne maree brown

sexuality beyond consent: risk, race, traumatophilia by avgi saketopoulou

the color of kink: black women, bdsm, and pornography by ariane cruz

revolting prostitutes: the fight for sex workers' rights by molly smith and juno mac

the tragedy of heterosexuality by jane ward

monogamous mind, polyamorous terror by brigitte vasallo

anotherprettyfemme

not to flirt or anything, but i’d educate myself on your interests just so we could talk about them.

I just realized that on the 15th, it will be 11 years since my last psych hospitalization. I’m so proud of myself for getting my shit together enough to stay out of the hospital for so long.

#personal

Medical funds needed

I love working full time, making more than minimum wage and I have to pick and choose which of my meds I can pick up because I STILL can’t afford life and medical care. Living in MA has extreme negatives and positives. The meds I’m out of come to a total of $125 and I just don’t have it. I had to borrow money to get my account out of the negative this morning. I need my anxiety meds the most because I will start to go into withdrawal from those the fastest and it can be dangerous. If you can afford to help at all, it would be appreciated.

Cashapp and Venmo are both: kmf85

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Got to see two of my favorite dogs at work today! I love having dogs come to visit!

deltaomicronfive

Hey yall. Happy pride. I wish I could share it with someone. Im busy fighting for my own queer life!!! Please dont forget about me.

Im a black trans woman writer panicking because Im behind all my bills and I need to raise almost 1000 dollars to clear my expenses in about 20 days. Its hard to talk about debt Ive been putting myself in (75) and how behind I am on electric. (Still 200)

Im out of food stamps and am up for reassessment for my lease. Im so busy and I cant do this alone. Please help me stay fed and housed and stable.

I'm so scared. Please please help!!!

Cash and pay are agenderdread

V_nmo is deejwalker365

Kofi. Gfm. Gumroad for free or nyp poetry collections. My free tumblr writing and poetry tags are below this post for the blog.

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to help me get afloat.

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