grab someone by the brain and reshape their entire worldview. be horny about it. See other identity play kinks for reference

Tying someone up in their bedroom and meticulously combing through all their belongings, picking out every last bit of cheap fandom junk, SHEIN clothing, and pop-culture jetsam. Then stripping them naked and forcing them to burn all of that while you fuck them

Do they constantly whine that they don’t know how to cook or clean, so they have to DoorDash everything? Well they’re about to make you a gourmet meal consisting of at least three courses, and clean your entire house top to bottom while being monitored and berated for every minor mistake

Every 30 seconds on tiktok = one lash at the end of the day

Ruined attention span? Total sensory deprivation for a few days should fix that

If they fuck up and order something they don’t need off the internet, they have to dumpster dive for all of their food for the rest of the week. Bonus points if they’re a germaphobe <3

Abandoning them in a remote location, watching them struggle with basic survival tasks like finding water, food, and protection from the elements. You will probably need to jump in at some point, of course, but this will put you in the position to take what you want from them in return