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your brain doesn't actually care about happiness, but it doessss care a hell of a lot about predictability. meaning that if you think that you're unlovable, nothing works, rejection is coming, your brain will pick that because it's familiar, and familiarity = safety.

so when something neutral or even good happens, like a slow shift, a moment of silence, a change in tone, your brain goes into threat mode not because it knows something bad is happening, rather that it can't guarantee that something bad isn't happening. and the unknown is worse than pain.

it would rather feed you a painful certainty than let you sit in ambiguity.

that's why when affirming, you might feel uncomfortable and your mind starts dogpiling doubts onto you. none of those are truths, they're literal guesses that feel safer than not knowing.

and your brain is trying to regulate itself by clinging to those guesses. it's doing the same thing people do when they'd rather believe their partner hates them than sit in this said uncertainty. at least if you know you're hated, you can prepare, and that is the dear old core of it.

so what do you do? you give your brain a new kind of certainty. you say

nothing is wrong, i just don't know everything yet. silence means nothing. i don't need to predict pain just to stay upright.

you teach it that neutrality is survivable and that affirming doesn't mean doom and that a change in tone isn't the start of collapse. and it !might! not comply with you the first twenty times. but you repeat, and one day you notice that you didn't feel insecure quite as hard, and that's what we call progress.

stop acting like you need to struggle.

We are taught since young that we need esforce to be rewarded. Do all of the homework, and get a little gold star sticker on your forehead. You need to workout and do restrictive diets to lose weight. The more you work like a damn dog, you will have more money (that’s it, if you’re lucky).

This mindset is actually so hard to let go, specially if you grew up on the lower class. Taking a day to pamper myself and have a rest made myself feeling like I would puke by so much guilt. Easy money felt like a sin. Eating a burger would made me gain the triple of the weight I struggled to lose. With a mindset like that, how could I manifest a peaceful, prosper life, a healthy, toned body, healthy relationships and wealth?

Let go now of the believe that success is a consequence of struggle. Let go know of that pitch you feel in your belly every time you think about having something easy. You deserve a easy life, but to have it, you need to believe it. Success is not something you need to wrestle in your life, success is something you invite.

I did not believed I could have easy money, that I could even get money before graduating, and now I have a small business that is granting me more money then what I expected it to. I did not believe I could lose weight effortlessly and I lost 8kg eating whatever I wanted. I though I was simply cursed with acne to the rest of my life and I cured it without expensive skincare. I thought I had to fold myself over and be a people pleaser to have friendships and now I have a healthy group of friends who adore my presence simply by being myself, even tho I am adamant of setting boundaries and talking for myself.

　　engrave this process into your mind & move on.

　i , assume. this is the whole thing. everything else is decoration. assume what you want is already real. not coming, not pending, not "in progress." real. here. done. the moment you assume it, it exists. there is no gap between thought and reality.

　ii , persist. this is where most people trip. they assume, then check the mirror every five minutes, looking for signs, looking for proof. but a mirror reflects what you believe to be true, not what you’re begging to see. you persist in the assumption. not because you’re forcing anything, but because you understand this is how reality works. you wouldn’t assume gravity is real, then spend the rest of the day doubting it. same rules apply.

　iii , let it unfold. no micromanaging. no checking the tracking number. no pacing back and forth wondering if you did it right. assumption is not about force. it is not about effort. it is not a request. assume, persist, and let reality adjust. it always does. 　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　. . . but what then? 　iv , live it. you don’t wait for confirmation to breathe. you don’t wait for a written notice that the sky is still in place. stop waiting. start being. reality does not need you to second-guess it. it already knows what to do. assume, persist, and step into it.

Credit to Matheox on Pinterest for sharing this masterpiece.

You’re not actually tired of manifesting, your brain has just been wired by society to believe that there are things that you can’t do.

What you need right now isn’t something as fickle as motivation, what you need is discipline. After all manifesting isn’t the hard part, the hard part is faith. The hard part is rewiring your thought process to the complete opposite of what we’ve been brought up to believe since we were children.

When you master this, you’ll realise how easy manifesting truly is, so until then, discipline yourself. Persist. Even if you believe that you’re tired of it, do it tired. After all you have the cheat code of life in your fingertips. So make the most of it.

Am I wrong?

𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡 & 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐫

I was always in awe of how Neville manifested for others. To promise someone that you’d fulfill their wishes just with your imagination seemed crazy to me. I mean, can you imagine telling multiple people—not just one—that you’d bring their desires to life, without any ifs, buts, or maybes? And all of it, purely through imagination?

I used to wonder about the what-ifs. What if it didn’t happen at all? What if it didn’t happen in time? What if it wasn’t what they wanted? What if they got upset? What if my doubts ruined it? I’d laugh it off, saying, “Let me manifest a fistful of my own desires first.”

But now I realize—it all comes from unwavering faith and viewing yourself as higher than any state, desire, or problem. Strip them of the unnecessary importance you’ve given them. View them as just states—nothing more. You can do this too. It’s not impossible, or even hard.

Neville wasn’t some demi-god meant only to be praised and listened to. In fact, time after time, he invited people to try it for themselves. And so can you. But do it gently and lovingly. It’s meant to be effortless, not forced.

"But grant me the freedom to change it (my state)—don’t leave me in the state if I desire to get out of it. Yet many a person wallows in it, and wallows in it morning, noon, and night, and they are totally unaware they are doing it. They will say, ‘Oh, yes,’ and then five seconds later they are back in that state (Old Man). I have had interviews with people who will say to me, ‘This is what I would like, but I must first tell you . . . .’ Don’t tell me anything! Tell me what you want—they are only states! They insist on wallowing in all the things of the past.” — Neville

Here he tells how people always wanted to tell him how the circumstances were against them and telling him how the fulfillment of their desires seemed unlikely or even impossible. However, this man, Neville didn’t care about the so-called obstacles people believed stood in the way of their desires. When people came to him, listing all the reasons their desires were impossible, he cut through it all with one simple truth:

“Don’t tell me anything! Tell me what you want. They are only states.”

That’s it. That’s the key. And that’s all you need to do. Stop viewing your problems and desires as something huge. Free yourself from the stress, worry, and doubt—it’s unnecessary, and entirely self-imposed.

This is fear and pedestalization at play.

Here’s an excerpt from my journal on putting things on a pedestal:

Everything is inherently neutral. We’re the ones coloring it with meaning. We put it on a pedestal, look up at it with clasped hands and desperate eyes, wishing it was ours. We make it seem grand, impossible, out of reach, when in reality—it’s just a state.

What if you stripped away all the emotional attachment? What if you took away all the value, status, and importance you’ve assigned to it? What would be left?

A state is nothing without “I AM.”

I’ve only just realized how important it is to view yourself highly. It’s only when you see your desires and problems as huge that anxiety arises. But when you see yourself as higher than any state, you begin to understand how Neville manifested so effortlessly.

It all comes from realizing that you are greater than any desire, problem, or state. Because you are.

I AM is greater than anything—and you are that I AM.

You don’t depend on your desire. It depends on you. You don’t seek your desire. It seeks you. You think you can’t live without it, but the truth is—it can’t exist without your “I AM-ness.”

A creator is always greater than its creation. Remember that.

We’ll tackle fear in the next post. For now, try not to overthink or worry. Sit with this. Contemplate it. And most importantly, be gentle and loving with yourself.

Give yourself a big hug. A pat on the back.

I highly recommend this meditation by EdwardArtSupplyHands to reinforce this:

Pharaoh/King Meditation

Genuine question, sorry if it sounds too dumb. I am a learner who is having difficulty putting into practice.

I don't talk of 3D/4D. I have one request of you, to ask real questions. However "delusional" you may think they sound.

It is not instantaneous because you identify with your body and not your pure being. No matter how much you use your mind/imagination, you are who you are regardless of the imagines playing in your head. I could think of a panda a million times, imagine what it's like being a panda a thousand more, that doesn't make me into a panda when I still know myself to be a person.

Do you doubt being a male/female? Do you even think on it? You do not, because you are.

I will reply through the manifesting perspective now, but please aim these asks toward law of assumption blogs, as they are just extra steps I don't teach anybody here to go through.

LOVE. FALL THE FUCK IN LOVE. be completely infatuated and consumed with love for your desired state. you can't commit to what you don't love, so if you want to persist in your desired state, fall in love with it and you'll be too busy enjoying that state to even care about the 3d. this is the only way you'll effortlessly persist in it. edward art touches on falling in love with your imagination, so check his reddit out!

if you would fall in love with what you really want to be, you would become it. it takes an intense hunger to bring about a transformation of self -neville

you must be consumed with the desire and literally on fire with love for its possession, for an intense imaginal act will always draw unto itself its own affinity -neville

do you know you have it or do you hope to have it? do you feel peace and satisfaction or are you doubting?

why a lot of people have anxiety when manifesting is because they choose hope over knowing. this is rooted in not having a full understanding of consciousness being the only reality. when i say consciousness is the only reality, then i mean that absolutely everything is you. when you understand that consciousness is the only reality then you would break the habit of feeling remorseful, depressed, or regretful. You will no longer think unkindly about another, because you will know that he is actually yourself pushed out, and appeared in your world because the Father in you called him. (Neville).

developing this mindset can obviously take time but if you live your day to day life acknowledging your consciousness as the one and only reality, then you’ll get there and it will all become habitual. but for it to become habitual you need to first break the bad habits that hinder you from getting there.

the habit you need to break is checking the outside. eg when you make your mind on what you want you might start to rationalise and think how it’s not possible or might not happen. that’s living on hope. or you might be looking for confirmation that you’re going to get what you want all day long. again, living on hope.

so, what does it mean to live on knowing instead? you KNOW you already have it because consciousness is the only reality and what you do in consciousness will be duplicated to the outside. you assume not for it to be so, but because it is so. you don’t have to “fake” anything. there is no need as you already have it. you don’t need external validation. all you need is within. it is your word over everything. if you say so, then so it is.

all you need is yourself, you hold the power within.

turns out i reblogged blushy's success story(not manifesting with hard circumstances)

the how i changed my life with loa sucess story you know but i unfortunately cannot reblog it coz i posted it privately and the reblogs on the post have been turned off

in the loass community, "ignoring" the 3D is a very common phrase, but i find that this often leads to confusion and stress. i think that a much better phrase for it is "dismissing the 3D."

your subconscious responds to feelings. your subconscious doesn't have eyes; it cannot see your 3D. and your thoughts (dominant or not) do not manifest. your subconscious mind doesn't care what your conscious mind is thinking: it cares about your state.

your 3D is a manifestation of your previous state. your 3D doesn't look the way it does right now because of any thoughts you've had, it looks that way because it is reflecting your dwelling state. so how do you change your 3D? by changing your dwelling state.

you don't need to ignore your 3D, you need to dismiss it.

an example i'm going to use is one i've been getting a lot of questions about: you're living in your parents house in the 3D, but you're manifesting moving into your own place. how do you ignore the 3D?

you wake up in your old bed every day, in your old bedroom. you go to your old bathroom and take a shower in your old shower. you go to your old kitchen and do your old dishes and eat your old food. your parents talk to you and tell you you need to clean your old house. you sit down for family dinner at your old dining room table and talk about the things you did in your old house that day. then you sit down with your parents on your old couch and watch a movie on your old tv before going to sleep in your old bed in your old bedroom.

how are you supposed to ignore the 3D when you are constantly witnessing it? how are you supposed to not think about your current 3D when you are constantly dealing with it?

because you don't need to ignore your 3D, you need to dismiss it.

as i mentioned earlier, your subconscious is blind. your thoughts don't manifest. neither of these things are going to effect your manifestation. the only thing that will effect your manifestation is your state.

THE INNER MAN

let's take a little detour to talk about the inner man (i promise it's relevant)

what is the inner man? it's YOU. it's who you identify as, and it's who you are in your imagination. so when you imagine something, you are giving whatever you imagine to your inner man. your inner man is experiencing your 4D.

your outer man is the YOU who is experiencing your 3D. your outer man lives in your outer world, and your inner man lives in your inner world. however, there is no separation between your inner man and your outer man.

as Neville says, "where I shall go in imagination, I shall go in the flesh as well." you must give your inner man your desire first in your inner world, and then your outer world will follow. you cannot skip step one.

this is what i like to do: i give myself my manifestation in my imagination. still using the above example, we'll simply say "there. my inner man lives in my desired apartment right now."

now my inner man is living in my desired apartment. i made a little post about how i like to view my inner man as a little, doll-like version of myself inside of me, but it is not actually separate from you. my favorite way of dismissing the 3D and shifting myself back to my desired state when something in my 3D shakes me is by reminding myself that my inner man already is/has what i want to be/have.

so, still using the same example, if i were to feel myself slip out of my desired state while manifesting my dream apartment--say that i was dwelling in the fact that in my 3D, i have to do chores at my parent(s) house--i'd remind myself that my inner man is already living in my dream apartment/house and that nothing i see or do in my 3D can change that.

there is a difference between dealing with your 3D and identifying with your 3D. in the example i just gave, i could've allowed my actions in the 3D--doing chores--tell me that my desire was never going to manifest because my 3D was showing me the opposite. i could've let myself dwell in the state of lack. instead, we recognized the 3D for what it is: a reflection of our previous dwelling state.

there's this comment i read on the Neville Godard subreddit that I really loved. it said: "the best advice i can give you is stop worrying about what your subconscious is going to think of what you're doing."

your assumptions manifest. what you do in your 3D is completely irrelevant unless you identify with it. your subconscious is not gonna see you doing chores at your parent's house and think that that means you don't live in your desired apartment/house. your subconscious mind doesn't have it's own opinions or ideas on what things in your 3D mean.

for example, say you wash your face and do your skincare every night, yet you are still dwelling in the state of having bad skin. which is going to manifest? your state, every single time. it's why that skincare product that everyone under the sun said helped clear their skin didn't work for you: you assumed it wouldn't.

if you negatively react to your 3D, that is an indicator you fell out of the state of the wish fulfilled. shift back to it, and then continue taking care of business. you're going to notice your 3D no matter what you do. your only job is to dismiss it, because you know it's not your true reality.

keep reminding yourself that your inner man already has your desire, and you're just chilling in your current 3D--no matter how opposite of the 4D it appears--until it catches up. your 3D is not permanent. you don't have to accept it as true.

the goal isn’t to ignore your 3D, it’s to let it pass without worrying about it.

an analogy that i read that i really liked was this: say you're in a disagreement with someone. they keep telling you that a song is sung by a specific artist, but you know for a FACT that it's actually sung by someone else. no matter what, they won't believe that you're right, and they're actually trying to convince YOU that THEY'RE right. but this is literally your favorite song, you know for a FACT who it's sung by, and it's not the person that they're saying. do you let them convince you that you're wrong, or do you stand firm in your belief?

that's how you should act in regards to your 3D. you know that you have your desire in your 4D. i mean, it's YOUR imagination and YOU'RE in control of it! you can have whatever you want in your own imagination! so are you gonna let your 3D tell you that you don't have your desire in your imagination? or are you gonna stand firm in the belief that you have your desire in your 4D?