little♥︎one

~♡Autumn Agere Moodboard♡~

Day 20: fab cartoon character(s) i like max AND ruby !!! I have other characters i like morebhut from stop motion or puppets or anime or comic,,, all very different to me :)

tried to make a more simple routine idea for myself & hopefully it can help others too ! 💗🌙💤🧸

🐛 ; dream regression room things . . . ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ

🌱 ; nature baby gear that i love . . . ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱ 🐛

garden tot 🌱

Source ~ Squishables

(but is important to bring up)

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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.

Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.

I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)

Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.

Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver 🐰

Little drawing mood board 🍬🍭🍼🎨🖍️

is all good if not, just wonderin :> i love ur blog <333

Here you go friend, hope you like it! ☺️🧸🦝🤎

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