Depressed bab

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

I might have gone a little overboard loll,, whoops. This picrew is really neat

tagging: @atomic-jellyfish @lesbiansayaishii @femininelookingmale @aroanddumb @autdhd @endless-tsundoku @arsonist-ratbastard

please drink my perfectly normal potion. it tastes good i promise

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

important!!!

transcript:

A person with a somewhat masculine voice says in a higher pitched tone, “Blue hair is weird!” They then change their voice to their regular tone, and say, “I’m gonna teach you this how I would teach a child. I don’t know your life story, but for the sake of making this an educational video, I’m gonna use stereotypes, so only take what resonates with you.

One child is born in a seemingly functional, to their awareness, loving family, while the other is getting quite the opposite. You can’t choose that you’re born with it, so you’re put out in this world and the majority of your peers are like you, and the majority of your teachers, parents and authority are like you, and the majority of the media out there is showing people like you. So all of the kids that are not depicted by this media feel erased and different immediately from the time they’re born, how they are born. You may feel too feminine as a boy, too masculine as a girl, like you’re in the wrong body, like you don’t think exactly neurotypically as everyone else, you’re too thin, you’re too thick, you’re too dark, you’re not dark enough. Kids like this immediately understand the struggle of not being accepted by the majority, and if it’s not the peers doing it, keep in mind they have the same authority and media only depicting the majority of one type of person.

So both the outcasts and the masses are gonna ask the same question of how do I fit into society, and the majority of the authority and media is gonna be saying things like “God is the answer,” “man marries woman,” “girls are this way, boys this way.” You have a set amount of rules that if you have no reason to question, you’re not gonna disagree with. But when this world has taught you it’s not for people like you, you’re gonna ask, “why is it that way?” which brings us to, “who is teaching us this?” Oh, people from this era or earlier, who’s making this stuff, people in this era or earlier, “Let me do my research on who taught them that stuff.”

A common flaw with human beings is that they accept societal norms that are only in place for a little bit over their lifetime because they never lived to see a reason to question it. When you are born in a world that’s seemingly against you, you have reason to research why these traditions are in place, and you say, “Wow, if I happened to be born in the 1900s, pink was for boys and blue was for girls, and cheerleading is for boys and heels are for men, and the bible was changed to be anti-gay”. It’s almost like what we are taught is unreliable and not inherently factual, and in the time this was being taught, no one in the masses was disagreeing.

Everyone’s born in a box, but we weren’t all born with default settings, so we learned that humans can express themselves however they want. The way you think that only natural hair colors is normal, or how you dress is the right way, or blue hair automatically makes you weird, or pronouns equals liberal, that is taught to you. If this existed in the 1900s, this would be awesome [he points at blue hair], and this would just be english language [he points at pronouns]. When you’re wildly accepted by the masses, I see why you wouldn’t want to step down, you’re at the top of the pyramid. But the reason that we dye our hair blue is that the only people that wildly accepted us are other people who weren’t afraid of being different.

Now listen, maybe you just like authentically being a part of the masses, maybe your true self likes this stuff, that’s fine. But you also have to acknowledge that you were taught to avoid anything that would get you bullied or a negative reaction by the masses. So therefore, who’s really the top of the pyramid? [He flips the pyramid drawing upside-down].”

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

tagged by @introvertedstarlight (nearly cried when i got the notif btw)

relationship status: single 🫶🏻

favourite colour: blue :3

favourite food: chocolate… obsessed with anything and everything made with chocolate

song stuck in my head: sliipping lately by cavetown

last thing i googled: “sprouts garlic hummus”

time: 7:06pm

dream trip: venice but i will literally never go there 😵‍💫

relationship status: painfully single some1 date me pls

favourite colour: red

favourite food: idek. uhm. i dunno its 2 hard 2 pick. it changes all the time but rn i dont really have one

song stuck in my head: i dont wanna talk abt it.. but dynamite . i don’t remember who its by but it was very big in the 2010s . idk it was on just dance. i hate it so much

last thing i googled: ‘cardinal sin’ cuz ive heard/said it b4 but ive never been entirely sure what it meant so i just wanted 2 double check what i thought it was was right (it was btw)

time: 10:17pm

dream trip: hm. idk i kinda wanna go 2 italy now or maybe london bcuz of what my moms said abt those places. but any trip where i get 2 go 2 a skz concert bcuz of it would b great. which would most likely be 2 chicago . so. there

relationship status: single (thank God)

Favourite colour: black, purple and dark blue I think…

Favourite food: cheesy fries, sandwiches and chocolate!!!!!!

Song stuck in my head: Champagne Swing - rocco(I think that’s their name)

Last thing i googled: what direction to epilate arms😭😭😭😭

Time: 22:40

Dream trip: I really want to go to Scotland again. When I went last time, it was during my peak an0r3xia and I couldn’t enjoy shit. I really want to go again. And I also want to go to France and Japan.

relationship status: single

favourite colour: green

favourite food: idk maybe apples or chocolate

song stuck in my head: oh no by marina

last thing I googled: scp

time: 8.03pm

dream trip: new zealand, japan

relationship status: single, but wanting to be in a relationship :’)

favourite color: ivy green

favourite food: any baked goods & chocolate

song stuck in my head: wave - niki (it’s been stuck in my head for 7 years istg)

last thing i googled: brownie recipe

time: 3:57pm

dream trip: japan or a trip around europe

relationship status: married!

favorite color: this one is genuinely hard but im gonna say coral rn

favorite food: jasmine rice

song stuck in my head: danger by the home team

last thing i googled: glamnetic pompompurin……..

time: 4:46pm

dream trip: oh boy uhhh… prob new zealand

Relationship Status: Single

Favorite Color: Lavender

Favorite Food: Sushi/anything spicy

Song Stuck in my Head: Glimpse of You - Joji

Last Thing I Googled: God of War Ragnarok release date. I’m v excited for it 😅

Time: 7:30p

Dream Trip: Iceland! I want to go to one of the natural hot springs really really bad. Also all the fjords and general geography look breathtaking, I’d love to go in person.

relationship status: in a relationship

favourite colour: pastel pink

favourite food: sweet n sour udon noodles

song stuck in my head: sliver - nirvana 😭😭

last thing i googled: when were nik nak crisps invented

time: 3:43am

dream trip: OMG the same as the person who tagged me ^^ iceland !

Relationship status: single

Favorite color: atm something like this

Favorite food: It cycles, but right now, maybe asain food or tacos?

Song stuck in my head: Bath Salts by Highly Suspect

Last thing I googled: I spent at least 15 minutes trying to find the best color(s) for ‘favorite color’ with various searches

Time: 3:16pm

Dream Trip: I would love to travel everywhere in existence. Japan would be really cool, but also just anywhere that’s very scenic, maybe on a backpacking trip

Relationship status: single

Favourite colour: moody and muted greens are my new obsession but I’ve also been wearing lots of red lately

Favourite food: Obsessed with apples and peanut butter atm but I’ve also been craving cakes and muffins a lot

Song stuck in my head: sophisticated girl by the pezheads I love the unique vocals so I’m gonna listen to more stuff by this band

Last thing I googled: I was trying to figure out what kind of bee was in my backyard

Time: 5:13

Dream trip: I’d love to go to a remote cabin tucked in the mountains with no cell signal with a couple people who I’m close with and we spend lots of time swimming in the lake and hiking and at night we play board games and read till we fall sleep and listen to the nature sounds outside only to be woken up by the sun in and have coffee on the deck watching the clouds get caught on the mountain tops

Relationship status: single

Favorite color: purple

Favorite food: I just love food too much to pick a single one as my favorite lol but some of my favorite types of food are Italian, Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Jamaican, Peruvian, Mexican, Halal, Mediterranean, etc.

Song stuck in my head: Player of Games by Grimes

Last thing I googled: the time in California 😂

Time: 2:26am

Dream trip: there’s so many places I would love to go but I especially would like to go to Montana because it’s mountainous or Washington (the state not DC). But I also would love to travel the world too!

relationship status: single

favorite color: purple!

fav food: asian. as an specific food product, undoubtedly chocolate. if I could only eat one thing for the rest of my life, that’d definitely be it. if i could marry chocolate, i would marry chocolate

song stuck in my head: till there was you by the beatles. it makes me feel so warm and fuzzy

last thing I googled: “why is my memory so bad at 18” lol

time: 2:35 AM

dream trip: if I had to choose an specific place to visit, that’d be italy: the countryside and small towns, as well as historic places

@sunsetstardust thank you <3

relationship status: single sigh

favourite colour: yellow💛

favourite food: garlic bread!!!

song stuck in my head: the saints of violence and innuendo by shinedown :)

last thing i googled: opening hours for the costa near me, was gonna walk down and get a drink but they were closed already </3

time: 18:28

dream trip: as cliché as it sounds i really wanna go to disneyworld florida, i went as a kid but due to mental illness i dont remember any of it lmao. also snowboarding in italy but i did that last year so not sure if it counts? very very excited to going again though :>

relationship status: it’s like rlly complicated tbh😭

favorite color: pink

favorite food: sushi

song stuck in my head: diet mountain dew- lana del rey

last thing i googled: shopspacegods.com 💀

time: 3:47pm

dream trip: there’s so many places i want to visit but my top one is probably greece

relationship status; single

favourite color; green and purple

favourite food; 김지 (kimchi), spicy pickled cabbage

song stuck in my head; B.Y.O.B by System of a Down

last thing i googled; tattoostudiostuttgart.de

time; 11:11pm

dream trip; a lot of places but i really wanna go to venice again

tagging; @dietcokewlime @ricecakequeen5 @burntvusepod (i know, you tagged me but same) @st4rving-may @shreksmann @scarxoxo @dietcocain3 @emosoftbean @kindcorpse @kcalee-12 @boneycherrie @owenbrooks0 @vengefulvampyr @yanderexic @cyb3rfairytal3 @justab1ur @ripdaydreamincoffee

Relationship: single but in love

Fave colour: brown (not brown lol but close)

Fave food: my dads lasagne, i could devour the whole pan easily

Song stuck in my head: midnight love by girl in red but slowed&reverb

Last thing I googled: is 3000 cals a binge (Yes it is lol)

Time: 12:42 AM

Dream trip: hiking in Norway with someone I love, then getting a hotel in Oslo the highest we could and looking down at the huge city

Relationship: dating for 8 years, kinda tired

Fave colour: black or red

Fave food: pizza and pasta, specially bechamel ones 🫣

Song stuck on my head: accidentally in love - counting crows

Last thing i googled: last question’s song lol

Time: 3:47PM

Dream trip: i just want to see aurora borealis sooooo bad

Relationship status: single

Favorite color: blue

Favorite food: angel hair pasta or any kind of fruit

Song stuck in my head: Girls Against God by Florence + The Machine

Last thing I googled: why do we like music

Time: 3:24am

Dream trip: not so much a place but I’ve always wanted to do a big sort of spontaneous road trip with a few friends where we just drive around to random places & explore the country for a week or so

Relationship status: single but currently interested in someone

Favourite colour: red & black

Favourite food: any kind of pasta

Song stuck in my head: Unlike Pluto - Smoke in My heart

Last thing I googled: translator (yes english isn’t my first language 😭)

Time: 5:06 pm

Dream trip: honestly anywhere with good friends, but if I had to pick a place Japan!

Relationship status: single and sad about it even though it’s my fault

Favorite color: blue or pink maybe? I also like wearing red but I wouldn’t say it’s my favorite color

Favorite food: Potstickers/dark chocolate

Song stuck in my head: Confident by Demi Lovato (I haven’t even heard that song in forever what-)

Last thing I googled: The lyrics to Confident because I forgot the name of the song lollllllll

Time: 8:35 pm

Dream trip: Probably China or Japan, though I would be a bit scared about not knowing the language

Relationship status: In a relationship but Girls???

Favorite color: I'd say any pastel colour and black. I really can't choose but I'd say pastel pink ig ;-;

Favorite food: This is so hard becaaause there are so many different kinds of food?!?! Why settle for one favourite?? But I don't think anyone would be interested in me discussing varieties of classes of dishes and subcategorizing them in favourites so I'd go for crispy teriyaki salmon sushi.

Song stuck in my head: Cursed/Too Bad by King Princess. This song lives in my head rent-free but I'm not complaining.

Last thing I googled: Angolan food.

Time: 1:53 AM ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Dream Trip: I honestly want to visit so many places but I guess I'd go to Japan or Reykjavik. Japan because I love history and culture and want to learn a lot about (ancient) Japan. Reykjavik because I want to go sightseeing and experience aurora borealis!

Tagging: (I can't come up with 10 ppl because I basically know no one)