R/AITA For Looking Through My Girlfriend’s Phone? u/keepingitrealbyhugo.v
I am not one to bring my personal life to Reddit. But this is important. I (19M) have been dating my girlfriend for a while now. It’s been common practice for me to look through her phone so I know what she’s up to and so she hasn’t strayed down a dark path. I’ve only done it out of protection and love. But she apparently doesn’t seem to think so.
Last night she was in the shower and left her phone in the bedroom. I of course had to look through it. Upon finding a collection of dirty porn books (whatever you call them) I immediately had to bring it up to her. The profanity was downright ridiculous. What even is AO3?! Who is Eren Jaeger?! When she got out of the shower, I asked her why she was reading those books. I said that the words on those digital pages are obscene and then she threw a clothes hanger at me. Why?
She told me that looking through her phone was a massive invasion of her privacy. That makes no sense considering I’m only helping her out to make sure she’s the best version of herself as possible. How can she be the best version of herself if she is dabbling in porn books?
The conversation we had went terribly, to say the least. I’m staying over at my friends while me and her go through this rough patch. I don’t think I’m the asshole here. I wasn’t the one reading profanity whilst in a relationship . . .
So, am I the asshole for looking through my girlfriend’s phone?
| u/julianloki.therealest: im the friend yall
> u/keepingitrealbyhugo.v: Indeed you are ;)
> u/julianloki.therealest: dude chill im easy 😩
> u/itzcharleschevy: YO IM HERE TOO WSP and stop acting gay or else one of you will get pregnant
> u/keepingitrealbyhugo.v: Charles please log off…
| u/xxotoya.exx: she’s fs cheating on u im sorry. nta.
| u/bumblingbachirahehe: i read an article once that looking through people’s phones is a sign of emotional immaturity.. talk to her. unfortunately i think yta
| u/saeitoshi10: 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yta
| u/yaboykunigami: Girls are so hard to deal with. But I don’t think looking through their phones is ever a good idea. What did you expect..? YTA
| u/themichaelkaiser: what a fucking loser. wasting time on love? i can’t believe what i’m seeing. check out my podcast for real life advice and not from losers on reddit
> u/xnagisei: hey u promoted ur pdcst under my posts 2 ://
> u/themichaelkaiser: cuz people like u need my help.
| u/ddddddddlorenzo: buy her a birkin bag or something idk.
| u/shidouisdeepinside: wait what were the books she was reading 👀👀
| u/rinthedestroyer: you really brought this shit to reddit? damn loser. yta
> u/julianloki.therealest: easy on my boy u child
> u/itzcharleschevy: RIN THE DESTROYER 😂😂 you make me chortle i think i’ll pee from laughing rn
> u/rinthedestroyer: kys.
| u/iggybunny: she threw a clothes hanger?! i’d kms hahaha. nta
> u/totesnotsae: would you kys?? actually?? prove it.
| u/aikugota.snakeinhispants: women.
it appears hugo was indeed the asshole.
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