sometimes there is a girl that is so dog

Frodo: I just felt like I was really locked in … idk

Sam:

Like this. And it’s beautiful. It’s beautiful to hear a soliloquy I loved so much already, and have it come to life in a way it never, ever, did before. I feel like I grasp his motivations, his twists and turns, no longer on an academic level but on a visceral, instinctive one. Because he’s presenting his mental and emotional journey in a way that speaks honestly, like a real person.

sub that acts like a therapist to help dommes work through her mental blocks and dominant guilt

sub that is an expert in kink and can teach unsure dommes how to do the things they want to do

In My fantasies, this tends to get portrayed as the sub being excessively submissive, with an impression that the sub probably should have held firmer on boundaries and pushed back more than they did with the Domme even if they were trying to be gentle and guiding. The Domme getting too into it and taking things too far, but even that still being considered "okay".

I think this comes from a desire to want to feel okay being more open and vulnerable and imperfect and supported as a Domme, to get a break from thinking three steps ahead and doing intensive scene management with every action.

I haven't had a lot of contact with other dommes, but I'm getting the impression that a lot of us have had experiences with subs and communities that have pushed us into being less open or more aggressive or more "invulnerable" and to take more responsibility for the scene and everyone involved.

Maintain kayfabe, do the emotional labor for ourself and/or our partner(s).

"If I feel guilty about it, that's my problem (alone) for not having the right mindset."

"I'm the one in control of someone else (or multiple someones), so I can't afford to make mistakes."

It is still misgendering to use they for that person.

"But it's universal" no, it's not. That person doesn't use they/them

"But it's gender neutral!" And? Some people prefer to be actively gendered.

"But I use they/them for everyone all the time!" Well, then maybe you should use people's proper pronouns (also, majority of the time I've seen this excuse, y'all will still use she/her for people you assume are binary cis women and he/him for people you assume are binary cis men. Maybe reflect on that)

As an intersex woman I have been consistently and regularly denied my womanhood, even while being a cis woman. People around me will constantly and consistently degender me. Degendering is misgendering.

This isn't just a dyadic cishet issue either. I've seen this degendering stuff happen within the community. If someone wants to be actively gendered, actively gender that person.

He’s eating it.

I can tell because the bags are nearly empty except for a few small clumps.

We had him tested and in the course of that vet visit he stole

6 tips

3 of the ear light cover things

Our other cats collar

the ear bud of the vets stethoscope 

several hearts

a plastic glove

the vet techs hair tie

This is his ledge

His ledge is taller then my husband who is 6’2”

I am 5’5”

kitty and im dolly and im STOP. Mew~! ^^