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• kissing can be sexual when you’re making out, but it can also be nonsexual when it’s a quick kiss on the forehead.

• being naked can be sexual when you’re engaging in foreplay, but it can also be nonsexual if you and your partner are both just overstimulated and don’t want clothes on.

• cuddling can be sexual when your partner has a hard-on or is groping you, but it can also be nonsexual when they are lovingly spooning you and wrapped around you.

• sitting in your partners lap can be sexual when you’re both naked and horny, but it can also be nonsexual when there’s really nowhere else to sit down.

DDLG/ABDL/really any other kink community is the exact same way. whatever the “item” is, be it a diaper, a pacifier, a collar, a position, a dynamic, a rule, etc., it can have both sexual and nonsexual characteristics.

Voice dysphoria? You're not expected to speak if a pacifier is in your mouth.

Genital dysphoria? Your diaper's so thick, you can't remember what you had down there.

Abstract feeling of loss for a childhood you never got in your life? Simply begin watching all of those cartoons you never got to watch.

Need a new name? Ask your domme to come up with one for you.