Lieuseur

even outside of being schizoid i think it’s unsettling how some people feel entitled to your body, your time, your space, and your attention, and then get offended when you don’t want to be touched or simply want privacy. i can politely say i don’t want a hug and people react like i’ve said something cruel or offensive. i’ve had exes go through my phone without permission and then act shocked when i’m upset about my privacy being violated. in relationships, people expect you to give up parts of your autonomy just to keep them comfortable.

one requirement of both romantic and platonic relations that I cannot get behind is practically being REQUIRED to do things you Don't Want To Do for them

paper alibis is my song of this month thanks yonkagor for being the best songwriter ever

can't let gang know i exist