Love isnât perfect. Not by a longshot. There are fights, and jealousy, and sometimes feelings of distrust. There are nights when youâre too tired to cuddle, you just want to sleep, and your partner feels sad. There are days when everything seems to go wrong, and you might even snap at your lover by accident. You might go to bed angry at each other over something silly, and while they do say to never go to bed angry, itâs actually more healthy if you do, that way you both wake up with clear minds and can talk through things and apologize.
These things arenât ideal, but they are a part of love, and you have to take the good with the bad. For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, etc. (yes, I just quoted wedding vows, hush) These are the things that make your relationship stronger and cause you to love and appreciate each other more.
When you go through bad times, whether they be your fault or the universe giving you a giant middle finger, just remember what you have at the end of the day: someone who loves you. Think about the good times, laughing at stupid memes, or cooking your favourite meal with (or for) each other, or planning your future together. The bad days and fights and jealousy are not the end of the world, or our relationship. Theyâre a test to see if youâre worthy of the other person.
You have to take the bad days if you want to have the days of lounging around in your underwear munching all day, or going on walks through a part of town youâve never been, or waiting all day to see your sweetheart and kiss them ever so gently on the forehead.
And if youâre having a lovely day, but yall burn dinner by accident, laugh it off and treat yo self to takeout in your jammies. If your love gets caught in the rain with no umbrella on the way home from work, throw some towels in the dryer and warm your wet bae up. Never be afraid to show you care with the little things that would seem insignificant to most, itâs more appreciated than you know, and shows the other person you truly love them.
I know love can feel like rocket science sometimes, but just work through it, make sure your partner knows how much you care, and youâll never have to doubt if your love is true or not. You can get through any fight with time, patience, and understanding. You can overcome a jealous moment if you gently ask your partner about it. Feelings of distrust can be worked through with calm conversation, no yelling or accusations. Donât ever give up on someone you truly love just because of bad days. No relationship is perfect, and they can always be improved.
Remember, youâre only on this earth for a short time. Donât mess up your opportunities.
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