I only keep making new versions of this blog because I want to keep my avatar and header. For the aesthetic.
30, they/fae/he, tomboy femme lesbian (MEN DO NOT INTERACT), physically disabled (EDS/POTS/hypothyroid), neurodivergent (AuDHD, among other things), Jewish and antizionist, monogamous and taken
Do not interact if you’re a…..
Man: I AM A LESBIAN LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE OH MY GOD (note: this includes transgender men. Nonbinary transmascs and multigendered people are on a case by case basis)
Transmisogynist or transphobe: This includes, but does not limit to “radical” “feminists”, transmedicalists and those who exclude nonbinary people from the lesbian label, and transandrophobia truthers (trans men experience transphobia because they are TRANS but implying they’re oppressed because they’re MEN is kinda insane actually)
Minor: I have sfw posts that are okay to share I guess (though I still prefer you didn’t), but please understand that this boundary is just as important for you as it is for me. There are actual social and legal consequences to interacting with a minor in a sexual space, especially because I am both trans and Jewish, both of which cause people to distrust me around children enough as it is.
Zionist: This is not a safe space for you, and no one should be committing genocide. If you genuinely think that genocide is a justifiable answer for your “safe space” then you probably need a safer space. “But you’re lgbt and Jewish”!!! And I do not think an entire group of people should be bombed, tortured, raped, and starved, just because you think they’re all magically more homophobic than any other group of people. By that logic, I should shoot your grandma.
Racist: This includes people who appropriate black culture and refuse to stop when told their behavior is wrong. I don’t care if you’re poor, or neurodivergent, or queer, or whatever— it doesn’t make you less racist
Biphobes: Biphobic lesbians are weird. Your excuses for not dating bi women are weird.
If you are any of the aforementioned categories, expect a harsh DM from me because it’s the only way I can block someone from a side account; cis men will get the meanest DMs because they tend to cross my boundaries the most
That said, if I have accidentally (yes it’s always an accident) shared a post from a man and you want me to take it down, please politely let me know!!!! I’m not misgendering you on purpose if I reblog something from a man, it’s an honest mistake on my part
Sfw topics:
Aesthetic posts that suit my image as a femme
Aesthetic posts that suit my potential partner(s)
Activism posts (especially about butchphobia, transmisogyny, ableism, fatphobia, and racism)
The occasional shitpost
The occasional fandom post (especially dungeon meshi)
Nsfw topics
Please note that I am a sub
Stone sexuality; Like many (but not all!!! Femme tops please interact) femmes of old, I am pillow princess-adjacent, so I talk a lot about strap sucking and such. If I talk about cock, assume I am talking about strap, and vice versa
Monsterfucking; dragons, biblically accurate angels, and vampires are my favorite!! But I love all monsters ✿ (❁´▽`❁)*✲ﾟ*
Shibari; haven’t tried it yet but I really want to!!
Exhibitionism; why else would I post my nudes here for free (also I can’t be bothered to do sex work)
Edging: a full blown orgasm can often be overstimulating for me
Knights; nothing sexier than someone who knows how to wield a weapon!
Omegaverse; I want to submit to someone on a biological level (but also!!! I have read omegaverse fics that play with the dominance structures of ABO and they’re really cool!! Just because I’m an omega doesn’t mean I wouldn’t dom (✿´ ꒳ ` ))
Petplay; This is a pretty big kink for me, if I’m honest. I usually play as a fennec (note: my silly petplay fantasies are under #highly specific petplay)
Soft dominance: This is my preference as a sub! I’m a big weenie who needs tender, gentle scenes in order to feel comfortable
Body writing!! Preferably praise
Praise!!!!!! Please praise me!!!!! I’m definitely gonna blush a lot!!! It’s the kink that I joke is masochism to me because as much as I crave praise, I also will reflexively reject it.
I generally like them older (the oldest I think I would be willing to go is mid 60s) but I am not opposed to being with people a little younger!
Note: I am not looking for flirts right now!! I’m taken hehe
But friends can DM ཆི❤︎ཆྀ
