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PIERCE THE VEIL WILL PLAY KISSING IN CARS, HELL ABOVE, WONDERLESS, I’D RATHER DIE THAN BE FAMOUS, IM LOW ON GAS AND YOU NEED A JACKET AND HOLD ON TIL MAY AT LOUDER THAN LIFE

1. implies that queers are allied with every single woman, which keeps the phrase as is meant to be: made by nonqueer women for nonqueer women. (because, of course, queerness is only safe in its existence when nonqueer women don't feel threatened by it, being included at all times.)

2. implies men can only be there when they're gay (despite the fact that 'theys' is included and clearly meant to speak to transgender people alone), which immediately is both trans male erasure and "nonqueer guys don't belong at pride" rhetoric.

3. excludes gq/nonbinary people who use it/its and neopronouns/no pronouns, or people who use more than one pronoun set.

4. refers to the gq/nonbinary people who are included with their pronouns rather than their identities.

5. very noncoincidentally refers to girls, gays (presumed effeminate men) and 'theys' (presumed 'afabs') specifically. which could mean nothing.

Cis gay men are not always feminine and it's homophobic to force them all into the same group as all women

Not all cis het women are queer friendly, some girls suck and are evil. Cis het white women are often dangerous to gays and theys.

"They's" is a rude way to refer to all nonbinary people. Plenty of us use neo and xeno pronouns or he/she. For the same reasons you don't go around calling women "she's" don't do that to enbys.

These three groups aren't the same, have different goals and opinions and a lot of people in one group have harmed people in the other groups.