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So, I love giving blowjobs. I really think they’re really the greatest act of adoration you can give a man and if you really mean it, the greatest act of submission and here is why.

1. First, a proper blowjob should be given on your knees. Kneeling is a a natural sign of submission. You are putting the person you are kneeling in front of higher up than you, you kneeling towards your betters. People kneel for kings and gods, not just anyone.

2. You are using your mouth on someone’s cock. The thing you use to express your ideas and thoughts is used on someone'special genitals. You can be a genius but unless you can express your ideas you are just another dummy, and cock sucking restricts your ability to express yourself.

3. In the end you are marked. I firmly believe all blowjobs end in facial and or swallowing. How do animals mark their territory? By putting their scent (usually urine) on something. Well seen is the same, it’s a way to show ownership.

4. This comes back to number 2. You are using stating I don’t need constant air to live, I am okay with choking to suck your cock. I can a bit without a necessity of life as long as cock in mouth.

5. Finally, coming into vulnerable position. Like mentioned in number one, you are on your knees. A guy can do anything to you, he can grab your head and use your face as cunt, or he can he can smack you very easily. It’s a very vulnerable position.

It is a fact that ALL men, CAN cum with no stimulation to their penis.

All that is required is to not let your man cum under any circumstances, for any reason.  Before we show you how you can accomplish this, one might ask, “Why do I want to make my husband have an anal orgasm anyways?  The answer is simple.  The transformation that will occur during the following process, will be sure to make your man more obedient, a better and more attentive lover, and overall better partner in life in and out of the bedroom.

So lets begin…

Set The Stage.

The first thing you need to do is let your husband/boyfriend know your intentions.  Tell him know right now that you are going to run an experiment on him for your amusement.  Tell him it will be tough on him, but the reward at the end of your experiment will be well worth it.  Let him know that you are going to teach him how to have an “anal orgasm” where he will feel a full orgasm and cum without any stimulation to his cock whatsoever.  Let him know that when he has it, that it will be the most intense orgasm of his life, and that the wait for this will be worth it.  Also let him know that you do not know how long this will take, but it will involve lots of sex, but he is not allowed to cum.  (this will make him interested for sure.)

Stage 1.

Every day you must tease your husband or boyfriend.  You must make him hard, and if possible EDGE him every day.  This is where you bring him really close, and then stop prior to the point of no return. Also be sure to tease him verbally, and talk dirty to him.  Remind him how much you own him, and how he is to serve you.  Make him bring you to orgasm as many times as you like, and for him to do things like lick your ass.  This is a giant turn on for submissive men.

The main point of this stage, is to tease and deny for approximately 2-5 days following his last orgasm.

Stage 2.

This is very much the same as stage 1 except after 5 days, you will start to anally penetrate on a regular basis.  After you tease him and his cock is really hard, flip him over, and start working his ass.  Plant some triggers here while you are doing this.  Tell him how horny he is, and how much he likes it when you fuck his ass.  At this point, use your fingers, dildos, anything you have ever used in the past, and use lots of language to keep him turned on during this.  Let him know what a good anal slut he is for you, and that good boys get great rewards.  The point is, keep the tease and level of excitement high, while you penetrate his ass.

As you are using your dildo, fingers, strap on, or whatever you want, ask him how it feels best.  Slow it down, and speed it up, and try different things.  Get him to tell you what feels best.  Find out if slower or faster is better, and find the perfect speed that he likes a lot.  Don’t just take his word for it, judge by how his body is reacting along with what he is saying.

At this point it would be a good idea to do this at least once every second day.  Every day is better, and at the same time too, so it becomes something he expects. This is part of the brain conditioning that it will take for him to have release without stimulation to his cock.  For the ultimate and best results, at some point, switch to strap on only.  Teach him that this is the way good boys get fucked.  They get taken by their boss, where and however they want.  Use varying rhythms, and lots of verbalization as you take him each time.  Ask him to thank you, and let him know how much you are turned on by his obedience.  Always let him know that there is a big reward at the end of this experiment.  Also tell him while you are taking him with your strap on, that there is a big reward at the end of your strap on.

Stage 3.

Pretty much, keep on repeating stage 2.  Do it daily or at least very regularily.  Make sure you talk to him while you are doing it.  Make sure you make him hard everytime before you start doing this.  Train him that when he gets hard and horny, your strap on cock is going in his ass.  The more you do this, and the hornier he gets, the more he will crave your strap on.   At this point it is really only a matter of time.  The only rule you need to get from this point on, is that he does not get to cum EVER again normally UNTIL he blows his load from you anally entering him.  At some point his semen buildup will need to be released, and between your verbal encouragement, and cock teasing, it will happen. Definitely.  The only thing that will vary is the amount of time it takes, and this will vary due to these 2 conditions:

how old he is

how often he had orgasms before you started this experiment

Generally the older a person is, the longer this might take, and also the less frequent your man masturbated, or had orgasms, the longer it will take.

If your man is past 50, and only orgasms once per week, this might take up to 2 months.

If your man is 18 and is used to cumming multiple times per day, this might only take 3-4 days.

Most people will fall in the middle of this and will cum within 30 days of this type of training.

One thing is for sure though.  All men can cum through anal penetration only, and this exercise is to find out how long that is for your man regardless.

HE DOES NOT GET TO CUM AGAIN NORMALLY ONCE YOU START THIS UNTIL HE DOES BY ANAL PENETRATION ONLY.

Some women elect to make this the new way PERMANANTLY after this happens.

Why?  Because keeping your man in a suspended horny state that only cums from anal penetration at your control, will make your man more obedient, compliant, better lover, better house boy for doing chores, and much, much more.  This experiment will open both of your eyes to a world of extreme production of the male, and blissfulness for the woman.

HAPPY ANAL TRAINING!

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I posted this on another forum and thought it could be usefull here too. Maybe you guys after reading it will have some tips or erotic ideas for me too. Anal Stretching Guide:

Do the Following with lots of Lube(no numbing lube, pain is a useful indicator) and patience. There should be no pain. If there’s pain slow down or maybe wait an hour.

Anal Sex and Anal Play are a lot about noticing certain sensations and training your mind to feel pleasure from them.

1) Start slow with a finger and do circles around your sphincter. Feel the bumps as you glide over them, and more importantly relax into the feeling

When you feel relaxed procede to 2.

2)Push on the side of your sphincter (not right in the center) until you’re asshole bends a bit. Then push the finger in. Take note of the sensations. If this is something you want to enjoy then you have to appreciate it. Pull on the sides of your asshole in different directions. Get used to the stretching feeling. Pain here is not good. But the stretching feeling is a little different then pain. Dont overdo it and go slow.

When you feel relaxed more, pull your asshole one way and insert another finger. Again the sensations. Pause your fingers and bite down on them with your anus. Try and hold it for a few seconds and relax. Pull on the sides of your asshole again. Enjoy the stretching and keep repeating it until your asshole feels more relaxed.

3) I recommend a medium size butt plug to help train your ass simply because the small ones are too tiny. Remove your fingers and take in the feeling of emptiness. Then grab the buttplug and, after a generous amount of lubing, slowly work it in.

Keep inserting until you start to feel a little bit of pain or that stretching feeling. Ease back and little bit and bite down on the plug as hard as you can(try not the let the plug slip out. You want to start your bite at a point close to your limit. Keep your hard bite on the plug and slid it out (dont let it exit you completely) Then push it back in. You want to tire out your asshole so it loses its bite, so you need to work the muscle till it gets tired. Keep repeating this until you can work the plug into your asshole. You can feel free to take pauses if you’d like, just dont remove the plug unless it really needs Lube. I’ve found my anal experience to be better if nothing needs to exit and reenter me. (sliding is ok, but I have issues with a full exit).

Again concentrate on the sensations. This is something you want to enjoy. Essentially use buttplugs and dildos to work your way up to bigger things and pain should never be an issue. Make sure you can get used to the circumference before you get used to the fucking motions. Just buy a 3 set of butt plugs. One small. One medium. One large. Insert small plug in your ass. Leave it there until it hurts. Take it out and clean.

Do it again for longer the next day. Keep doing this until you can leave it in for multiple hours. Keep going until you can fit in the medium one. Keep going until you can fit the large one.

This may take several months.

This is an old story that I wrote a few years ago. This was my first attempt at writing erotic fiction. I’m sure there are some typos as it is difficult to proofread your own work. I hope you enjoy it.

The Weekend

It finally happened. My wife and I finally got a weekend at home by ourselves. My parents had called and wanted to keep the kids this upcoming weekend. I told them that that was fine and made the appropriate plans. My wife was to bring the kids to my parents’ house after she got off work, as I worked later than she did. Later, we decided that we would just catch a movie on Friday night and just relax around the house for the remainder of the weekend. We knew that this was not an extremely romantic plan, but we really needed a weekend to just relax. We would meet my parents Sunday for lunch and to get the children back. That was the agreed upon plan. My wife, however, had decided to make this weekend unforgettable. When I arrived home Friday evening, I was greeted at the door with a deep, passionate kiss from my wife. The only thing that she had on was her terry-cloth robe. I quickly stepped the doorway and shut the door behind me, not once removing my lips from hers. I opened up her robe to reveal her beautiful breasts. I put an arm around her and pulled her closer to me as we continued to kiss. My other arm fell between her legs and gently started to rub her. She then started to undo my pants. She then jerked my pants and underwear to the floor and started stroking me. Soon, we were both naked and making love in the middle of the living room floor. Once we recovered, we decided that we should get some showers before we left for the theater. On our way to the bathroom my wife asked me if I was feeling a little adventurous tonight. Had I been in my right mind at the time, I would have suspected something. What I told her was that I was up for anything that she might have planned for the evening. With that, she gave my butt a gentle rub and reached up to give me a quick kiss. Before we got into the shower, I was informed that all of my body hair had to go. She then started smearing this cream all over my body and told me to stand still while she got the water ready. Once the water was ready, she told me that I could go ahead and rinse off the cream. I hopped in and rinsed the cream and my bodily hair down the drain. Just as I finished rinsing the stuff off, she joined me in the shower and said that I looked much better without all that hair. We then decided to wash one another and that I should go first. While I washed her, I made sure to spend extra time in certain “key” areas that I felt needed the extra attention. She then showed her appreciation when it was her turn. She took her time washing my nether regions and insured their cleanliness by giving them a good tongue bath. We eventually emerged from the shower and my wife told me that I should go ahead and shave my face while she located our clothes. I told her that as long as the night continued its current course of action that I would be happy to. We dried off, donned our robes, and set about our appointed tasks. I was just finishing up, when my wife came in holding her clothes and told me that mine were on the bed. She said that we would get dressed quicker if we done it in separate rooms. I told her that was fine and headed through the door. As soon as I looked on the bed I realized why my body was hairless. On the bed lay a lacey black bra, matching panties, a short khaki skirt, a shirt, a pair of white sandals, and a closed box. I started to protest, but she reminded me that I said that I was up for anything. Being a man of word, I reluctantly told her okay. She then urged me to go ahead and put on what I could and that she would help with the items that I couldn’t manage on my own. With that, she went into the bathroom and shut the door. The first thing that I had to do was find out what was in the box. Inside I found a pair of falsies. Apparently she planned on making this as realistic as possible. I put on the clothes she had laid out for me. Yes, I even managed the bra. I had seen her put them on backwards and turn them around. So I figured that I could do the same. For some reason I found that getting dressed in these things was really turning me on. Shortly after I finished getting dressed, my wife entered and whistled her approval. I turned to see hear wearing a short dress that just almost touched her knees and a pair of sandals similar to the ones that were on my feet. She had already applied her makeup and her hair was pulled up with a clip. She was looking extremely hot and I told her that I wanted her right then. She smiled and said that there would be plenty of time for that later. She told me that she had to finish getting me ready. I followed her back to the bathroom where she applied my makeup. She even painted my fingernails and toenails. She then pulled my shoulder length brown hair back into a simple ponytail and tied a ribbon at its base. Then she handed me a pair of clip-on hoops to put on while she grabbed me a purse. She decided that it would be best if she drove and I agreed. We then headed for the car. Once we arrived at the drive-in theater, we found a parking spot and decided to just relax and listen to the radio while we waited for the movie to start. As the sun went down, my wife’s hand started sliding up my skirt. She looked at with a smirk on her face and said that this was why she wanted me dressed the way I was. She then slid my panties to one side and pulled out my manhood. She gently started stroking me to the rhythm of the music. I reached over, slid my hand under dress, and discover that she wasn’t wearing any panties. She just grinned and said: “See, easy access.” As I went to slide my finger into her, I discovered that she was already rather damp. It wasn’t long before we had worked each other into a fever pitch. We quickly decided that we should behave ourselves like good little girls and actually watch the movie that was about to start. That lasted for about two minutes before we were at it again. We went back and forth bringing each other to point of climax without actually achieving it throughout the entire movie. As the second movie was getting ready to start, we decided that it would be best if we went home and continued out extra-curricular activities in private. After we got home, we decided to get some quick showers separately before the festivities began. As I was getting out of the shower, my wife handed me a bag, said that I should put on what was inside, and to put my hair up in pigtails. I told her that I would and headed toward the bedroom. I opened up the bag to find a light blue babydoll with a matching pair of panties and two strips of light blue ribbon. I put on the lingerie and put my hair up as instructed. I even tied the ribbons into nice little bows at the base of each pigtail. I decided to watch a little television while I waited on my wife to emerge from the shower. I was still flipping through the channels when my wife came into the room wearing a lavender chemise and matching robe. She smiled at me seductively and told me that I looked cute in my new outfit. She came over and gave me a long passionate kiss. That was when I realized that she was trying to hide something from me. I looked down and noticed an unusual bulge between her legs. I reached out and discovered that she was wearing a strap-on dildo. She then grabbed me by my pigtails, lowered my head to the tip of her phallus, and told me to go down on her like she does me. I started bobbing my head up and down on her pole as she moaned her approval. Once she was properly aroused, she pulled me up, removed my panties, and pushed me onto the bed. She then spread my legs and slid her cock into my butt. I screamed at the sudden invasion of my anus. Once I was used to the invader, she started slowly working her way in and out of me. Before long, I was moaning with pleasure. She started building up speed and I started begging for more. I had never felt anything like this and hoped that it would never stop. Just as she was reaching her climax, I exploded and shot my juices all over the both of us. She continued to have her way with me until she finished her orgasm. She then pulled out of me and collapsed next to me. We both just lay there until we started to recover.  She slipped out of her harness and started to manually and orally bring me back to life. I murmured my approval as she continued to polish my pole. Once I was back to my full length and girth, she pulled me on top her and told me that she needed me inside her now. Unfortunately, it didn’t take near as long to hit our second climax as we would have liked. After we hit the second time, I almost collapsed onto her and we both fell soundly asleep until morning.  I awoke the next morning with a slight throbbing in my anus from the pounding that it took the night before. I quietly slid out of bed and headed toward the bathroom and a shower. As I entered the bathroom, I had to stifle a chuckle at the image in the mirror. Here I was in a wrinkled light blue babydoll, untied ribbons hanging from pigtails that were now loose, and dried cum on my belly. I went ahead and let my hair down and laid the ribbons on the counter before relieving myself and hopping in the shower. As I was finishing up my shower, I started to wonder if last night was the start of a theme for the weekend or if it was a one-time deal. About that time, I heard the bathroom door open and was soon joined by my wife. She pulled me close for a kiss and then asked me if I was okay with what we had done last night. I told her that I had and that I enjoyed myself a lot more than I thought I would. She smiled and said that was good, because she was hoping that her new girlfriend would stay for the rest of the next day and a half. I smiled at her and said that I was sure she would. With that I was rewarded with a deep kiss.  She pulled away after a few moments and I could see the lust in her eyes. She came closer and started rubbing my nether regions. Leaned up into my ear and told me that I needed to take her right then. Who was I to argue with her? We hastily made our way out to the bed, still dripping from the shower. I don’t think either of us had been that eager since our wedding night.  As we recovered, we decided that if I was going to be her girlfriend for the weekend that we need to come up with a feminine name for me. We decided on Allison or Ally for short. My wife then told me that I should stay in bed until she got her shower and got dressed before I got rinsed off and dressed. Then she would do my hair and makeup before we went to fix breakfast. She reappeared from the bathroom in a floral sun dress that almost came down to her knees and white sandals. Her hair pulled back from her face with a small clip. She had small hoop earrings in and minimal makeup on. She said she wanted to be feminine, but comfortable. I told her that if she got uncomfortable that I would be more than happy to help her out of her clothes. She smirked and told me that that wasn’t very lady like of me. I laughed and asked her if I looked like a lady to her. She said no, but that would soon change. She then told me that it was my turn. So, I got up and went to rinse off. When I stepped out of the shower, my wife was there waiting on me. She told me to dry off and put my hair up in a towel while I got dressed and she did my makeup. As I finished drying off, she handed me some pink satin and lace boyshorts and a matching bra. Then, she handed me the falsies from last night. Next, she handed me a pink cotton wrap-styled dress. I asked her if she was going for some kind of theme. She just said that she thought that she would make sure that I would feel as feminine as possible today. I told her that she was doing a good job of that. She then handed me the white sandals that I had worn the night before. Now that I was fully dressed, she sat me down in a chair and started working on my makeup. I didn’t need to shave since my facial hair grows slowly and I had shaved that night before. Once she was done with the makeup, she undid the towel on my head and got to work on my hair. She started blow drying my hair and I kind of zoned out for awhile. Part of me was wondering how I let myself get talked into this and part of me was just enjoying the moment and all the pampering. The next thing I knew she told me she was done and to look in the mirror. She had French-braided my hair and left some face-framing tendrils fall on either side of my face. She had even woven in some small pink ribbon into the braid and used the ends to tie off a bow at end of the braid. With the makeup and hair done, I no longer saw myself, but an attractive woman staring at me in the mirror. I was speechless at the job she had done. I was taken out of my trance by the rumble from my stomach. My wife laughed and she guessed it was time fix breakfast. I had to agree, but before we went to the kitchen she attached the earrings from last night and placed a silver heart-shaped pendant necklace around my neck. She then gave me quick peck on the cheek and said that she thought that I was beautiful. I just blushed and thanked her. Saturdays are usually my day to fix breakfast and this day was no exception. Well, there were a couple of changes to the normal routine besides my feminine appearance. On this day everyone in the house was already awake. Usually the kids come in about halfway through and go watch cartoons until I finish. My wife usually comes in right as I’m finishing up. Today, however, she sat at the kitchen bar and we made small talk while I set about getting things going.  I have to admit that I rather enjoyed the feel of the dress swishing about as I moved around in the kitchen getting things set up. I didn’t really notice it the night before while in the skirt. That probably had to do with my fear of being seen by the neighbors and the fact I basically just walked to the car and back. Now, however, I was relaxed and doing a lot more moving about than the night before. It was kind of trippy to see and feel my “breasts” bouncing while I moved around, too. I also noticed my wife staring at my rear from time to time whenever she thought I wasn’t paying attention. I don’t know if she knew that I saw her, but I have to admit that it was a bit of a turn-on for me to know that she was checking me out like that.  While I was working on getting the skillet hot, I heard my wife yell for me to wait a second. I gave her a funny look and asked why. She said that I needed an apron on before I started cooking anything. I must have given her a funny look again, because she went on tell me that the reason I needed an apron was so that I didn’t mess up my pretty pink dress. I told her that we don’t own any aprons, but that I would be extra careful. She thought for a second and finally agreed with me. A few minutes later, we were sitting at the dining room eating our eggs, bacon, and toast.  After breakfast, we decided to go relax on the couch and watch some TV. We didn’t quite get that far, though. My wife was behind me and told me that my butt had been driving her crazy all morning and she was going to have to have some of it soon. I decided to play along. I looked back at her, raised the hem of the dress a little, and told her that she could have as much as she wanted. That was all it took for her pounce. We were soon making out like teenagers on the couch. After a few minutes, she pulled away and told me that she would be right back. She came back with tent under her dress. I told her that I had just the place for her to put that thing. Within moments, I was bent over the arm of the couch with my dress hiked up and my panties in the floor. She had her hands on my hips and was having her way with me. I was moaning in pleasure. I never thought that I would enjoy having my backdoor used like this, but now I don’t think I could ever get enough. The night before it was enjoyable, but this morning it was even better. I could also tell that she seemed to be enjoying it more this morning, too. When my wife hit hers, she slammed her member deep inside me as she pulled my hips tight towards hers. She then undid her harness while still leaving me filled, had me lean back on the couch, and went down on me. She bobbed up and down on me while working the dildo in and out my anus. Needless to say, it didn’t take long before I filled her mouth with my cream. She left the dildo in me as she crawled into my lap, grabbed my face, and passionately kissed me. It was then that I realized that she hadn’t swallowed my load. I found my mouth getting filled with my own cream. It wasn’t as bad as would have thought it would be and she made sure that I swallowed it before she released me.  As she pulled away, she told me that she might have to have me again real soon. I told her that she could have me anytime she wanted. With that she laughed and called me a slut. I just grinned and told her that I was her slut. She smiled and told me that we were each other’s sluts. At that I had to laugh. We soon got ourselves put back together and cuddled up next to one another on the couch.  After awhile, my wife asked me to sit in the floor so that she could play with my hair. I said okay and got into position. Part of me didn’t want her to undo the braided look that I was currently wearing, but the other part was curious to see what she would with my hair next. Plus it always feels awesome when she plays with my hair. If her fingers are messing with my hair, I have no worries. This time was no exception.  As my wife was messing with my hair, she started chatting about various things. She mentioned several different things that she might do with my hair that would be cute. She mentioned a couple of times about how much she would like to see me as a red-head. She started musing about how if we had more time that she would totally take me to the salon to get my hair dyed and to get us both manicures and pedicures. She was really getting excited about having a girls’ day. In the back of mind, I was thought that that would be cool, but wondered when we would get a chance to do something like that.  Before I knew it, it was lunch time and I was now sporting a high ponytail with the pink ribbons tied in a bow at the base. It wasn’t as ornate as the braid, but I thought it still looked good. She even left the tendrils loose on either side of my face like she did with the braided look. I rather enjoyed the way my hair swayed as I moved my head. Usually, if my hair is in a ponytail, it is low. So, this was a nice change. She told me that she wanted to do something different with my hair, but that she didn’t have anything else to use. I assured her that it was fine and that she could always change it later. I got up and was smoothing out my dress when she asked me where I wanted to go for lunch. I had panic course through my body at the thought of being out in public during daylight hours dressed like I was. It was one thing to dress like this at home or at night where I stayed in the car, but I just knew someone would find me out if I went out dressed like this during the day. We lived in a small town. So, I just knew someone would figure it out. She must have seen the stark terror in my eyes, because she took me by my hands and looked up at me with her big brown eyes and told me that everything was going to be okay. She then told me that she had worded the question wrong. What she meant to say was that she was going to go get lunch and wanted to know where I wanted lunch from. It felt like someone had taken a load of bricks off of my shoulders. She then smiled and said that one day she would like to show off her new girlfriend, but that our hometown was not the place for that. I finally got my heart rate back down to normal and placed my lunch order. While my wife was gone, I took the opportunity to walk around the house and enjoy the swishing of the dress and ponytail. I’m pretty sure that I twirled around a bit to further magnify the experience. I just couldn’t believe the turn of events that had led to me being dressed completely en femme parading around the house while I waited for my wife to bring home lunch. It was then that I realized just how crazy the weekend had been so far and the fact that both of us were not only okay with things, but they we were really enjoying ourselves. It also hit me just how little time I had left to be Allison and the fact that I didn’t know when, if ever, I could be her again. I sat down in my recliner, kicked my sandals off, pulled my feet up under me, and decided that I would just enjoy the ride for as long as it would last. 

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

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Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

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Alternative Names For “Daddy”

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Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

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What It Means To Be A Dominant

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26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

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Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

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Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

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How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

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Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

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Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

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Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

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Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

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10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

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Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

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Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

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Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

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The Rewards of a Submissive

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Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

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Limits in BDSM

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How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

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Sex

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Basics of Breath Play

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Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

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Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

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Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

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Guide To Wax Play

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Introduction To BDSM

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A sissy faggot is indeed a complex animal. She is definitely not a man and not really a woman. A sissy faggot is usually a closeted crossdresser who wishes to be a whore for men. He has a “public” life and usually presents himself as straight to everyone even though he knows deep down inside that his true purpose and desire is to be or to be turned into a gay homo fag. A lot of sissy faggots have their first experience crossdressing at an early age. Maybe they tried on their mother’s panties or they played around with makeup. These early experiences are very important in the blossoming of a sissy later on in life. Many sissies are young, in college, and are looking for daddies who will make them feel feminine. If these young sissies are provided with the right encouragement and attention at an early stage, they will almost always start taking hormones and successfully transition. The other kind of sissy faggot is the one who hasn’t had this early life development. Over the course of years, they perfect their lie of being straight to the point that they convince even themselves. At some point, they get married and have kids. Then the realization sets in that they don’t actually want to be a man. but they don’t wanna let go of this fake life. This is a great dilemma that many sissies face. In this series of writings, we will explore the complex nature and psychology of sissies. Hopefully, in reading this, you will learn about who you truly are. 

1. The Big Cock Effect: from “straight” man to cock-addict

We can define two aspects that can make a “straight” male finally realize that they are a sissy: dick size and porn Dick size: Males are obsessed with the size of their cocks. Is it big enough? Am I too small? Is my erection strong enough? Males are worried that a woman might find them too small. Men are told that they have a small dick as a form of insult. It means that they aren’t fit to be a man. We live in a modern world with a lot of sexual pressure coming from TV, movies, and society but we can’t deny that it is also something that they are born with, sissies will realize that they have always been a bit feminine and smaller than other men. All this pressure builds up insecurities which most men can handle because they have the size to back it up but for a sissy who knows he is too small, it can destroy their confidence as a man. This is one of the reasons that more and more beta males are realizing that they were born to be sissies. This “confidence crusher” is actually a blessing in disguise for sissies. Many participants of the sissy lifestyle start out being unsatisfied with the size of their small “dicks”. Instead of trying to make their dicks larger (which is impossible) they accept their inferior dick size and rename it a “clit”. This helps them cope with the fact that their dick is too small and that they will never please a woman. It becomes a symbol of pride and they strive to make their “clit” smaller and more limp. By “ruining” their “dick”, they are  breaking themselves free of the heavy and soul-crushing chains of masculinity. They will never look back and want to return to a life of shame and depression. Porn: Sissies may try out the “straight” lifestyle at first. They try dating girls but can’t get hard during sex or they are made fun of for having a small dick. The girl usually breaks up with them and this makes them depressed. The depression makes their dick even limper. The beta male then starts watching many hours of porn hoping that watching sexual content will help them get hard but it has the opposite effect. They watch so many porn that they become desensitized and induces erectile dysfunction. This puts the beta male into a state of panic and they become more depressed, their dick becomes more dysfunctional and their porn preferences change from normal straight fucking to more extreme forms of entertainment like bukkake, creampie gangbangs, etc. They are only excited by the most extreme forms of straight porn that they can possibly find. Usually the porn they begin to prefer includes some worship and focus around cum.  They are now obsessed with porn. It is the only thing that gives them excitement. They are not even concerned about their small dick anymore. They can only get hard from watching porn. They love watching the porn actress obsess over cum. They constantly hear the words: “I love cum!” “I love big cocks” “I am a cum slut” “I’m a filthy disgusting cum dump whore"  These words and phrases begin to be associated with a state of sexual excitement in the subconscious. The beta male starts to fall in love with the idea of a whore but can’t imagine her sucking his cock since he is too small to please her but enjoys seeing other bigger men use the whore. This is the beginning of the development of a cuckolding fetish. He begins to admire the strength, vigor, cock length, and aggressiveness of a real man. He watches more porn of guys with big cocks (usually black men impaling white pussies) and literally fucks his mind. He’s frustrated because he can’t have a girlfriend but then realizes that he doesn’t need a girlfriend. He wants to fall in love with a whore who shares a mutual interest: a love and obsession with big cocks. The beta male also craves to be humiliated by a woman for having such a small dick. Congratulations! You are officially a O.C.C.L (Obsessive Compulsive Cock Lover)

2.1 Profiling a Sissy

Ich möchte damit wir uns besser finden eine Liste erstellen. Herzlich eingeladen an dieser mitzuarbeiten sind alle Sissies, Crossdresser, Transvestiten oder ähnliche und auf der Suche nach Gleichgesinnten sind.

Wichtig dafür wären nur euer Tumblr-Nutzername und Wohnort. Wenn ihr wollt könnt ihr auch Alter und eine kurze Beschreibung abgeben. Je präziser ihr seid, desto besser.

Ich werde sobald ich mindestens 10 Interessenten zusammen habe in regelmäßigen Abständen (2-3 Mal pro Woche) eine aktuelle Liste mit euren Mini-Steckbriefen posten. Dabei überprüfe ich auch, ob eure Accounts noch aktiv sind. Sollte das nicht der Fall sein, fallt ihr aus der Liste raus.

Wichtig: Schickt mir die Infos per Messenger, für Kontaktdaten in den Kommentaren übernehme ich keine Haftung. Bitte schreibt mir ausdrücklich, dass es mir von euch erlaubt ist, eure Nutzernamen und gewünschte Daten auf dieser Liste bei Tumblr zu veröffentlichen. Nach der DSGVO seid ihr jederzeit in der Lage eure Zustimmung zur Veröffentlichung hier auf Tumblr zu widerrufen. Danach ist es aber nicht möglich alte Posts zu löschen, die bereits im Umlauf sind. Möchtet ihr es also irgendwann nicht mehr, werdet ihr nur auf den neuen Posts nicht mehr erscheinen.

So viel Text als Vorsichtsmaßnahme. Ich hoffe ihr unterstützt mich bei dem Gedanken und bin gespannt auf euer Feedback.

#1 – Be able to host

#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.

#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to

#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat. 

#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better

#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.

#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break

#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.

#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.

#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.

#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.

#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.

#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.

#14 – If he touches his nipples while you are sucking him, you should reach up and offer to work them with your hands for him.

#15 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.

#16 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.

#17 – Never touch your cock when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.

#18 – Always provide amyl (poppers) if they enjoy using them. Allow him to use the poppers as much as he likes, and never use them yourself unless he puts the bottle under your nose. Never reach for them and never ask for them. There is nothing worse than a cock sucker that constantly stops sucking to sniff more poppers. Let him decide how much you get, and when.

#19 – Always provide porn from him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.