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the guy who changed “multiple personality disorder” to “dissociative identity disorder” in the 90s didnt do it because of a better understanding of the disorder or the “science” (there is none). he openly admits that he did it because he doesnt believe that multiplicity exists, he thinks that all systems are fakes, and his hands were tied even as the chair of the DSM committee so changing the definition was the “next best thing” to striking MPD from the DSM entirely.

they dont know anything. do you hear me? do you get it? they make these DSM decisions arbitrarily, based on the opinions of whichever wealthy, privileged, neurotypical white male shrinks happen to be on the committee at the time. the DSM is not a tome filled with Absolute Truth. its FINE if your identity is based on being a Trauma Holder or a Protector or a Traumagenic DID System, thats FINE, but we have to remember, we have to really internalize this: they Do Not Believe In Us. they dont know shit. there is no scientific proof that early childhood trauma is the only way to be multiple, or that the DID/OSDD definitions actually mean anything at all. they were written in an attempt to discredit any multiples who were easier targets, in an effort to get rid of us, in order for one guy to be able to say “i dont believe they exist AT ALL but fine, fine, if anyone at all really IS a special snowflake system then its SUPER RARE and can only happen this One Specific Way because i said so Science”

brains and experiences are weird and we dont know hardly anything about them, about ourselves. be kind to one another. be kind. your experiences are not universal. endogenic systems have EXACTLY as much Scientific Evidence of their existence as DID systems: none at all. dont let some musty old ableist prick define someone else out of existence just to make yourself feel more valid.

ablednt

Also it’s so wild to me how much some of y'all cling to psychiatry as some ally to “real” systems.

Back when MPD was a label used systems diagnosed with it were denied treatment if they interacted with anyone else with MPD because psychs were so scared of them advocating for themselves. This also included if they were part of support groups for abuse and trauma survivors that let systems be themselves and talk abt members like real people, cause it was more important to isolate systems from important healing resources rather than letting them make other plural friends and gain allies.

Onno Van Der Hart lost his license for physical abuse. The entire structutal theory of dissociation was made up by him specifically for the excuse to abuse his patients. “You’re broken and not real people and only I can cure you” is the entire fucking point of that theory. It’s inherently eugenics and abusive as hell and y'all don’t fucking care praising an actual proven abuser i guess

Even dissociative specialists often know jack shit about systemhood because they Don’t Study From Systems they study a bunch of shit neurotypical white men made up but sure I’ll trust them with my mental health and autonomy/s

tmgstudios-old

for anyone who wants proof of the guy who changed mpd thinking all systems are fake: an article from the man himself. he doesnt even try to hide it https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/saving-normal/201401/multiple-personality-mental-disorder-myth-or-metaphor

Why multiple personality disorder fads come and go.

#saving this here btw #don't mind us zecori

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funghoul-nbmlm

yall know that people can have low empathy, even zero empathy, and still.. care about the wellbeing of others? not feeling empathy doesnt make someone a heartless monster. people without empathy can still like.. care about people yall know that right

#the answer is they don't know op :T #gen

weetbeex

Just a reminder that compassion is a choice whereas empathy is not!

Empathy: the ability to feel what another person is feeling or to immediately recognise when somebody is feeling a certain way.

Compassion: wanting to support or help somebody.

I’ve seen the word empathy being thrown around endlessly to describe somebody caring and it’s a little disheartening being equated to being a bad person for my low levels of empathy just because I don’t know how others are feeling or I can’t experience what they’re feeling. Autistic people can experience low empathy, mentally ill people can experience low empathy and it doesn’t make us bad or evil.

#YEAH

authoreli-deactivated20210419

some post on tumblr: hey shipping incest or minor/adult ships is weird and i don’t associate w/ people who do it. it’s sorta strange and i think it often portrays a weird disregard for others in fandom spaces and creative communities in general, and i think it’s sorta creepy lmao

three hundred adults in the notes, going into varying states of hysteria: It Is Not My Job To Be Your Moral Compass. Shipping Hurts Nobody. Fiction Doesn’t Affect Reality. Think Critically Before You Post. I Hate You Personally. Kids These Days Are Trying To Send Us Back To Puritanism. You Are Personally Trying To Burn Books And Censor Creative Expression. I’m Twenty-Seven And I Argue With Teenagers On Tumblr Thrice Daily And You Cannot Stop Me Because I Think My Entitlement To Consume BakuDeku Omegaverse AO3 Smut Outweighs Yours To State Your Discomfort With My Presence In A Minor-Dominated Space.

#gen #Yeah

honeynarcissus

something that pisses me off about self-proclaimed “empaths” (which is an occult term, it’s not supposed to just mean “high empathy”) is that despite all their claims that they’re so empathetic - they can’t seem to grasp the truth that disorders don’t make anyone abusive or evil. no one. no one is inherently abusive or evil due to things they cannot control. it’s absolutely disgusting to say otherwise. it’s ableist to claim that a disorder is the root of someone’s awfulness.

give them the credit of their own actions, hold people accountable. stop blaiming it on something that doesn’t apply, stop deflecting the root of the abuse: the abuser themself. abuse is 100%, always, the abusers choice. no tragic backstory, no disorder, no “split personality”, it’s the abuser themself. they choose to be that way. having depression doesn’t make someone more likely to emotionally neglect you, having NPD, ASPD, BPD, DID, schizo-spec disorders etc does not make someone more likely to abuse you. it’s 100% the abusers fault and choice. stop talking like disorders are evil. stop talking like disorders make someone awful, manipulative, and abusive. they don’t. it’s an individual choice and painting a bunch of shitty people as one thing (narcissist, sociopath, psychopath, etc) is harmful. it’s disgusting.

through this, you are telling everyone with a related disorder that they are evil and there’s nothing they can do about it. disorders are fucking awful for the people who have them. you’re saying that everyone with said disorder, no matter how much they’re struggling or trying to be functional, is an awful person. you’re disregarding each and every single person that’s trying to manage their disorder by acting empathetic even when they completely lack empathy. you’re disregarding the choice of the actual abusers.

quit diagnosing people with disorders you don’t understand. quit diagnosing people with disorders you’ve deemed “evil” because you watch tv and tv said so. quit using disorder terms as synonyms for “shitty abusive person”. it doesn’t matter if you’re a “psych student” or a “counselor” either, because you still clearly don’t know shit. talk to some actual people instead of relying on mayo-clinic for once. leave us the fuck alone.

#YEAH #gen

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katesgf-deactivated20210623

People will say that they’re all about respecting sa survivors until it comes to victims of incest. Will expand later.

katesgf-deactivated20210623

Overall I’ve found that people, most likely subconsciously, don’t think that incest can be traumatic. When I told my therapist that I was sexually abused she was so supportive. She told me that it wasn’t my fault. That what happened doesn’t define me. That I can always tell her about this stuff without fear of judgment or rejection. That whatever happened, my trauma is valid. Then I told her that it was from someone in my family, and her tone switched immediately. All of a sudden it couldn’t have actually been that bad. What I was describing most be an overexaggeration. “It’s normal for families to show their love in different ways,” she said. “There most have been a miscommunication.” She didn’t listen to me anymore. I told her the worst of what happened in graphic detail, but none of that mattered. We were related. There’s no way that actually happened. And this is far from an isolated incident. I got blocked by one of my favorite cosplayers, one that was vocal about protecting minors and respecting triggers, for saying that incest survivors getting triggered by the twins, even if they are supposed to be satire or an act, is s valid reason to not watch ohshc. Both online and irl, people who vocally opposed to joking about sexual abuse would make incest jokes and even joke about my experiences explicitly. There’s a widespread belief in our society that incest is funny or not a real issue. And most activists not only refuse to acknowledge that this is an issue, but get upset when you try to educate them on it. This belief keeps getting spread, and it actively keeps us from being believed, from getting treatment, from getting justice. This belief keeps us silent and lets our abusers go free.

If you aren’t an incest survivor you are legally obligated to reblog this

#gen #incest ment //

felgueirosa

Re: the conversation on the colonialism and racism of cottagecore, it’s very clear that Europeans think indigenous people don’t exist where they live or that they’re indigenous because they’re Irish or whatever the fuck, so as a Vaqueira, I think it’s time Europeans start understanding whose land they’re on and that there are indigenous people everywhere, so i’ve made a short, incomplete list of indigenous and nomadic peoples of Europe. Feel free to look up more about them, especially if you’re living on their land:

Abazins (Russia, Georgia, Abkhazia)

Adyghe/Circassian people (Russia, Turkey)

Aromanians/Vlachs (Greece, Romania, Albania, Serbia, North Macedonia, Bulgaria)

Ashkali Romani (Kosovo, Albania, North Macedonia)

Avars (Russia)

Balkars (Russia)

Bashkirs (Russia)

Bats people (Georgia)

Bergitka Romani (Poland, Slovakia, Hungary)

Boyash Romani (Romania, Hungary, Croatia, Serbia, Slovakia)

Boykos (Ukraine, Hungary, Slovakia, Poland)

Calé Romani (Spain, Portugal, France)

Cascarot Romani (France, Spain)

Chechens (Chechnya, Russia)

Crimean Tatars (Crimea)

Dargins (Russia)

Erlides Romani (Greece)

Erromintxela (Spain, France)

Finnish Kale Romani (Finland, Sweden)

Gagauz people (Moldova, Ukraine)

Gorani people (Kosovo, Albania, North Macedonia)

Gurbet Romani (Bosnia & Herzegovina, Serbia, Kosovo)

Hutsuls (Ukraine, Romania)

Ingush (Russia)

Irish Travellers (Ireland, UK)

Izhorians (Russia, Estonia)

Kalderash Romani (Romania, Ukraine, Bulgaria, Russia)

Karelians (Finland, Russia)

Komi people (Russia)

Kven people (Norway)

Laks (Russia)

Laz people (Turkey, Georgia)

Lemkos (Ukraine, Slovakia, Poland)

Lezgins (Russia, Azerbaijan)

Lipka Tatars (Poland, Lithuania, Belarus)

Livonians (Latvia, Estonia)

Lom people (Armenia, Georgia)

Lovari Romani (Hungary, Slovakia, Poland, Czechia, Germany)

Manouche Romani (France)

Maragatos (Spain)

Mari people (Russia)

Mingrelians (Georgia)

Mordvins (Russia)

Norwegian Travellers/Fanter (Norway)

Ossetians (Russia, South Ossetia, Georgia)

Pasiegos (Spain)

Polska Roma (Poland)

Mercheros (Spain)

Romanichal (UK)

Romanisæl (Norway, Sweden)

Ruska Roma (Russia, Ukraine, Belarus)

Sámi people (Sweden, Norway, Finland, Russia)

Sarakatsani (Greece, Bulgaria, Albania, North Macedonia)

Scottish Travellers/Indigenous Highland Travellers (UK)

Servitka Roma (Ukraine, Russia)

Setos (Estonia, Russia)

Sinti (Germany, Austria, France, Italy, Switzerland, Czechia, Netherlands, Belgium, Serbia, Croatia)

Tat people (Azerbaijan, Georgia, Russia)

Udi people (Azerbaijan, Armenia, Russia, Georgia)

Udmurts (Russia)

Ursari Romani (Romania, Bulgaria, Moldova, Serbia, Italy)

Vaqueiros de Alzada (Spain)

Veps (Russia)

Volga Tatars (Russia)

Welsh Kale Romani (UK)

Yeniche people (Germany, France, Belgium, Switzerland, Austria, Luxembourg)

Also to mention:

The millions of Jews whose homes, property, and land was stolen and never returned when they were murdered in the Shoah.

The hundreds of indigenous peoples of Asian Russia which is frequently seen as part of Europe because of its colonization by Russia.

There are many peoples that are known by few. There may be very little to no information about them in English or any language besides the official language of the country they are in. They may not have a written tradition and all written accounts of them are in old print books. They may be known only by people who live near to the region where they are. I know this is certainly true for Vaqueiros and the nomadic peoples of Spain.

Indigenous and nomadic peoples of Europe may be called ‘hill peoples’, ‘nomads’, or ‘cursed peoples’. They have lived in your country for hundreds or thousands of years, but were or are still not considered proper citizens. They live in their own territory by their traditional lifestyle, or in the city as part of your society, or in diaspora across the world. They unequally face land theft and environmental racism. They are hardly represented, if at all, and face challenges like insufficient infrastructure, education, healthcare, or access to water. It’s time to learn who your neighbors are. We want to be known. We are in small numbers because of the land theft and cultural destruction by the European countries you live in.

If this description rings a bell for you, or if your group isn’t up here, feel free to add an indigenous or nomadic people in Europe you know!

DO NOT fuck around on this post or i will tear your head clean off

felgueirosa

Feel free to send me some better links too, information written by the community itself is highly preferred. I also tried to avoid links using the g word, but it still makes into some :/

Also seeking English info on the Mercheros and better English info for some other groups if y'all know of anything

#gen

iskierka

I think it’s very weird that when one country is criticized y’all tend to be like “oh well my country we would never —” uhh YES in your country too, that’s how states work? Y’all talking about people living in China or the US not knowing their history because the bad parts aren’t taught well in school: sure!!! But I know many people from Belgium who know next-to-nothing about the genocide in the Congo, from the Netherlands who say all their colonies were only trading posts, from Thailand who say that the indigenous people in their country have been and are treated fine only they don’t make an effort to be Thai, from Portugal who will tell you about what an amazingly positive force they were in their… territories, from Czechia who will tell you their country holds no responsibility for treatment of the Roma—but also it was and is justified; all were taught these things in school.

My point isn’t “other countries do this too so it doesn’t matter!!” No! My point is that every single state commits and covers up atrocities in some way. There is no ethical state.

American liberals especially seem to have a tendancy to think that there is a Good and Perfect state and we must only find it and imitate it and then our problems will be fixed. But trust me: it doesn’t exist, (and it’s certainly not in Europe??). We must create our own systems, and have the courage to change those, too, when we see their flaws.

anarchotolkienist

I would like to point out that Sweden espescially, being one of the primary states that gets raised up by liberals or social democrats as this sort of sensible paradise of welfare and respect, 1) Ran and operated colonies in the New World, including active participation in the slave trade (three forts on the Slave Coast) and one of the last colonies to outlaw slavery, the plantation island of St. Martinique. 2) Colonised and continues to colonised indigenous Sámi territory, Sápmi making up a good third of the landmass of ‘Sweden’, and is where we get a significant amount of our natural resources (both in the form of electricity from dammed-up rivers (and hence drowned villages) and ore from huge open-pit mines - any Sámi and allies who object recieve the Standing Rock treatment). 3) Put Sámi children in ‘nomad schools’ to “Swedify” them, including a harsh regime of abuse and beatings for speaking their own language, as well as kidnapping them from the communities for the most part of the year. The Sámi languages of Swedish-occupied Sápmi are very threatened and dying as a result. 4) Is the only country other than the Third Reich to have had a state department of eugenics, known as the Swedish Institute for Racial Hygiene (Svenska Statens Institution för Rashygien), which carried out eugenic experiements on children (espescially Sámi children, but also Forest Finns, Romani and Torne Valley Finnish children) to establish their racial inferiority to pureblooded teutonic Swedes. This institute operated untill 1976, and forcibly sterilised an unknown number of women (and a few men) - espescially those seen as racially inferior, but also those seen as weak, feeble-minded or queer (a particularily notorious case is the sterilisation of a woman in 1974 for feeble-mindedness - a diagnosis given her on the basis of sleeping with five different men during her university career) 5) On that note, forcibly sterilised trans people untill two-thousand and fucking eleven on the basis that trans people can’t be trusted to raise children. I could go on and on and on, but I think that should be enough to make the point - Sweden is not an admirable country worth emulating.

anarchotolkienist

English-speakers interested in contemportary and historical Swedish colonial policy from a Sámi would do well to get a hold of Liberating Sápmi: Indigenous Resistance in Europe’s Far North, a long set of interviews with Sámi artists and activists, that was published recently.

#gen #:/

lichen-punk

f*mboy is a fucking transmisogynistic slur i’m begging u tme people please stop using it in your memes

lichen-punk

if you’re tme and you like this post, you better fucking reblog it too

#gen #dear hells i'm sick of seein this tbh

silenthill

We gotta stop saying shit like anti and “anti anti” to describe people and instead use the actual terms: pedophile/incest supporter/apologist and Regular Person.

Enough sugar coating. Enough confusing dialogue and plausible deniability. These people are writing and drawing content about fucking kids. Full stop. Don’t call me an Anti because I think it’s bad you want underage siblings to fuck and wrote a 100k word fanfic about it. Just call me Normal because you’re clearly not.

silenthill

You can, and I encourage you to, reblog this post.

#gen #this is also why you shouldn't use ''anti'' and ''anti-ship'' to mean other things

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debrusks

you don’t have to cancel everyone the second they misstep or do something dumb but you also DON’T have to defend everything that your fave does. you can say “hey this particular thing sucked” without getting into this all-or-nothing mentality. you are not an extension of the things you like. you can think freely and criticize the things (and people) that you like, and a criticism of something you like is not something that you should take personally or feel the need to correct/defend.

#yep #gen

ciaran2020

my Take™ for the day is that more people should get to identify as plural and see where it takes them just like, experiment with not being singular if that's a range of experiences that appeals to you at all.

ciaran2020

I think there's a spectrum between “unambiguously singular” and “unambiguously a system” and more people should have access to all the points along it without having to have some minimum of trauma or confusing experiences with switching or whatever.

ciaran2020

many of the autistic (and often traumatized in various ways because autism and trauma are closely linked) people I've spoken to have experiences that are not Exactly Having Many People In Your Head but are most definitely not, experiences that people who are singlet have?? like I don't think “feeling like a soupy mess of Stuff that appears to be a person” is...a singlet experience, and if it's classified under there that's not accurate or fair because, well, people who are singular aren't expected to have a diverse range of ways in which they conceptualise and relate to themselves! and maybe the solution is also to diversify singlet experiences, but currently I would much rather reduce the number of people who default to thinking they're Simply One Person.

themadcapmathematician

I read an article retweeted by a system (that i need to find) that stated over 60% of authors hear their characters speak to them in their heads and make decisions about their story, like they're living entities. Obviously there's some kind of spectrum here but that sure doesnt sound like a strictly singlet experience either. Im sure this is how a lot of headmates start out.

much like transgender and nonbinary issues, i feel like its important to challenge the systems that create such stark differences between singlets and systems so that people can feel like they can exist in the middle. The borders of both "singlet" and "system" tend to be so tightly controlled and it makes a lot of people anxious and miserable and deny things about themselves that they shouldn't have to

#YA TBH also this is why syscourse is so harmful #bc if u put strict restrictions on what Is and Is Not a system then you're gonna exclude a lot of people questioning #this is seriously good stuff tho #gen

joysituation

Today we will be discussing the user Joyful, and their dangerous actions, as we find it extremely important to bring awareness to this user and their behaviour. If it was just the experiences we, the posters, had back in early 2020, we wouldn’t be making this post, however, Joy continues to be harmful and threatening to several communities, most prominently Hermitblr.

TL;DR: Tumblr user Joyful (current known URLs are weaver-of-worlds, cutting-you-off, and formerly joyful-wordsmith), host of the “Library” system, has at minimum aided in covering up pedophilia by one of his own system members and has also frequently endorsed violent actions towards other people.

Known fandoms include Critical Role, Hermitcraft, and Ace Attorney. All names besides that of Joyful and his system members have been censored to protect the identity of everyone else involved as best as possible.

Warning for images below the cut: Mentions of pedophilia, semi-detailed descriptions of murder.

Keep reading

joysituation

Apologies, we have an edit. His username is the-weaver-of-worlds, not weaver-of-worlds

#replacing prev. post #gen #pedophilia ment //#hcdisc

kaijuno

I’m just super fucking bitter that once the flint water crisis got it’s 15 minutes of fame people stopped giving a shit. The water is still poisoned, people! Donations have plummeted and people have been forced back into drinking and bathing with the water! The medical effects of this are astounding, cases of legionnaires disease have skyrocketed, people are having seizures, people are having weird rashes break out over their body, people (including me!) are having their blood poisoned, and it’s not just lead! it’s coliform bacteria! it’s THMs! it’s all in the water and it gets into the bloodstream and breaks down blood vessels, causing bruising and petechiae and internal bleeding and no one gives a shit anymore and it’s only gotten worse like how many people are going to have to die until people realize this is still a problem

contemporary-petroleuse-deactiv

I would like to add that the people of Flint cannot sell their houses, because selling a house with leaded water is illegal. Additionally, households with children can’t stop paying for the water because living in a house without running water is cause for CPS to take their kids. Flint has been living this way for over two years.

The people of Flint are trapped by the legal system. And it is only the most high profile case out many cities with a similar problem.

Because the government has abandoned them, they are dependant on help from the outside. Donate here

babypinkb1tch

If u can’t donate, reblog so someone else can!!!

#gen

feraldogqueer-deactivated202012

More than 1/8th of the White Mountain Apache Tribe has tested positive for Covid-19.

They have been hit EXTREMELY hard and I have seen no posts going around talking about it. It is one of the hardest hit places in ARIZONA, a state that already has horribly high case numbers.

They have a Covid relief gofundme. Please donate if you can and spread this if you can't.

The White Mountain Apache Tribe COVID-19 relief fund has been… White Mountain Apache Tribe needs your support for White Mountain Apache Trib

#gen

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