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There are two aspects of it.

To not be in control means you don’t know what is coming next. But you do know that whatever comes, you will follow. With this comes fear and fear can be arousing. Fear comes with elevated heart rate, faster breathing, involuntary reaction to stimuli. Arousal brings those too.

But then there is the other side of not being in control. A sense of comfort, a reduction in stress. The tough choices are being made for you. The worry of a wrong decision is gone since you’re no longer making those decisions. To give up control is to submit.

In erotic hypnosis you get both.

The relaxation of the trance evokes the second type. You sink to the words of your hypnotist knowing that they are going to relieve you of the demand to make decisions. The letting go of the stress drives you deeper into their control as you give up control. You sink. You drop.

But once you are deep enough and control is lost there is the first type. The mantra of obedience is pleasure has been burned into your mind. When you say “I will obey” you have no idea what is to come. Will they order you to expose yourself in public? Will they demand the truth to the most humiliating questions? Will be commanded to do things you had always swore you would never do? All you know is that you WILL obey. The fear and the excitement becomes one.