Ender has lied about their age, trauma, their gender, their sexuality, disorders, their interests, and so much more. Ender is a sick fuck and the truth must be spread.
1) Age. Ender has either lied about their previous age or current age, both of which being disgusting. They claim that their abusive dad hid it from them, and that instead of being 23 or 24, they were actually 18. That claim is not only ridiculous as they claim to have come from France to the United States- how could they have come to here without documentation? Answer is they couldn’t. So either they knew their age all along, or they lied about being French. Lying about being French would make sense as well, since they claim to have “forgotten all French” yet still constantly remind their followers that English is their “second language.” I actually believe that they are lying about both- they are not from France, and they are not the age they currently claim. I’ll explain more in a further point.
•Trauma. After going over every mention of trauma on their current and previous blog as well as a discord server, I have come to this storyline of Ender’s so called trauma: They claim to have been born into basically sex slavery. Their father used them for sex frequently and punished them severely. They attended school for several years and claims to have dropped out at one point because “it was too much,” so presumably they were somehow in high school despite being the “wrong age.” Their mother was neglectful, an alcoholic, and a heroin addict. Meanwhile, their dad was fine with Ender smoking, drinking, and doing drugs. Somehow their dad ended up getting arrested, and Ender left to go to the United states where they lived with their now ex.
There’s several reasons why this is absolute bull shit. I’ll start with their age, which I have already debunked but I’ll go further. If Ender was 18 when thought to be 23, that’s a whopping 5 years younger. According to my research, the youngest you can drop out of school in France is at 16. So you mean to tell me that Ender dropped out of school at... 11. And nobody cared? Nobody called CPS? That also begs the question, did 16 year old high schoolers, nearly adults, actually think that an 11 year old was in their grade? Nobody would believe that. Pre-pubescent children and teenagers look and act nothing alike. Also, when their father was arrested, the police would have discovered ender’s true age and they would have been notified of this. They would’ve most likely been taken into adoption, if their mom truly was just an alcoholic addict.
Secondly, what is the likelihood of an individual actually being born to be used solely for sex? There are fucked up people on earth, but the chance is slim to none... especially the chance that the child would also be intersex, would have schizophrenia, would develop DID, would end up being LGBT, and would find their way here happily on Tumblr. An unlikely event like that would’ve made news. The press notices when these happen and it’s reported on. Third, if that truly did happen to Jean as they claim, they would be much more fucked up. Currently they go to college. They held a job in the past. They have a partner. They go to the store. Nobody who goes through something as horrific as that would be so normal. It’s just not feasible.
3) Their gender. Ender claims to be intersex and transfem, both of which I believe are false. Intersex is most likely false because of the likelihood I mentioned early, but also because of a “career” they got into sometime last year. They were quite public on their blog about going into sex work, and they answered some asks quite suspiciously... apparently they only have a vagina and “look like a female.” Strange, considering they’re transfem... They have mentioned nothing before proving that they’re actually intersex. We do not know what supposedly makes them intersex or transfem. Nothing, supposedly. Not to mention how well they pass as feminine is remarkable. No surgeries done (unless they’re also lying about how poor they are, which I will make a post about as well) and look nothing like a transfem. No Adam’s apple, no penis, and comes with breasts. They’ve mentioned wearing a binder before... why in the world would a binder be needed if you’re transfem?
4) Sexuality. There’s not much to this one, but Ender claims to be aspec when they obviously are not. On their old blog they were very sex positive, and supposedly on a blog before that they were a well-known ace exclusionist. They also do sex work, and all of their “asexual and aromantic identities” are their way of saying they have trauma surrounding sex (questionable) and they have romance issues due to “disorders.”
5) Disorders. Jean claims to have many disorders going on all at once, and every week there appears to be a new problem. Here’s a running list of everything they’ve mentioned: schizophrenia, DID, BPD, C-PTSD, ED related issues, autism, misophonia, hypersexuality, and fibromyalgia. I’m positive there’s more as well. For starters, if their trauma even is real, schizophrenia is not formed due to trauma. It is most likely genetic, and considering how wildly unbelievable their background is, I’m sure that some schizophrenia thrown in the mix would just be ridiculous. Not to mention ableist, claiming that schizos are “harmful” and “violent.” DID is extremely unlikely as it’s very rare, not to mention their “alters” hardly seem to be present on the blog. It’s just Jean. BPD is actually believable but I doubt it’s from as severe trauma as they say, considering one of their “triggers” is being blocked. Yeah. PTSD might be likely but C-PTSD comes from repetitive abuse and the diagnosis would not be present if DID was. ED related issues are most likely overblown bullshit. Not long ago Ender blew up on their tumblr faking starving themselves for attention. Autism is highly unlikely as they would’ve had to have been born with it. Misophonia is just a ridiculous thing to flaunt around. Hypersexuality is simply their excuse to behave inappropriately and goes against their claim of being asexual. I could go on forever about how ridiculous this shit is.
6) Their “interests.” This is where things get even more fucked up, coupled with everything above. To start small, Ender enjoys very problematic forms of media, and seemingly only that. There’s even one form that’s “so bad” they refuse to say what it is. But some of what the enjoy includes Harry Potter, Umbrella Academy, Markiplier, Criminal Minds, and much more. Moving to heavy stuff... I have reason to believe that Ender engages in incest porn and CP as well. Unfortunately for the incest porn I no long have evidence as that blog was deleted, but not too long ago they complained to their blog of having an extreme problem and appeared to be panicking. I saw my chance and messaged saying I was willing to help them with anything, no matter how heavy it was. They proceeded to tell me they were having a dilemma understanding why incest was bad. I tried to ask them what started this mindset but they were vague and avoided the question. At one point they did mention having certain “feelings....” As for the CP, on an old blog somebody accused them of watching it. They have also mentioned before of being very wary around children. And this is where their age ties back... many of their friends are minors or almost minors. I believe that Jean saw an opportunity to grow closer to them to fuel their pedophilic desires, so they simply... aged themselves down. They knew nobody would question the rape victim, so they took advantage of their lies.
There’s much more to come in future posts, this is only the beginning of their awful behavior.
