My Secret Little Life

Daddy: Okay, button, you need a break. *daddy voice*

Me: No, there’s too much to do.

Daddy: *taking away all the papers* Come color me a picture, princess. You’re too little for all this.

Me: Wait… My work… *staring from the pile of papers to the crayons and coloring books*

Daddy: Where’s your binkie, button? Did you lose it again?

Take away their adult privileges when they get home.

Restrict screen time

Make them ask for food, littles need help to get those things!

Make them change into a diaper, pull-ups or training pants to enforce the fact that they are little and need this just in case. You should probably help them into their little gear too tops!

Ask them if they need to go to the bathroom periodically, especially before car ride or when out in public, make them go potty even when they say they’re fine. Do they really know? Can you really trust a littles judgement? :P

Stop them when they try to do things for their selves and remind them just how small they are.

Run their bath for them, even if they don’t want to have a bath! You’re their caregiver, you take care of them and make these decisions for them!

Give a list of chores to do while you’re away, punish/ground them if they don’t follow through.

If they’ve been on the computer for too long stop them. They’re too little to spend that much time on a computer, coloring in a coloring book is more appropriate for somebody their age.

Encourage them when being little, remind them that it is okay to be little around you ♡

Be sincere in your interest when they are being little, playing, coloring etc.

Understand that your little is not a slave and isn’t going to be as easily told to do things like a slave might. Expect some resistance at times they are the child in this, they do pout and fuss.

💕being told when it’s bedtime

💕when!people!pet!my!head!!!

💕being called “baby” or being told that i’m “just a baby”

💕when random people tell me i’m adorable and act like a kid

💕when rULES ARE ENFORCED! even when i’m whining and being a brat!

💕when mommy says my name. ever. in any context! i just love her voice gah!!

💕the phrase “don’t make me punish you” mygoodness! that makes me feel so smal !!

💕naps. naps are good.

Being a good daddy isn’t an objective thing, unfortunately. Every little is unique and will require different care and support, and varying levels of attention. Little #1 will request ALL of your attention ALL of the time, with no exceptions. This is the most difficult little to keep up with, but they are also the most loving and caring, and want nothing more than to spend time with their daddies. Little #2 may require lots of personal space and free time to themselves. This is a more rare occurrence, but it certainly does happen, and it’s very important to respect those boundaries when they set them. So on, and so forth. A general rule of thumb is to simply listen to your little. If they want you to do something differently, they may blatantly say it, or in some cases, act in a way that might get you to do that thing. If a little needs more order and you aren’t being strict enough, they may begin to act bratty and do things that will ultimately lead to punishment. There is usually a reason for every behavior. Another good rule to follow, would be to make sure you’re getting the care you need as well. Some daddies might not enjoy their little constantly being with them, and some daddies might absolutely adore it. Your little is your partner as well, and you should work together to find a balance that can suit you both.

💟 - Hold our hand (s) (especially when crossing streets)

💝 - Cuddles for dayyyysssss

💘 - Give us sweet kisses (I.E. Nose/Forehead/Cheeks)

💖 - “You’re too little to do that (pet name), let me help”

💗 - “I love it when you *insert thing*, it’s absolutely adorable”

💓 - “Who’s daddy’s/mommy’s good little Princess/Prince?”

💞 - Randomly bring us things we didn’t ask for (I.E. Paci, sippy, toys, stuffie, snack, etc.)

💕 - Make our snacks for us when you know we need to eat

❣ - Brush and/or play with our hair

❤️ - Read us a bedtime story, pretty please !! (If you don’t have a book and/or can’t think of one, tell us a real story from your life)

💛 - Ask us if we’ve eaten, how we slept, if we brushed our teeth, and other little self care things

💚 - Randomly text us to let us know you were thinking of us

💙 - Compliment us, often, on the same thing (something that you love more than anything else). It realls makes us feel special and confident in that thing, and reassures us of your honesty; when you say it, you mean it every time.

💜 - Start our favorite Movie, TV show, or cartoon without us asking, and snuggle up with us while we watch it

<3 - Reassure us of how cute you think we are when we’re in little space. Some of us can get really insecure about it.

Lube is life???? Turn that coochie and booty into a slip and slide and you’ll orgasm in NO TIME ok??

It’s either you’re willing to teach or just don’t fuck with them.

I’m tired of hearing that “your dick/pussy is wack” BS.

Be vocal about what you want. If it hurts say so, if you don’t like the constant jabbing that porn made popular let him know.

Also…

Dear virgins or people who only had sex with one (shitty) partner: LASTING TEN MINUTES ISN’T NORMAL.

I REPEAT.

LASTING 10 MINUTES EVERY SINGLE TIME WITHOUT CARING ABOUT YOUR PARTNER’S PLEASURE ISN’T NORMAL.

“It’s really not that hard to understand but then again, men are dumb“

☁ that little chuckle they do when you’re being silly

☁ their constant concern over our well-being, “did you eat yet?? Drink enough water?? How’s your stuffies, hun???”

☁ when they join us in our little activities, coloring with us, playing dollies, come to our tea parties

☁ when they become needy also and just want to cuddle

☁ when they stare at you with eyes full of love and a soft smile

☁ when they randomly attack you with snuggles and kisses

☁ when they call you by your pet name

☁ when cuddling and they slowly run their fingers through your hair and softly rub your back

☁ when they get equally as excited about things

☁ that quiet, heartwarming moment as they look at you and say “my baby”

Sometimes, with the stress of life, relationships and personal issues, it can be difficult for us to regress. This can often be very frustrating, or manifest itself into just another thing to stress about. But, there are a bunch of little things (bdum tss) you, as a cg or friend, can do to help!

🍬 take us to a quiet space, set up a blankie and maybe some comfort items 🍬 talk to our stuffies! 🍬 the cg voice! 🍬 story time 🍬 quiet time/ nap time 🍬 encouragement and praise for everyday tasks 🍬 tie our shoes 🍬 hold our hand in public or when crossing the street 🍬 push us on the swings 🍬 head pats 🍬 pet names 🍬 cartoon time 🍬 hang our art on the fridge 🍬 anything that makes us feel small physically 🍬 pop a paci in our mouths 🍬 cuddles 🍬 sit us on your lap 🍬 gentle rocking and hair stroking