Kittrix

i feel like so many people forget that behind each blog is an actual human. we are not just icons, not just text or photos on a screen. we have feelings, lives, jobs, etc. we exist beyond just this space on tumblr. what you see posted on a sims 4 blog does not define who we are as people. you don’t get to pick and pull people apart, you don’t get to decide this person is bad because they wrote a story you didn’t like, or posted an edit you didn’t care for. you don’t get to tell them they’re a terrible or flawed person for simply existing on simblr. we’re here to be creative, post content and make friends. we’re here to enjoy ourselves, to take part in a hobby. the fact there’s people who are extremely toxic and vicious in this community astounds me every day. so i ask you, next time you find yourself with the urge to be hateful, how would you feel if you were picked on? if your loved one was on the receiving end? is the message or vague post you’re about to send worth it? if you still find yourself with the urge, decide to take that energy and turn it into something positive. direct it towards the people and content you do like, that you do care for. show them love instead of giving hate. it’ll make you feel better in the end. it’s easy to be hateful, petty… but it shows how strong you are when you’re able to switch that into love and kindess. practice it often, until it becomes a habit that can’t be broken.

Beautiful words. I’ve seen too much awful things in this community, people bullying and calling out simmers based on ridiculous things and driving them out of the community and in worst case into suicide. It’s a terrible human act to be so hateful towards someone you might not know at all.

I think the main reason why so many people get burnt out on here and leave is bc they try to force content and their enjoyment of ts4/simblr instead of just understanding that your passion and interest in EVERYTHING u like waxes and wanes and u should just take breaks and accept that inconsistency in hobbies is really normal