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Definitely! Your kitten space can be whatever you need/want it to be! It’s a completely personal experience and there are no set rules about what kittenspace should or shouldn’t be like! I’m glad you were able to find out what you enjoy while you’re in kittenspace. It’s a little hard to explain how to purr in text, it’s sort of just a sound you can make by rolling an R sound, but on repeat? I’m sure there’s tutorials out there if you look for them! Good luck~ <3 

That’s so nice of you to reach out to us to ask for help about getting your girlfriend into kitten space! I personally suggest preparing a nice soft blanket for both of you to get comfy on, have her resting her head on your lap and softly stroking her hair and back, to help her relax. If she had a hard day at work/school you could possibly tell her what a good kitten she’s been? You can also ask her what she needs/wants from you. Kitten space is personal for everyone, and the best person to inform you about what your girlfriend might need, is your girlfriend herself! Good luck and take care~ 

Hello! It definitely helps that your boyfriend is already aware of the fact that kitten play exists, and that it’s something that you’re into. Have you talked about what it is you like about kitten play? I personally think it would be good to talk more about kitten play in general, your personal experiences and fantasies, and ask him to open up about his as well. Maybe he’s got something that he’s interested in that he’d like to try out? Make sure to connect to your partner and allow him to express how he feels about the topic. It’s very important that he knows what he’s agreeing to before you ask him to become your master, to ensure that you both enjoy the commitment to the best of your abilities! 

If it is to express content-ness to a partner/owner/care taker, you can always make soft, content humming noises to show them you appreciate what it is they’re doing without speaking. If you’re not with a partner, but you feel sad that you’re unable to purr, please keep in mind that all cats are different, and not every cat purrs~ You’re not a bad kitten just because you’re unable to purr, so don’t worry too much! <3

You don’t need any form of fancy gear (or any gear at all, for that matter) to be a kitten! Anyone who tells you otherwise is probably not worth being friends with. Having gear can make the experience better in some cases, but that doesn’t mean you have to have it in order to be a kitten. If you do feel the need to own gear, you can always look into making some yourself! (If anyone is interested, we can create a tutorial on how to hand-sew your own collar. Please let us know if that is something you would like!)

You can definitely be both! There’s no need to choose, switching things up can actually be a lot of fun! As long as you and your daddy communicate about what headspace you’re in, and what it is you need/expect from him while you’re in that headspace, there should be no problem with switching between both! Good luck, take care and have fun! 

Thank you so much for sharing!

Honestly, that person was probably messing with you. There’s no reason your blog should be flagged! Take care~

That’s absolutely wonderful! I hope both of you will have many lovely experiences as you explore it together~ 

Your personal headspaces can be whatever you want them to be! If the term kitten feels right, then by all means, call it kitten space! There are no set rules on what you have to feel or do, it’s all about you being comfortable~ I’ll list a couple things that I personally think fit Kitten space and Little space. These are my personal suggestions, so feel free to take ideas from both and mix them together as you please to create your own comfortable headspace! You can always take certain aspects and remove others to make sure you’re 100% comfortable. (for example, if you don’t like wearing kitten ears, that doesn’t mean you can’t be a kitten.)Kittenspace- nuzzling and cuddling- purring- meowing- wearing a collar- wearing ears / a tail- taking naps - soft blankets- having someone pet youLittle space- coloring pictures- finger painting- having someone read to you- wearing colourful clothing- eating cookies with a glass of milk- playing/napping with stuffed animals- having a (pretend) tea party - asking someone to brush and braid your hair

Thank you very much! That is wonderful~ I’m glad your boyfriend has been accepting, and that our guides were able to help you! 

It depends on what you feel comfortable with! Some people are very open about their petplay lifestyle, others prefer to keep it private. There’s no set rules on how to go about it! If you want people to know, you can tell them. However it’s important to keep in mind that, if you do decide to go public about if (for example posting it on facebook) there are going to be people who will not understand the lifestyle, and maybe even people who will judge you for it. That is why most people prefer to stay private about it. You can also decide to tell some of your closest friends, if you do want some people around you to know. If they’re good friends, they will support you! Take care <3 

It’s completely understandable that you feel the need to have a master/care taker. However it’s important to know that you don’t need one in order to be a kitten! Even though it might feel lonely at times, you can still practice kittenplay on your own, or with other kittens~ Having a kitten blog might really help with that, so you have a safe space to reach out to other kittens if you don’t want to use your personal blog for that. Take care!

Please reblog this if you are a petplay blog of any kind! Feel free to mention in the tags which type(s) of petplay you post about! That way people who are looking for specific types of blogs can easily find and follow your blog~

I don’t think that’s weird at all! It’s fun to change things up like that~ 

Thank you very much! We’re currently trying our best to become active again. Please let us know if you have anything specific you’d like us to post about!