An Escort’s Guide to Doggy Style
1. You’ve got the pussy. You make the rules.
Men will go to the end of the Earth just to have their cocks touched; they’ll lie for it, grovel for it, pay for it. When you’ve got the pussy, you’ve got the power. I don’t care if you’re in bed with your husband or some fuckboy from Tinder – every sexual act should be on your terms. Do things because you want to, not because you feel obligated, and never be afraid to say no. Your wellbeing and comfort is one hundred times more important than any guy’s stupid boner.
2. Keep your peach sparkling.
This should go without saying, but you’d be surprised how many times I’ve heard “I was banging her from behind and when I looked down, I saw little balls of rolled up toilet paper stuck to her asshole.” Always, always, wash beforehand. No excuses! If you’re too swept up in the moment to shower, excuse yourself and freshen up with baby wipes. It’ll be two minutes well spent.
(Side note: Shaving.)
Landing strips, bald eagles, full bushes, whatever. There’s no right or wrong when it come to pubic hair. But for those who prefer to stay smooth, don’t forget to tidy the hair around your asshole! I can’t count how many times I’ve spotted thick, wirey whiskers in my friend’s cracks when they bent over during a threesome. I mean, it happens, but it can be avoided. When I used to shave I found the best technique was to bring my hand to the front of my body and shave from the back to the front, through the middle of my legs.
3. Get it right, get it tight.
Make a point of squeezing your pussy right before the dick slides in. If you don’t know what I mean by this, I want you to go to bed later, insert one finger inside yourself, and practice contracting your kegels until you can distinguish between tensed / relaxed. Vaginas are made of muscle, and putting them to work makes a world of difference in terms of “tightness.” (This skill also comes in handy if you ever need to fake an orgasm.)
4. Head down, ass up.
A rigid posture in any sexual position looks pretty damn awful, but there’s no reason your spine should be dead-straight during doggy. I mean, if he wanted to fuck a table, he’d probably go into the dining room and do so. Arching your back will make your waist appear smaller and your booty rounder as it’s pointing in the air. Double win!
5. Fuck him back.
I didn’t realise this until recently, but being a starfish during doggy style is totally a thing! There are so many movements you can use to mix it up. Bounce your ass back against his body, or flick your hair, or turn back to look at him, or run your hands across the sheets, but whatever you do, don’t stay still.
6. Stop being embarrassed of your asshole!
Do you know how many clients have complained to me that their partners don’t show them their asshole? Feeling self conscious in the bedroom is absolutely pointless because if he’s already fucking you, he finds you attractive! Using one hand to pull a cheek open is so simple, and if that’s not your style, try playing with yourself or asking him to put a finger in. (My personal favourite is to reach back with both hands and tell him to spit on it.)
7. Show him your face.
If you’re a girl who uses doggy as an opportunity to hide your face, this has got to stop. Like I said, if his dick’s hard, he already thinks you’re hot, so stop stressing about looking stupid. Turn your head to the side, or look back at him, or suck on your fingers. (My favourite is to spit on my fingers, play with the outside of my asshole, and then suck them slowly.)
8. Keep your mouth busy.
Vocalisation is so important. Moan, sigh, gasp, scream, but never stay silent for too long. And don’t be shy to tell him how good he feels. If you want it harder, or slower, or deeper, ask for it! Remember: you’re in control. (Again, my personal favourite is, “hold me down and fuck me.”)
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