Kendoll Clitzone

Conflict is not Abuse (great book) and triggers are yours to manage

My Hallmark moment

Note to self… about my patterns…

How pity is the most useful tool for manipulation

Maybe I should ask for more

An anecdote about when I was an acolyte in the Episcopalian church & why I’m like Frankenstein’s monster

Grief & the holidays

For the nervous trans newbies out there

Working for perfectionists who remind you of your abusive childhood..

Merry Xmas Chinese Jesus

Continuing the story from a previous post—and yes I realize misandry “isn’t a thing” in the system oppression sense. It’s still a giant red flag for another trans masc person to express & for someone trying to date me to be hell bent on. It usually indicates a lot of bioessentialist & transphobic beliefs & I am allowed to address it.

What it costs you to be in caretaker mode all the time - no one sees you

Curse breakers missing the irony in other parts of their lives

I started saying what I thought & not holding it in anymore…

I’m not a service I provide - and other helpful mantras

Don’t try to date someone who hates your entire demographic.

Why does the truth hurt?