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hi!! 𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ my name is mary. i also go by marie or mars! i use she/her pronouns and i am 19 years old. this blog will be about reality shifting. you can also find me on tiktok as @karrashifts — masterlist

— about me ! my birthday is on dec 14 '05 ʚɞ i am am austrian ʚɞ i speak german, english, spanish and russian ʚɞ i love mbti and am an entp. i am a pantheist pagan and practice witchcraft alongside shifting

— shifting journey ! i shifted on accident as a child and shifting found me again last year. it took me about 3 months to shift successfully and since then i shift around 3 times a week

— desired realities ! adult fame star wars singer h2o full house katseye parent coffee shop bridgerton swimmer

— s/o ! gong yoo!! hes my s/o in almost every dr and if you see it be someone else then its probably one of his roles. my soulmate fr 𓏲𝄢

— likes ! i love love love star wars so if youre a star wars fan or even a star wars shifter please be my friend, i mainly listen to the weekend but i also really like kpop and am currently sorta getting into kdrama + i am obsessed with classic literature

— boundaries ! you can absolutely ask me anything about shifting/my drs or about me personally, just don't expect me to always have an answer for you! please do not vent to me or insult me jokingly unless we are close. if we share a s/o or faceclaim please do not talk to me about them! lastly i will not argue with you if you are an antishifter

songs that remind me of my s/o and why 🤍

@ so american - olivia rodrigo

this one goes back to when we went out to eat for the first time in korea. we didn't really know eachother at all so at some point the waiter asked him if i am american & he answered yes. it infact became a very long dragged joke that he thought i was american when i am infact german & fans eventually pointed out how he literally said i am "so american" and even olivia herself would repost edits of us after telling this story & becoming the couple that people associated with the song.

@ flawless - the neighborhood

very simple and lame but! hes infact flawless to me. this scared me away from him in the beginning & i lowkey felt like i was in a competition of being perfect. nowadays i know that technically hes not perfect but he can still be flawless in my eyes & he is.

@ for you - leehi, crush

the song keeps repeating that they are what the other person was waiting for and that theyre perfect for eachother and me and him are very much eachothers type both personality & looks wise! i don't mean it in a "we adjusted our type while dating eachother" way but in a way where we are both exactly what the other person was looking for.

@ nothings gonna hurt you baby - CAS

the song title is like what i wish i could promise him. if i could i would make sure that no one ever hurts him or does him wrong & i often feel like thats my responsibility & fall very low when it ends up happening anyway

@ always love - d4vd, hyunjin

for a long time we were both just staying away from eachother confused about what the other person wants even though it was very obvious to everyone else

@ all out of love - air supply

i feel really lost finding love in this reality now because in a way he has taken over my life & i have given much more love to him & am now struggling to replicate what i feel for him with another person here.

@ steal the show - lauv

im really loud & often need a lot of attention and while i thought this was upsetting it he let me know that its perfect for him, that he's often pushed into the spotlight as a celebrity and feels overwhelmed easily. he prefers a private and quiet life & told me he likes to listen to me without forcing himself to be the topic at hand 24/7.

@ apple cider - beabadoobee

reminds me of how we couldn't stay friends & how we ended up spending most nights during filming together just to accompany eachother

@ i know you - faye webster

reminds me of how i would approach the situation of a past breakup we've had nowadays and how i would rather stay through the pain and work it out with him than not be with him because i don't know anything as well as i know him

@ cinnamon girl - lana del rey

"like if you hold me without hurting me you'll be the first who ever did" refers to how in this specific dr, i haven't had a proper or healthy relationship until him & how i found him in a part of my shifting journey that only consisted out of heartbreak.

@ do i ever cross your mind? - sombr

this song makes me think about how theres a reality out there where hes trying to shift for me & how we are both "awake at night" thinking of ways to see one another just from very opposite ends

@ i wish i knew how to quit you - sombr

about how i think of my future here and dont wanna spend the rest of my life shifting but how i cant help but always come back to him even if i try to distance myself

@ blue - billie eilish

1. How do you stay motivated ?

Don't. See. Shifting. As. A. Chore. When you feel pressured and you feel you have to do something, you'll not wanna do it.

Try imagining your hobby but with the pressure of time you put on yourself like you do with shifting. You play basketball? Imagine how fun basketball would still be if you were constantly telling yourself "if i dont become the best basketball player within the next two weeks it'll all be done for". Imagine putting basketball as your n1 priority and forgetting about everything else in your life.

You won't have fun playing basketball anymore because you NEED balance. By overhyperfixating on shifting, all you will get is burnout and loose motivation. See it as a hobby you're passionate about.

2. How do you lucid dream ?

I have a video with my ld method pinned and im working on a document sharing all my knowledge about lucid dreaming!

I personally dont like the whole "portal" thing so if you have questions about that, I sadly cannot answer them

3. Do you feel empty when you come back ?

No! I love shifting and I love my drs but usually when I shift back it was thought through and I was missing this reality. Sometimes after more meaningful events like my wedding I felt a bit off but usually I am okay because nothing is holding me here for long anyway :)

4. How many times have you shifted in total ?

i am SO SORRY IM SO LATE TO THIS 💔💔💔 it somehow never showed up in my inbox ;(

here are some of my tips since i only really shift through ld!

1. track your sleep. the best time to dream and lucid dream is the REM phase. checking how well you're sleeping and how to improve your sleep can really help. there are plenty of apps for this online!

2. try different types of reality checks since not all of them might work for you individually

3. WRITE DOWN UR DREAMS ik you might hear this a lot but redreaming dreams youve already had can get you lucid really easily and is also what most natural lucid dreamers do

4. use white noise instead of subliminals (idk why this helps me but???)

5. meditate before bed. my last post was on how to meditate maybe it'll help you

hey!! I meditate using a technique i learned in my star wars dr as a jedi!

people usually see meditating as thinking of nothing or relaxing fully. as someone with adhd that can be super difficult. what i do instead is choose a "prompt" to focus on to fully relax me and get rid of all my thoughts and worries etc.

1. i will basically sit down in a quiet comfortable place

2. i take deep breaths and i imagine that every breath out makes my worries and thoughts leave my body

3. once i feel relaxed, i pick a prompt and and visualize this prompt as well as i can

some prompts ive used:

im walking through a flower field in summer. i visualize the field, individual flowers and how the sun feels on my skin

i walk up a white stairway towards the sky. i visualize the stairway, taking the steps and how the earth below becomes distant

im flying in space. i visualize stars, planets & how i am floating around my space