Betas are underrated in omegaverse
Why is it that in omegaverse worlds, betas are treated so weirdly? They are often the majority of the population or in equal amounts as omegas or alphas but are often shoved to the side and treated as the 'cuck' gender.
Omegaverse reflects real-world sexism (omegas = women and alphas = men), so what are betas? What third gender roles would they have? It is a hard concept for most people to grasp that there are more than two genders, so here are my thoughts. Realistically, they would probably be treated as 'workers' or the 'smart' gender and pushed to be successful rather than mindlessly reproduce, and would probably be the most liked gender due to being the most neutral (not overly aggressive/ allowed to take up space). They would be the equivalent of the second-oldest brother, not first in line for the throne, but a valid second option.
In most stories, alphas are supposed to be good at leading due to being so dominant over others, but in my experience in knowing or working with others, that is not the case. Aggressive people (think frat boys) who are put into positions of power often become lazy and self-centred, and although this is similar to real life, it's not ideal. Most betas would make up smaller managers and would be the better ones due to being more level-headed and, again, hardworking (not just from a lack of ruts/heats, but also temperament), but if they do get sidelined, it should have world-building implications and is probably not a good thing.
Betas in fanfiction are often either 'bitched' (turned into omegas) by alphas, go into heat/rut later than the rest of the population, 'revealing their true gender' partway through, or just 'can't satisfy an omega', so an alpha has to step in, even if the beta and the omega have been in a long-term relationship.
Saying that an omega can't be satisfied by a beta and needs an alpha is very reflective of current world homophobia against lesbians, which is funny considering that omegaverse was created as slash fiction. I don't think that primary gender would play a part in sexism in a real-world omegaverse scenario, so a gay ship being turned into practically (especially in mpreg omega or fem pregnator alpha scenarios) hetero feels wrong. I think it's especially wrong since a lot of real-life gay relationships don't have a 'man' or 'woman' in the relationship and will subvert gender roles/ not have them in their relationship. To take away the oppression and real-life struggles of gay people might seem like a good thing, unless you completely change what it means to be homosexual. The idea that betas are just shoved to the side and supposed to pair up with each other and not date an omega or alpha seems a lot closer to being gay than dating someone else of the same primary gender, so being homosexual would probably be (at least mostly) dependent on secondary, not primary gender. It feels wrong to not represent third genders and unconventional relationships, given the easy chance to, because it furthers the idea that heteronormative relationships are the ideal and nothing else is allowed/normal.
What's really weird is that there is more alpha/alpha or omega/omega (although sparingly compared to omega/alpha), but it just feels weird to leave out what is considered the more common gender or equally as common. It just feels like even if the characters are alpha/alpha or omega/omega it's easier to write due to stereotypes, or that only omegas and alphas are interesting or normal to write about as if that doesn't create harmful stereotypes of betas. The stereotype that they are an inferior partner that creates insatisfaction, are boring or a cheap copy is something to write about and there are characters that are treated like that in Canon and even more people like that in real life and that doesn't make them uninteresting, it often makes people misunderstood because personality is a lot more than preferences, leadership styles, or priorities and they are worthy of being represented, appreciated and loved.
Although omegaverse started as a smut genre, it has developed beyond that now. There is a lot of reflection on misogyny in the way that omegas are treated, so why can't writing on betas reflect this? I know that it's just a fanfiction genre, but it feels like all fanfiction right now is so concerned about being perfect and having perfect love interests. I don't want perfect, I want losers who have opinions and outlooks and flaws, not just passive flaws, but enneagram things that need to be fixed outside of a love interest. Things that they don't want to change, or apologize for. Things that make them harmful and selfish. People that might look 'boring' on the outside are often much more interesting on the inside than people realise.
PS: I'm not a beta myself, I'm an omega who would rather date a beta over an alpha any day












