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Big Mama. Art by Katelan V. Foisy, from The Hoodoo Tarot.

I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well. — 2 Timothy 1:5

Plant: Sunflower

The Image Big Mama is holding a plate of homemade cornbread, with the sun shining brightly behind her. She wears a skeleton key as a necklace to symbolize her all-encompassing wisdom. 

Big Mama is a term of endearment for the matriarch of one’s family. It is an acknowledgment of her wisdom, strength, authority, leadership skills, and ability to nurture multiple generations. Traditionally, all elders of both genders were to be respected for these qualities, but no one is bigger than Big Mama. As the caregiver of so many children and the transmitter of family history, lore, and spirituality, she is the family’s jewel and guiding light. 

Today, Big Mama’s role in many families is not as prominent as it used to be before desegregation. As Black Americans increasingly interacted with ethnic groups that were more youth-oriented and patriarchal, the ethical, hierarchical, and conceptual foundation of the community started to shift. Also adding to this alteration of thought was the movement away from the church. It was there that the values of their forebears were reinforced, celebrated, and discussed. Often, if was your Big Mama (or someone else’s that you knew well or were kin to) who also held the prestigious title of “Mother of the Church.” 

Like the sun, the matriarch is a warm, centralized force without whom growth would be impossible. 

Meaning When you receive Big Mama in a reading, you better believe that no matter how dark it is now, the light is coming and everything is going to be alright! 

Big Mama may also be speaking about being willing and able to share your glory, your light, and your power with others. This is not the time to lay low; this is your time to shine. 

If you receive Big Mama in a reading, consider the following: 

• Do you fear being brilliant or successful?  • What is being highlighted?  • It’s okay to be the center of attention sometimes.  • What does enlightenment mean to you?  • Take a personal day from work.  • Who are the important players in the situation?  • Am I exhibiting a positive attitude?  • Reputations matter.  • It’s time to celebrate.  • Confidence is the best cosmetic.  • What do you need to do to look and feel your best?