#tomorrow i'm going to rant about how much i hate post maxwell lord era  &  how everyone dropped her  &  it hurts .
well it isnât tomorrow but today is that day. buckle up.
now i know the comics donât always do a good job of showing that the main three from dc are actually friends and sometimes they retcon it in there, or like in jla in the first issue i believe, they dedicate it to showing how theyâre actually friends, their history, etc. and then never really touch on it again. point being: she, superman and batman are friends, even if writers donât always do a good job of showing that side of things til later on. Â
now they are more like work friends in that they donât hang out all of the time and share all the juicy goss, and often have to schedule their hanging out around their jl duties and insane schedules. thatâs just how it be. but still, theyâre friends.
or theyâre supposed to be.
the thing i hate about the maxwell lord incident isnât even that it happened, or that diana was forced to kill in a no-win situation. itâs that, when push came to shove, bruce and clark didnât stand by her and, worse, didnât give her the barest courtesy of hearing her out.
now, okay, yes killing is outside their code. and i understand why the league as an organisation and entity mightâve had to distance itself from her, totally. but clark and bruce literally drop her as a friend, they donât ask or seem to care how sheâs doing in the aftermath of something that couldâve easily been traumatic (not only the killing, but it being broadcast, suddenly being in the spotlight, her worst moment played on tv, and subject to everyoneâs critique in a new way, this also happening because batmanâs brother eye was taken over and broadcast it, but i digress). Â
she doesnât get to have her soul searching in peace or in private, she loses / gives up her title as ww, is literally aimless and gone for that whole year.........and nothing out of bruce or clark, really. bruce does show up in the ww books to help her get her secret identity and get back to work but, again, itâs been a year later. the brunt of everything sheâs had to shoulder on her own.
i just. itâs really hard to believe in this unbreakable friendship between the trinity when clark and bruce drop her so quickly ? ? despite the fact that she saved their lives. again, there was literally no other choice: maxwell lord makes it clear that if she ever lets him go, heâll take control of supes to finish what he started and, in the alternate universe where booster gold saves ted kord and maxwell lord isnât killed, lord uses a mind-controlled superman to create a police state thatâs so bad that ted kord goes back and lets himself be killed.
just think about that.
&Â diana could see it too.
but because they refused to see that / didnât want to, they left her to hang out to dry. and like. itâs fine, if they had such irreconcilable principles but the thing is.....again, itâs really hard to believe in the power of the three and the power of their friendship when both of her friends in the trinity decide ânahâ and ostracise her and only later decide she can join the table again. they werenât there for the painful process of self healing, they had no interest in her welfare or well being in the aftermath of shouldering this burden. they decided she deserved nothing for everything she did until a year later when she came back into action (and not because of them, but because donna needed her help and there was no way anyone would stop her from helping her sister).
honestly, it just makes me so sad for diana. yes, her moral code deviates from theirs sometimes in what she will do, but 1. she wants the same thing 2. she doesnât go around killing for the sake of it, this was a very special case and one without another solution; literally it was the trolley problem in a comic and no matter what she chose someone wouldâve died 3. the most hilarious thing is they patch things up by reaffirming they all want the same thing, justice......which literally never changed. and they wouldâve known that if they bothered to sit down with her sooner. itâs just so lonely to think about.
i just canât imagine how isolating it mustâve felt to have her two best friends, arguably, cut her out for making the hard choice. and in comics verses, it definitely colours the relationship they have going forward. not that she holds a grudge, but she now has the knowledge that they arenât really friends through thick & through thin. and thatâs their right, but it means sheâs less close to & with them for a long while afterward. i donât want to say forever, but thereâs definitely a rift that could stay or maybe could be healed with time but. yikes. Â
she really deserved better, emotional support and a shoulder from her friends during that time &, as such, iâm accepting applications from new friends who were actually there or tried to be for her in any way during that low year.