J W Griebel

anxiety is not cured by forcing a person into the situation that makes them anxious

Actually, according to psychology, it is.

Exposure therapy is one of the most popular and successful therapies for anxiety sufferers. People with anxiety tend to avoid situations that make them anxious, thus leading to them never overcoming the source of their fear. Exposure therapy allows the sufferer to gradually gain control, lessening the impact of, and desensitizing them to the fear and allowing them to overcome it. Of course, this could be taken out of context and used in an extreme (and, since this is Tumblr, if the wrong person reads this response, it will surely be done) but spreading this type of misinformation and making younger people believe that avoiding anxieties instead of  learning to cope with and overcome them is foolish and harmful.

I don't believe I understand your intended question.

If you're asking whether I am attracted to men: no, I am not.