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• hide and seek at Barnes and Noble

• pick out books for each other at Half Price bookstore

• read to a group of local kids at a library (ask their parents first)

• make a homemade pizza together

• have an impromptu photo shoot at a park

• go thrifting

• Facetime and Netflix so you can see each others reactions

• people watch and make stories for them at a mall

• try on clothes at a store you know damn well you can’t afford

• do laundry (don’t knock it till you try it)

• attend an outdoor event (often times they’re free or dirt cheap)

• teach other one of your favorite hobbies/things (2k, makeup, cooking, basketball, etc)

• play something at the crib (jenga, speed, uno … okay maybe not uno but you get the idea)

• hang out with a family member (i guarantee free food 9 times outta 10)

• late night star gazing (find a good rooftop where there aren’t many lights, makes it a lot better.)

• make each other a mixtape

• penny date (flip a coin at every intersection, left is heads, right is tails. no gps and charge your phones! make a date outta where you end up.)

• draw a picture of each other

• go on a picnic and tell each other your best bad pickup lines

• go to the beach (or a swimming pool)

• open mic/poetry night (some are free, some you have to pay for)

• baseball game (you can find tickets for dirt cheap if you know where to look)

• volunteer somewhere

• catch a matinee of a new movie (most theaters don’t charge more than 6 bucks a ticket before 4:00)

• play music on speakers in wal mart and dance to it

• comedy club on a free night

• concert at a local university (most times they’re free, might charge if you’re not a student though)

• go on a hike (if you’re into that sort of thing)

• walk around the neighborhood you grew up in and talk about each others childhood

• watch a local outdoor sporting event (a lot of the time you can catch an outdoor softball game or basketball game, maybe they’ll let you play?)

Overall all this is a less chaotic and tense month compared to July. Things are shifting, ending.. but by the end of the month we will feel able to actually push forward with things that have been in the works for months. Sun moving into Virgo brings some order. Allow change and healing to come, see what the past has been trying to teach you and see how it manifests this month.

August 6th: Venus moves into Libra, in its domicile, adding a pleasant and harmonious energy to how we show affection, love and values. Wanting to connect and experience life’s beauty.

August 7th: Uranus stations retrograde-Uranus moved into Taurus in May but with this retrograde it will actually move back to 28 degrees Aries before moving forward again. There are still some changes required in aries we must address. Time for internal change and introspection.

August 11th: Partial solar eclipse(new moon) in Leo-new beginnings relating to your self expression and ego.

August 11th: The sky lights up. Perseid Meteor Shower!

August 18th: Jupiter trine Neptune-lovely stronger aspect inciting compassion, creativity and magical connections.

August 19th: Mercury stations direct-now is the time to put into action what you learned during this retrograde.

August 22nd: Sun moves into Virgo-month long theme of being more service oriented, organizing, finding solutions, being helpful, looking at the details.

August 26th: Full moon in Pisces-the balance between serving the physical and the spiritual.

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HEY Okay so originally I wasn’t going to make one of these. However I talked it over with my girlfriend and she told me to make this. So I am! 

TLDR:  My girlfriend (@pastelaffinity) NEEDS SOMEONE TO HOUSE HER. She is in a terribly abusive home and risks her life staying much longer.  She is a RUNAWAY! Therefore, if you house her, you need to keep her under wraps and be in a good place legally. (i.e no one coming into your house) THEY CAN ONLY MOVE SOMEWHERE IN MID KANSAS BC THEY DON’T HAVE MONEY. 

Second: break them in. Wear them around the house for 30 minutes a day for a few days before you wear them out the first time. I usually do this for 3-7 days, the higher the heel the more days you do. This helps your feet and leg muscles get used to walking in them. If they still hurt the same they did on day one by the third day though return them, they are cut wrong for your feet.

Third: if the shoes allow for it try wearing those little socks with the cushion pads on the heel and ball of the foot. If the shoe doesn’t allow for that use band-aids friction block stick to protect those areas and reapply when it becomes uncomfortable. do not wait until it already hurts, it’s a blister by then.

Step down with the MIDDLE of your foot. I know the sound of heel-toe stepping in heels is a great sound, but it’s horrible for your feet/legs and will increase chances of you breaking the heel (especially for pointed heels and stilettos).

Resist the urge to let your butt jut out like a duck! This is horrible for your lower back and can cause serious pain. Once in your heels and situated, let your pelvis drop and bend your knees a little so your tail bone can tuck down, it’ll help relieve tension in your lower back. Check in with this when you’re standing for long periods of time.

Use mole skin on areas where your feet might rub! I always stick some down on the backs on heels that tend to chew up the back of my feet.