Julie

Otherwise things spiraled with neighbor M since Wednesday, she rings the door many times a day, she even keep ringing when we don't open fast enough, then she goes in her flat and let her door open so I have to enter to know what's happening and she rambles on and on. I found a solution for her hair with the goodwill of a hairdresser (it needs to be cut above the matted part, yes it's bad like that) and I put my limit by refusing to let her shower in my bathroom, I'm not letting her enter in my flat because I know it would worsen my case. Yesterday evening I didn't do things I had to do because I was with her.

So here is how it went: I knocked on her door at the time we had set, I wasn't surprised to see she was still in pyjama (as usual), she spoke to me about stuff and how she can't use her shower (again), I told her I'm coming back in 30 min and to get ready, I went to my flat and took an ibuprofen because hmm, I came back and she was now in her bathrobe, out of the shower, yes, then she forced me to touch her very matted hair 😭 she doesn't know why her hair is like that 🙃 then she started to dress herself in the bedroom with the door open, then after an other 30 min of her roaming around in her bra searching for a specific shirt and putting on a small scarf and a hair clip, she was finally ready to hit the door, YaY. We went (slowly) to an administration, her ISP and her bank, then we took a coffee on my own initiative because she needed to get things off her chest, before coming back home (slowly).

Woke-up around 7am, still tired, still having a light headache but I'm not going to take an ibuprofen, I did laundry, papers and stuff and I'm going to try to urge neighbour M a bit so we don't go out too late.

Unrelated to previous post but Myster sent me below

Him: what are you doing?

Ok so these last days I'm popping ibuprofen like smarties, it's bad but I have headaches and I'm not supposed to take paracetamol as a migrainous person (neurologist said it can worsen if taken regularly).

I don't want to sound like a beach but I'm exhausted and between work, getting ready for the moving out and miscellaneous, I also have to help neighbor M, I have to go with her somewhere tomorrow to do a formality and I know it's going to take ages to go there and back 😭 but I couldn't say no because she's vulnerable and alone............