J.

as a woman you should be intentionally moving your hips and dancing, doing sexy movements, swaying and touching yourself gently every day to unlock ur inner vixen

Drive is something I wholeheartedly believe everyone needs to have. It doesn’t have to be hardcore and it doesn’t need to be present all of the time (we all have our sad moments or reevaluation points), but you need something to remind you why you wake up every day. You have to work towards SOMETHING. Even regular relaxation or light work works towards your happiness—but being aimless all day every day is terrifying to me.

Beauty is a currency for women, but you need to be spending it in the right places. It also can’t be the only thing you leverage. It needs to come with charm, wit, intelligence, poise, and allure. And this isn’t just about romance, it’s about every facet of life; careers, networking, friendships, eventual connections. Things don’t just “happen” to beautiful women. Most beautiful women cultivate other areas which draw others in. There are plenty of beautiful women who lean solely on being pretty, and others tire of them quickly.