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Pluto is about intensity, obsession and transformations. The house in which this planet falls into is probably the most active area of your life. It is where your life constantly evolves and why you suffer from ego deaths. Pluto puts you in there, in turbulent and demanding environment, and gives you an opportunity to mould this intense energy into something powerful. This path is about focusing on your own goals and needs. It asks you to evolve within yourself, on your own terms, in spite of all the external influence. The house of the pluto in your chart can show you what kind of obstacle you can experience on your life path. Below there are some of my personal observations based on my experiences with people.

Pluto in the 3rd house natives are naturally gifted when it comes to gathering knowledge. They have a curious and spacious mind that is capable of comprehending vast subjects. They can easily become obsessed with certain areas of studies and love to discuss things they have read or heard about. Nevertheless, the school life can be quite challenging for them, as they tend to rebel against school rules and demands of the system. Some people with this placement can experience bullying from the teachers, constant acts of injustice and academic burn-outs, which can lead to building resentment towards the institution. That's why many of them denounce the academic community or drop out of school and continue their life with negative approach to learning. It is unfortunate because many of them are highly intelligent individuals who can really prosper in academic fields. If they do decided to pursue their academic career, it can be hard for them to choose one area of studies as they tend to look at education in the larger context. It is important for those natives to focus on their personal growth and simply enjoy the process of learning without expecting special recognition.

Pluto in the 4th house native has an intense family life. The family members might be controlling and toxic or just generally demanding. The native is conflicted about their roots and their role in the family dynamic, which can lead to pretty strong rebellious phase during teenage years. At some point in their life they can became interested in learning about family history and uncovering their secrets. I noticed that some people with this placement might have a special bond with their grandparents, aunts and uncles or cousins. This placement often indicates difficult relationship with the mother and strong bond with the father. The native can be rebelliously trying to cut or loosen ties with their family, but they rarely succeed. In spite of all the toxic traits that their family exhibits, they usually have a pretty close or even codependent relationship. My friend who has this placement is really close with her family in spite of constant disagreements and dramas. Her parents are both controlling and incredibly supportive. People with this placement need to gain enough self worth and independency to face their families with confidence. They need to learn how to set boundaries and how to find inner peace in the chaos of their family.

Disclaimer : I've randomly decided to start this series of pluto observation with 3rd and 4th house omitting 1st and 2nd. So if you are looking for your placement I might write about them in some other posts. I don't know if I will cover all of the houses though...

I noticed that in a lot of cases your Venus sign indicates how you express love (romantic and platonic) and not necessarily what is your ideal type of relationship. For example: Cancer Venus will be especially gentle and affectionate if you are sick or need their help. They are deeply empathetic, so if someone they care about is having hard time, they will do what they can to ease their pain. People with this placement usually show their love through acts of service. For Capricorn Venus it is really important to have a strong and reliable relationship, that's why they will make sure that you know their feelings. If they feel comfortable around you they can just directly say something like "I hope you know I love you" or "I love being around". When it comes to Aries Venus, those people will be very excited about your hobbies and interest; and will give you all of their attention to make you feel special. They will sacrifice their time to keep you company wherever you want to go. You want to go to the gym? Sure, the theater? Why not, the concert of your favorite artist? We have to go. People with this placement tend to absorb some of their partners hobbies to spend more quality time with them.

My friend who has Venus in the 11th house loves slow-burn romances. It's not believable for her that people can develop such intense emotions as love, without being close friends for a long time before.

I notice that a lot of people with Venus in the 7th house hate being single. They get attached pretty easily, but if it doesn't work out, they can jump from one relationship to another quite fast. And it is not that they can date just anyone or simply for fun. People with this placement are really willing to work to build a relationship that they want. They posses a special gift that allows them to form deep bond with almost anyone who crosses their path. Unfortunately, no matter the work you put into building your relationship, if there isn't enough compatibility, the relationship is not going to last. They can cling to someone who causes them pain just because they think that there's still a chance they can make it work. They rarely give up on people, but if they do break up with someone it is probably for good. Dating someone with this placement can be truly a blessing if you are looking for healthy and long- lasting relationship. If there are real feelings and attraction, you can get through any obstacle on your way and survive every crisis.

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Mercury in the 8th house people would rather die than have an actual small talk. That is why it is hard for them to make new friends, as a vision of slowly getting to know each other before exchanging intimate thoughts seems tiring.

People with mercury in the 10th house are known for their opinions. They are usually quite sure of themselves and can be quite argumentative. Somehow it seems that everyone knows their thoughts on particular issues and loves discussing it. It can be especially apparent if the planet is in Aquarius. Both of my friends who have this placement are constantly sharing their controversial thoughts with newly met strangers without hesitation. They usually have very far left political views.

The same sign in mercury and sun usually indicates a really honest person. Those people hate lying or pretending to be someone they are not. Staying true to themselves is something incredibly important to them and they need friends who would never judge them or pressure them to change. Sometimes, this people can develop an unhealthy habit of excessive oversharing or venting. I have also met people with this placement that were a little bit too transparent about their personal opinions. I knew a girl with this placement who would openly tell someone that she doesn't like them and was visibly annoyed when that person tried to talk to her.

As a mercury gemini, whenever I hangout with my friends who all have mercury in air signs I come home literally exhausted and unable to talk with anyone. Our conversations are really vivid and can last for hours. It's hard to keep track of what's going on as we constantly change subjects, interrupt each other and make a lot of noise. I love it so much but after a while we all just go mute and stare at the wall...

There is this specific type of older women that hate me for no particular reason and I believe it has something to do with Lilith being in my 1st house. They tend to criticize my intellectual work while constantly giving me complements on my appearance. They usually are also unnecessarily sexual, asking about my love life or assuming every guy I talk to is my boyfriend. The same goes for my friend who also has heavy Lilith energy in her chart. Women tend to project their insecurities onto her and she had many of them tell her something like "You remind me of myself when I was younger".