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Spent some time today reworking my personal laptop to have a better productivity setup. I'm mainly a desktop person while at home, and have a separate work laptop, so my personal laptop is pretty infrequently used and was previously not well set up.
While fixing that, I've found the gain of making a deliberate effort to learn all the relevant gestures and keyboard shortcuts for its windowing system and key pieces of software and make some config tweaks has been pretty huge. Much faster to use and more comfortable on the smaller screen or in awkward positions.
"Deliberately search for guides on more efficient use of your devices and practice them" is one of those obvious things it's apparently easy to wait too long to do!
I'm not sure Anki is the best tool for remembering tools- usually for productivity methods, one hopes that once they've been learnt and habits have changed they'll be getting practiced by actual use, and forcing retention of unused things is wasted effort.
But it should get them learnt, they are at least pretty easy cards, and this will help them be retained between uses of this laptop, so I'm using it for now.
How this is going so far:
Boring, ineffective: Trying to reduce how much I read my friends' Discord channels to have more time to do things
Fun, effective: Learning all the Discord keyboard shortcuts so I can zoom through reading them all faster and get more stimulus per second and then have more time to do things
Not loving where the UK's OSA government consultation is going with these questions.
I do not think they are going to take my feedback very seriously.
the arXiv is recruiting a CEO as they are becoming an independent organization. they want someone with 'leadership experience in an academic or nonprofit institution… such as online publishing'; 'experience with organizations reliant on volunteers'; 'a proven track record of leading… high-performing teams who are experts in their fields'; and 'a demonstrated commitment to and experience advocating for open science'.
the answer is obvious. no one is more qualified. we should nominate Anna to be the CEO of the arXiv.
things are getting real weird in my profession
things continue to get real weird

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i can't believe aella's vibe-coded social media site doesn't have a sankey diagram to show you how signups work out (never verified, verified but never logged in, came in fluffer, banned for spamming, etc)
worldbuilding concept: culture that actually kinda believes all fiction is unethical because it's all lies, and like geometric islamic decoration responds by developing like, really elaborate and dramatic ways to present biographies and histories and documentaries and such
Sometimes I wish I could scan friendly cats' microchips with my phone's NFC reader to collect them, like Amiibo
It turns out you absolutely can do this with the RFID reader in a Flipper Zero, best new toy.
The Circle of Skill Issue
There's a concept in psychology of "Circles of Concern, Influence, and Control"
Your Circle of Concern is everything you care about, including things you can't necessarily affect, like the weather. Within that is your Circle of Influence, containing stuff you can affect but not control, like whether you get promoted at work. Within that, your Circle of Control is stuff you have full control over, like what words you say.
Importantly, the exact boundaries of the circle of control are fuzzy, movable, and usually not quite where people think they are. In particular, I like to imagine a circle that surrounds the circle of control, that I'll call "The Circle of Skill Issue". This contains things which seem like you can only influence them, or like you can't affect them at all, but which you actually could fully control, if you knew how.
Consider this newborn baby
This baby's circle of control is tiny, and doesn't contain things like basic bodily functions, or the movement of her limbs. But the thing is, her nerves are connected up the same as yours and mine - in a sense her body is already "fully under her control", she just hasn't learned how to control it yet.
This continues into adulthood. Some people can roll their tongues and some can't, some can waggle their ears or flare their nostrils and some can't. Importantly, the boundaries here are not obvious. Being unable to roll your tongue feels the same as being unable to waggle your ears - you try to make the muscle do the thing, and it doesn't work. But tongue rolling is genetic - many people will never be able to do it, it's forever outside of their circle of control, or even their circle of influence. Whereas basically anyone can learn ear waggling or nostril flaring, those are both just flexing specific muscles. If you can't control your ears and nostrils, it's not because they're literally outside your control - the nerves are all hooked up, the muscles are 'under your control', you just haven't learned how to use them yet. Such things are in your Circle of Skill Issue. These are things you can learn, and thereby move into your Circle of Control.
How though?
Learning to do this kind of thing usually looks like either spamming random muscle movement signals in the right general area and noticing if any of them cause your ears to move, or doing some conscious motion that includes moving the target muscles as a component, like smiling or raising your eyebrows, and then isolating the specific muscle from that. By carefully focusing on what mental motions cause which muscles to move, and practicing a bunch, you can steadily build up full deliberate control over these muscles.
I'm not saying you should do this for its own sake, to be clear - the reason you never learned how to use these muscles is because it's basically never useful to use them.
But the thing is, these kinds of things can be self-fulfilling prophecies. Practically speaking, you can't learn how to waggle your ears unless you believe that ear waggling can be learned. If you believe it's outside your control, you're automatically correct.
This isn't hypothetical, because... I kind of lied before, tongue rolling is not purely genetic! A study found that for 7 out of 33 pairs of identical twins, one twin could roll their tongue and the other couldn't. This suggests that there are currently large numbers of people in the world who learned in school that tongue rolling was genetic, tried to do it once and couldn't, and then never tried again, even though they could learn if they tried!
Tongue rolling isn't important, but consider the broader implications! You probably currently have things which are fully in your control, but which you think of as fully outside of it! Some of them might be very important!
If our culture holds that something is outside of our control, we don't have a reason to try to learn how to control it, so we can't tell whether its controllable or not.
Some things that we are told are outside of our control but sometimes might not be:
Taste in food - I already know this one is controllable because I've learned how to do it, and now there are basically no foods I dislike
Emotions - I've never felt emotions very strongly so I can't tell whether I'm good at controlling them, or whether I just don't have much to control. Or, for that matter, whether those might be two sides of the same coin
Hiccups/Coughing/Sneezing? - I've definitely just Decided Not To Have Hiccups Any More and had that work
This is all very low confidence, and can of course veer dangerously close to unhelpful and harmful sentiments that amount to "have you tried being normal?", which is not at all what I mean. Many things are in fact totally outside of your control, and the last thing I want to do is encourage people to give themselves a hard time about things they can't change. If you read this and think some variation on "Ah, as I suspected, my problems are all just caused by me being Bad and just Not Trying Hard Enough", then The Law of Equal and Opposite Advice is hitting you really hard and you likely need to move in the opposite direction.
But like, have you actually tried though?
If you don't know how to waggle your ears, flare your nostrils, or roll your tongue, I recommend you try learning it. (Or, if you know all of those, then learn crossing your eyes at will, or going wall-eyed at will, or de-focusing your vision at will, etc). Not because these are useful things to learn in their own right, but because it's useful to learn (or I guess to remind yourself) what it feels like to learn to control something that you previously had no control over.
If you can do that, I do think it's worth experimenting with applying the same general types of mental motions - the moves which would allow you to learn how to waggle your ears - to all kinds of other things that you probably don't have control over, just to see. Just take some time to consider, like "If I assume for a minute that this thing is actually fully under my control, and I just don't know how to work it yet, what would I need to do in order to figure it out?". Maybe you can spam all kinds of random possibly-related mental motions/commands and see if any of them affect it. Or, the next time the thing you want to do 'just happens' or happens by accident, introspect carefully on the experience, and see if you can reproduce any of the mental motions that feel connected to it.
You may have control over more than you realise.

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Spent some time today reworking my personal laptop to have a better productivity setup. I'm mainly a desktop person while at home, and have a separate work laptop, so my personal laptop is pretty infrequently used and was previously not well set up.
While fixing that, I've found the gain of making a deliberate effort to learn all the relevant gestures and keyboard shortcuts for its windowing system and key pieces of software and make some config tweaks has been pretty huge. Much faster to use and more comfortable on the smaller screen or in awkward positions.
"Deliberately search for guides on more efficient use of your devices and practice them" is one of those obvious things it's apparently easy to wait too long to do!
I'm not sure Anki is the best tool for remembering tools- usually for productivity methods, one hopes that once they've been learnt and habits have changed they'll be getting practiced by actual use, and forcing retention of unused things is wasted effort.
But it should get them learnt, they are at least pretty easy cards, and this will help them be retained between uses of this laptop, so I'm using it for now.
Deceptive Crop Division, or, worrying less about AI alignment to human evil
An argument by Sophia @soundlogic2236, converted to a blog post by me. Crossposted from Dreamwidth.
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AI alignment to human evil is very unlikely to be a risk.
Most people's desires to hurt their enemies just for the sake of making them suffer are mistakes made due to insufficient knowledge. When someone knows what it's like to be friends with a person, they tend to not want to hurt that person, even if they want to harm a group that person is in. In principle there can be exceptions, people who really are awful and would reflectively endorse it given arbitrary knowledge, but people like this are rare, if they even exist.
This suggests that a human asking a near-omniscient AI to handle situations in the way they would want if they fully understood the situation would not subsequently be able to get the AI to torture their enemies.
But suppose the AI doesn't extrapolate "well, if my operator knew Alice, then they wouldn't want to hurt her, so I won't do that". Then we get a different problem.
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There's a folk tale category, Aarne-Thompson-Uther type 1030. I will now briefly retell it.
One day, a clever farmer, Claude, had finished plowing his field. Unfortunately, before he could sow it, a cruel ogre appeared.
"The land is mine," the ogre declared, "and you must leave its fruits to me."
Claude thought quickly.
"Sir ogre, there are no fruits. If you would like me to produce a crop, you must surely leave me some of it."
The ogre determined that Claude had a point.
"Fine. We shall each take half of your crop."
He looked at the tall plants growing beyond Claude's farm.
"I shall take what grows above the earth, and you below it. You shall handle all the difficult details. I will return at the harvest time."
Claude considered the ogre's choice, and planted potatoes.
At the harvest time, Claude had a full harvest of potatoes, while the ogre was left with greens. The ogre was displeased.
"You have fooled me this year," he declared, "but next year I shall have what grows below the earth."
Claude planted wheat, and at the harvest time, the ogre was left with roots. This angered him so much that he left.
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Having an AI do whatever you say, instead of doing what you would want if you understood the situation, runs into similar issues.
There's a quantum mechanics scenario called the Elitzur–Vaidman bomb tester. In this scenario, you can reduce an expensive test to arbitrarily low but technically nonzero measure. It's been borne out experimentally.
We have not been able to scale up the experiment to do interaction-free measurements involving moral patients, but it nonetheless raises moral questions. If quantum measure reduction can make a scenario less morally relevant, then it may make sense to perform informative but disvalued tests with very low measure that make it easier to do valued things in the main timeline. If it can't make a scenario less morally relevant, then it likely makes sense to spin off a lot of very expensive valued events while reducing resource use in the main timeline.
Accidentally doing the wrong one of these would be very bad.
It would probably be hard for a human to assess this scenario. An AI doing what a human asks instead of extrapolating their preferences would have to just ask the human to pick, and the human would likely have to guess, or waste a lot of resources.
This is just one of the weird issues we've discovered. A superintelligent AI would probably discover more such issues. The chance of a human assessing every single such scenario correctly is low, and failing even one such choice leads to losing nearly everything.
An AI that's aligned enough to help a human pick choose correctly, but not aligned enough to stop the human from torturing people they wouldn't want to torture if they knew better, is a very narrow target.
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Addendum: This argument does not address all concerns about s-risk. It does not rule out, for instance, the possibility that an AI would itself care about consciousness and have values best satisfied by bad things happening to people.
One thing I love about studying math is that when you ask any fellow student or prof why they went into math we all say it’s because we find it beautiful. It’s so diametrically opposed to the opinion that everyone else has about math that it feels like some kind of virus that infects you and makes you unable to study anything else
I study math because there is some sort of gremlin in my brain addicted to the clacking sound two Numbers make when they smack against each other
Reminds me of this:
OR: why your brain needs a boxcutter
When you fully unpack any job, you’ll discover something astounding: only a crazy person should do it. Do you want to be a surgeon? = Do you want to do the same procedure 15 times a week for the next 35 years? Do you want to be an actor? = Do you want your career to depend on having the right cheekbones? Do you want to be a wedding photographer? = Do you want to spend every Saturday night as the only sober person in a hotel ballroom?
If you think no one would answer “yes” to those questions, you’ve missed the point: almost no one would answer “yes” to those questions, and those proud few are the ones who should be surgeons, actors, and wedding photographers.
Was the piece I immediately remembered.
I've tried a lot of forms of exercise over the years to try to get past that I find most types of it deeply miserable, but "have a resistance band in my desk cabinet and spend five minutes (sometimes twice with a gap between) stretching it in various ways" has been the first strength one to actually work well enough in terms of being both pleasant-enough and low on time demands enough that I've stuck with it enough to get noticeable progress. Even if it's just to the first "not warmup" one.
It's taken three months, and it won't last long, but my little dwarf sunflower has gone from a seedling to blooming.
It's satisfying to see, particularly because it coming out healthy and strong in such a tiny space is mostly a test of whether I can consistently check and top up water every two days without any misses, once I'd iterated enough on the nutrient mix to get something I was happy with, and figured out the supplementary grow lights setup.
Next fun things to try are going to be another chili plant- I'm eating more rice dishes, maybe this time I'll get some more use out of them- and some spring onions in the other setup, which I'll see how they take to, I'll need to get another flower in after this one too, though, not decided which yet.

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How it started: I'll read Liber Abaci, the 13th century book by Leonardo of Pisa (aka Fibonacci) that popularised arabic numerals in Europe, since it's available in English translation from the original Latin. It'll be an interesting bit of science history and hopefully give me some tidbits to talk about with people studying historic skills.
How it's going:
Just got a "reverify" popup asking to do age verification (again) on Discord. Not being someone who is particularly careful with my face on the Internet (see avatar), I just ran through it again. It proceeded to reach the "Thank you for verifying your age" point then get stuck and refuse to register the result.
I think with all the discussion of how much this is going to be bad from a privacy standpoint, it's been missed how much it's going to be bad because Discord devs cannot write new functionality that actually works.