Life Is A Such A Glorious Trauma, Is It Not?

i just discovered this gorgeous progress flag design by FlailingSpade and was inspired to build upon it

the colorblind and photosensitive friendly color scheme comes from the star of david progress flag by dykeboytism

both of these flags will be placed under the read more just in case either link ends up not working

id like to think of this as the sunrise progress flag : >

Sometimes they're;

Both !!

Neither !!

Half male !!

Half female !!

Sometimes male !!

Sometimes female !!

Sometimes both !!

Sometimes neither !!

Male and nonbinary !!

Female and nonbinary !!

Every concievable gender !!

Genders beyond comprehension !!!

AND MOREEEE !!!

Nonbinary people are NOT BINARY !! So don't expect them to make sense , to not be contradictory or to fit nicely into a third little box next to male and female !!!

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EDIT: People are pointing out how I used "male" and "female" to refer to gender instead of sex. Yes! I did that! My point still stands! And I will not be changing it!

All 16 embroidery patches are available for pre-order until March 7!

Patches for the following pride flags: asexual, aromantic, rainbow, bisexual, lesbian, gay, non-binary, transgender, demisexual, and genderfluid.

Please signal boost this social media stretch goal! Your support will free these Unicorns from the “sea of ideas” into reality!

2000 reblogs, retweets, & insta shares to unlock LGBTQ, Lesbian, Bi, and Trans

10000 likes across platforms to unlock Ace/Demi, Aro/Demiro, AroAce, and Genderfluid

It was fun to make a design that works for the Ace & Aro umbrella and Demi versions simultaneously.

The design is based on both the IRL Unicorn Nebula, as well as the Unicorn Tapestry.

Celestial Pride has less than a week left so please take a look. Thank you!

"If it sucks, hit da bricks" is for when you realize that you actually definitely can live with the consequences of Not Doing The Thing.

I realized I haven't been posting fic updates on Tumblr, so here's a little master list of everything I've published recently:

1. The Salt to My Caramel: Andreil one shot, 5.4k words, rated E. The latest addition to my Fandom Tropes Redux series where I take popular fandom tropes and remix/adapt them for Andreil.

roommates au || Andrew is a dick critic || pinning || crack treated seriously

2. Unbiased and Reliable Results: Andreil, 7/7 chapters, 31k words. I finished this fic a while ago, but I've added another chapter + an extra scene with Andrew filming a new video for Neil, the boys being stupidly in love & going on vacation.

heavy smut || explicit videos || sexting || Andrew's first time bottoming

3. I could teach you (but I have to charge): Andreil 7/7 chapters, 34k words, rated E.

heavy smut || light dom/sub undertones || Andrew streamer/cam boy au || soft dom Neil || personal trainer Neil || sex toys || filming together

4. Boys' Date: Andreil one shot, 600 words, rated G.

manicures || pride parade || marriage proposal

5. Deny You Nothing: Andreil one shot, 5.2k words, rated E. aftgtwt pissed me off with the recurring discourse on whether Andrew bottoms or not, so I wrote this...

established Andreil || public sex || blowjobs || snowballing || bottom Andrew

6. secrets to the grave: Andreil, 9/9 chapters, 50k, rated E. Phew, another long WIP completed! I am unabashedly proud of this one; it is, by far, my favorite version of the boys <3 and quite possibly the best writing I've ever done.

adopted siblings AU || pseudo-incest || small town || winter blues || angst || coming of age || fever dream timeline

7. Their Benevolent Design: Andreil, 4/?, 18k words, rated E. My current ongoing WIP. Weekly updates.

vampire AU || Southern Gothic || sentient houses || mind-link || one bed

Bonus story on a new account I made for spicier content (the AO3 name is kind of a giveaway lol):