Follow Your Heart

U ever meet a super cool girl and ur like… do I want her to be my best friend or my wife

Be the reason someone believes in the goodness of people. 

in hardship there is hope, but in happiness there is fear. because you know how temporary everything is, and now you have something which you could lose.

‪Constantly analyze yourself. Figure out why certain things upset you. Question your own motives. Understand your behavior. This creates a pathway for change. Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.‬

I know it sounds fake but you really do have a lot of silent lovers on this planet who look at you and wish they had your smile or your hair color or your humor or your intellect or your intentions or your heart, your manners, your eyes, your ease, even just you. People who are too shy to tell you what they admire about you or what they wish for you or who they see themselves becoming bc of you & they’re too shy to tell you. even tho it isn’t verbalized, the universe has still heard and the universe has loved you for helping out on its creations. You’re that person. You’re you.

the purest form of love is giving people enough space to find themselves, without being too far if they ever get lost. nothing pure comes from suffocation. let it be known that you’re present, without being a burden to their growth.

You ever meet someone who is the human version of the sun and every time ur with them u just feel so warm

‪The love you give recycles and circulates throughout the universe, no expression of love is ever lost or wasted.‬

do you ever just want to sit outside with someone and talk all night because i do

Your significant other should have a sense of security being with you, knowing that you won’t betray them or mislead them and have their back 24/7. A lot of y'all don’t understand that concept of trust and love.

Time spent with the right person feels like a vacation from the world.

we haven’t spoken in a while, i’m trying to be okay with that.

I want to meet pure and honest people 

I feel so stupid sometimes because I fantasize too much about the people I like; I invent stories with them, I imagine entire days with them and how nice the future will be with pictures and letters and other tender things that makes a lot of sense in my mind. then the reality turn to be so much different and meaner and maybe the reason why it’s so difficult for me to accept it and letting people go it’s because I just want my future to be happy. in all my stories and castles I build inside of my mind, sadness just does not exist

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.