I really liked the episode Onion Gang, and there are some things I wanted to discuss about it. I put them on hold for a while though because I got some asks that were rather ambivalent about the episode and I wanted to talk about them too.
I think Onion is a very complex character and the way many people have been reading him as autistic-coded, to me, is pretty consistent with the behaviour of some of the people Iāve met with autism. Iām not an expert on mental illness, so I hesitate to conclude that he is autistic, in case I make use of the wrong word, but letās expound on that further and perhaps a more accurate word can be used based on his character description.
Given that, I think itās best to begin with an analysis of his character before moving on to the implications of Onion Gang. With that said, letās get started.
1. There is a real difference in how Onion interacts with the world
Personally, I would be one of the last people to label a character who just happens to be quirky as having mental illness, because I donāt think itās a great narrative to reinforce that mentally ill people can just turn it off when itās not narratively needed, or a comedic punchline. With that said, I do find Onionās behavioural patterns very unique. The differences between his and say, his brotherās actions are not perceived, but real.
For one, he very rarely speaks. And who does he talk to? His parents, and Iām assuming, Sour Cream. Itās not a failing on his part to understand that people are trying to communicate with him. He nods, gestures, and at times, flat out ignores when people are speaking to him. Itās just thatĀ speaking isnāt his main means of communicating with other people.
He talks to his parents because heās very comfortable with them. In Onion Trade, for instance, he lets Yellowtail carry him. Vidalia does the same thing in Onion Friend.
He doesnāt really let other people get physically close to him. I feel he becomes uncomfortable when people get close, but when itās someone he feels safe around, he likes being picked up and squeezed.Ā
Because Onion doesnāt seem like the kind of character who wants to be alone all the time. For the majority of the show, thatās how we see him. But this episode has shown us thatās not how heād prefer it. If it were up to him, heād always be with his friends. Much like most children his age, itās the time to be very social and explore the world through his peer group. In the absence of that, he fills his time with a lot of activities he likely copies off television and other forms of popular entertainment.
Notice that Onion is given a lot of free reign with regards to doing things. In many episodes, heās walking by himself even though itās late (Restaurant Wars), or doing potentially dangerous things like taking a crowbar to the arcade (Future Boy Zoltron) or riding a motorcycle (Onion Trade).Ā
Itās not that his parents donāt care. The Yellow Fam is a very loving family. But they areĀ very busy. Yellowtail isnāt home a lot of the time. Iāve covered before how fishermen leave before dawn, because thatās when the fish are out. They come back in the morning or around noontime after their catch and even then YT has to sell that catch. And then afterwards, heās going to have to sleep because in the middle of the night heās going to set off again.Ā
Vidalia has begun to rediscover her own individuality after settling down and having a family. And one interesting thing Iād like to point out is that the other people in Beach City donāt reprimand Onion for his behaviour. They stop him when heās about to do something harmful, but we donāt hear people lecturing him or sayingĀ heās being weird the way Steven has voiced out. In Too Short to Ride, Mr. Smiley reacts with horror, not anger, that Onion is juggling flaming torches.
Recall that Steven Universe is seen from Stevenās viewpoint. At this point, itās very likely that the town and its adults know about Onionās condition. And theyāre all helping out in the classicĀ āit takes a village to raise a childā way. But itās not something they felt the need to tell Steven. The show has never made a big deal about details our society has deemed need-to-know, like race and gender. The town also sees Steven as a child too. Itās easy to forget heās fourteen sometimes. It may be one of those times when raising Steven to just accept that some people do things differently is better than telling a young person,Ā āHey, this person is different in a way you canāt completely understand so your fear will just alienate that person from you.ā
I think this is further reinforced by how Onion is treated at home.
In any other household in Beach City, this behaviour would have been chastised or at least looked upon with worry. Vidalia didnāt bat an eyelid at it. This isnāt her being a lax parent. Recall that in Greg the Babysitter, there was a very real fear of her murdering Greg if anything happened to Sour Cream. Sheās supportive of her children and attends SCās concerts, probably acting as the bridge between him at YT at times. Thereās no reason to say that she isnāt concerned about Onionās life. But thatās the thing. For children with autism, you canātĀ āfixā their behaviour. Many therapists will accustom children to socialising with others, so they can be functioning and can look out for themselves, but they canāt erase his autism. Basically, theyāre not forcing him to act likeĀ āall the other children.ā Onion can be Onion, but he also has to act within a reasonable set of expectations.
Additionally, autism, like many mental conditions, has a spectrum and manifests in many forms. Some peopleĀ donāt like being touched or hugged by human beings at all, but theyāre fine with hugs from animals. Some never speak, and communicate though other means. Itās very unique. Onion has shown multiple times that he likes the feeling of squishing things. The ketchup packets he drives over, the mashed potatoes, the bugs, I think he prefers pressure stimulation, and thatās why he often grabs Steven or tugs at him. To Steven, itās an intrusive gesture. But it holds a very different significance for Onion, and that leads me to my next point.
2. Onion looks up to and cares about Steven