RPF and the Heated Rivalry Fandom
This has been in my head all day because some people have asked my opinion on RPF, specifically because both Hudson and Connor have spoken up about it, so now Iām spending my lunch break writing a rant.
For those of you who donāt know, RPF is āReal People Fiction,ā or writing fanfic about real people. Itās basically likeā¦intense shipping. The latest discourse has been about Hudson and Connor from the HR fandom because itās gotten WAY parasocial and both of them have expressed their discomfort.
So how do I feel about it?
I think that 99 percent of the time, RPF ruins fandoms.
Hereās the thing: If you want to talk to your friends in a private space (discord chat, text chain, whatever) about how you ship two people or they look good together, then thatās your right! We all have had a moment where we see two (or more) people standing together and think ādamn they would be cute together.ā But the moment you turn it into a public, stalker-y, parasocial thing, it gets SO incredibly inappropriate.
I think we forget that celebrities are people. Sure, theyāve chosen a job that puts them in the public eye, but that doesnāt mean that they deserve to have their private lives analyzed with a fine-toothed comb. I think we can all agree that if any of us were in their place, it would be INCREDIBLY uncomfortable to be continually pushed towards someone that we insist weāre just friends with. Even IF they were dating, theyāve said itās not our businessā¦.so it isnāt.
And hereās the worst part: Weāve seen so many examples of when RPF gets out of control and affects the relationships of the people being shipped. Weāve seen friendships fall apart because two REAL people become uncomfortable with their every move being analyzed.Ā
So why in Godās name would someone who claims to like the HR fandom and want it to succeed continue to push this?
Even if you have no empathy for Hudson and Connor as people (and, like, you should because they seem like genuinely good guys)...this level of RPF is threatening to ruin the future of the fandom that weāve come to love.
How can we expect them to show chemistry on-scene when they canāt even spend time together without being hounded? How can we expect them to show any type of love for each other when they know itāll be picked apart?Ā
Iām genuinely terrified that the insanity that this is causing could ruin season two and beyond just because now the world is acting insane and ruining such a good thing. Like, even if you have no respect for these two boys, please stfu and let go of the āHudcon are datingā agenda.Ā
And if you MUST write RPF, put it on ao3. Ao3 is a site where people actively have to SEEK OUT those topics, you canāt stumble upon it. Unless one of them searches for the tag, they canāt find it. Leave it off of Twitter and Tiktok and all that shit.Ā
Leave these boys alone and let them cook, for fuckās sake.