Ball-less and Flawless

This might be my favourite photoset of me like ever

more than anything i want a world where a trans girl realizing she is a trans girl faces zero fear from that realization and subsequent coming out. Where she can say "Oh sweet, I can just be a girl? Sign me up!", no worrying if shes girl enough, no worrying if society will accept her, no worrying if she'll be an attractive girl as she transitions, no worrying at all in any way shape or form.

Dressing as a trans woman is so exhausting 😮‍💨 gotta find things that fit my child bearing hips and my perky lil tits and my slutty little waist 😔

racism literally bleeds through the cracks of everything and if you dare to even barely point it out everyone will kill you

racism runs so deeply in people that if you call it out you are calling out them, and instead of sitting down and examining their own racism they lash out at you for being sooo meansies to them. you don't even have to be talking about anyone's racist behavior in particular because it makes racists so uncomfortable they will come forward themselves and act like you're targeting them specifically. it's okay when they do it because they're doing it in the correct way, in the nice way! they don't mean it like that. in fact they're actually being progressive. you're the cruel one for acting like their racist behavior is racist. you're the problem if you're bothered by their comfort racism. you're the bitchy colored person who makes eeeverything about racism when it so clearly isn't. i'm fucking sick of this.

I have such a love hate with being a heavyweight when it comes to alcohol. On one hand I love it at bars and parties cause I can drink all night and still be chill. But goddamn being drunk when I actually get there hits me like a goddamn truck now

i blame going to to the gym at 6am. I already did the thing I wanted to do, so now I can just fuck off on all of my other responsibilities

i love the word transsexual (not because it "sounds cool radical transgressive" ew i'm not the brand of tboy who fetishizes being oppressed -particularly being transmisogynized. i love it because when trans people transition they change their sexgender not "just their gender" like every liberal self appointed "ally" believes). but then you have to deal with people who think the thing that makes you transsexual is like. a surgery. i'm gonna kms why do trans people feel the need to reinvent transmedicalism every 5 minutes.

your strawman "teenager who dyed their hair and goes by they/them" is transsexual too hope this helps

Like when you're calling DIY advocates "transmeds" you have Lost The Fucking Plot. You have decided that "transmed" means "trans person whose vibes I don't like." Words actually need to mean things to be useful.

Anyone who's never had to deal with trans healthcare in the gatekeeping model especially needs to put in work to learn this: What transmedicalists are advocating for, whether they understand it or not, is a system where a cis man with a history of sexually harassing patients determines if you're "trans enough" to transition.