Loving him was red

5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger

6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights

E.g.

If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Don’t risk it. Your body knows.

If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but you’ll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.

Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.

Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.

Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say “hey dad! Yep, I’m almost there, I’m sending you the route.” outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.

If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say “Betty, oh my god, I haven’t seen you in so long!”. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know you’re trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.

If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like “hey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If you’d like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.” This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when you’re in a crowded train and you notice harassment.

i was always told that the elbow is the sharpest point in your body, so use your elbows!!

to quote dwight schrute: “the eyes are the groin of the head”

im pretty sure that the nose is really sensitive so try to hit that. in a self defense class, they said to hold your hand like you’re carrying a plate (flat, palm up) and push upwards, bringing the bottom of your palm at the nose.

NEVER tuck in your thumb if you’re making a fist. that way if you punch someone you’ll break your thumb. make a fist like this and punch with the part marked red.

you can knock someone out by punching them into the chin. the nose is also very sensitive and can be easily broken.

as someone said above, STAY AWAY FROM WALLS!

the knee and the elbow are the strongest parts of the body. and they are nicely angled for kicking somebody.

- modern au of course

* see ask here

……………

“Are you serious?”

“I am Sirius” he replies with a wink.

You internally groan at the tired out joke you’d probably be hearing until the end of time.

By active I mean they make their own posts regularly; they’re not simply reblogging or making the odd post. Hate includes claims that Harry is lying and stunting, as well as more straightforward ugliness.

@wellthatwasaletdown

@seasurfacefullofclouds1

@sunflowerdiscussion

@gossiprry

@harryinthecountryside

@ohheyitsmeyagirl

@venusrobots

@pa-anonoverflow

@hoochy-coo

@mialovesharry

@jolivia-things

@limmastyles

@clownicallybored

@talkingharrystyles

@hoesontour

@cocochannel00

@tomlinsondiscussion

@portraitofalarryonfire

@lesbianslovelouis

@genuinemusic

@elounors

@amyrry

@stunttalk

@lightskinrry

@popfan4ever

@aliensyndrome

@berlinini

@crankydee

@cassandraatthegates

@non-binharry

@silverfoxlou

@comradelouis

@dearly

@fluffyyorkshirepudding

@momrry

@bottomharrykingdom

@twopoppies

@dogsliampaynedoesntinstagram

@wastelandbabylouis

@daisiesonafield-blog

@harolds-sunflower

@goldenfharry

@onelifeforlouisandi

@ttjj18

@thweaty

@gOldenkiwi

@yihooniall

@undertheniall

@wheretogofrmhere

@butterflyrry

@harryisawhore

ACTIVE HARRY STYLES, WOMEN, LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY, AND MINORITIES HATE BLOGS:

@beautiful-harry-styles

@somethingoldandred

@zot3-flopped

@styles-h

@threnodyzayn

@grapejuice-blues

@blue-lights-in-dreams

Sorry for the rant, I’m sick and tired of her.

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People panic over every little thing. I've just been trying not to give it so much attention. My inbox is full or panic and rage and I'm not sure what to say. It's the same shit with the stunt content. No surprises.

For those who are attacking people for “absolving/defending Harry for his involvement”. Take the pacifiers out of your mouths, wipe the foam from your mouth, and calm down. Your rabid rage isn’t making any sense.

Speaking only for myself; I never supported the idea that Harry was some innocent weakling. I’ve reiterated the fact that his hands aren’t clean in Holivia, and encouraged people to hold him accountable for his participation.

If it was partly for career advancement: he could have patiently waited for a better project to come, as most actors do, or could had been satisfied with and confident that his performances in Eternals, MP, and Dunkirk was enough to impress casting executives.

If it was for money: he could had waited for a better project to come or been contended with what he presently had.

If it was because of the blackmail: he could have involved legal matters in settling the issue. Rather than reason within himself that he could control Holivia before it spiraled into what we have now.

Harry isn’t innocent. He agreed to stunt, when he could have rejected that stipulation or renegotiated the terms in a way that it wouldn’t be what it is now. He agreed to extending the stunt after it was suppose to complete. He chose not to pay whatever termination fees required to end it before it’s expiration date.

Harry isn’t innocent. Even if fans try to argue it; the facts and his actions have proven otherwise.

However, if the justice warriors want to call for his blood, it would only be justly that you apply that same call for ALL of those who have actively participated in and profited from Holivia, such as: Olivia. Jeff. Glenne. Anthony. Tommy. Harry L. James. Tyler. Harris Reed. Anne. Alessandro. Gemma. Ella. All of Harry and Olivia’s team members, associates, acquaintances, and friends.

Basically, any one else who has smiled for the cameras, connected themselves to Olivia, in such a way, that strengthen Holivia to the public, and who has used it to promote their businesses and receive profit from it.

Yes, his family involved themselves to help him. However, they were there during 1D. They’ve seen how the infection of fame from a desperate person spreads, and once, left untreated, ruins everything and one it touches.

Them getting involved with SM liking sprees has done more damage than good.

As did Gemma agreeing to Baxter and Bonny’s marketing team to send and post pics of Olivia wearing their merchandise.

*For those wondering “I thought that was Gemma’s line?”

When has Gemma ever posted a sketch or any part of the creative design process in creating these glasses? Gemma’s ALWAYS posting and sharing the BTS of projects she’s fully involved with. Gemma majored in science- not fashion design/business. She did a brief stint as a teacher then became a freelance writer- not a stylist. What credentials would Gemma have to suddenly design and have her own sunglass line? Not to mention the financing needed to start, operate, and cover the cost of a design company.

Gemma’s, as a lot of celebs who never show a glimpse of the design process, is merely the FACE of GemmaStyles Sunglasses. Not the actual creator/owner/designer. Her last name alone brings in sales and companies capitalizes off of it.*

Not to mention the writers, editors, and photographers who work for all the tabloids and PR agencies who arranged for, provided with, and profited of Holivia.

Oh, and don’t forget to track down all of those “fans” who’s fabricated/elaborated stories of meeting them and giving pics to outlets that they knew would circulate it for attention.

The only true victims in Holivia was, is, and will forever be, Otis and Daisy. They will have to reflect back/ be reminded of this time where they were used as pawns in the Hollywood game of getting fame and money.

Which is exactly why myself or anyone else who truly cared about justice and/or Otis and Daisy’s well-being and future shouldn’t absolve Jason from his active participation in Holivia.

For those who believe that they’re lawyers, because they binged watched crime shows, use the phones that are perpetually glued to you to education yourselves in law.

Don’t try to argue, “Olivia left Jason not choice.”

You’re trying to say that now, given that Holivia content is now shit and has exhausted itself to where it’s amassed a cult who are conceived that she’s carrying Harry’s 100th child and they’re married, Jason has decided to step in and do what’s best for his kids?

Now that Ted Lasso has expanded its audience from Holivia, won its awards, Jason secured a coveted Super Bowl commercial, edited by Matthew, hosted SNL, was on the cover of GQ, renovated his appeal, in a way that some Harries now lust over him-even though if it wasn’t for Holivia they wouldn’t had never heard of him-, lead “It’s a wonderful life” table reading, has been a reoccurring topic in articles associated with Holivia that always happens to mention his current project, and secured all other success deals; Jason’s now decided to do something for the benefit of his children?

He wasn’t concerned with what was best for his kids, when Holivia debuted? The “honeymoon” pap walk the next day? What about the sleepovers in that same week? He wasn’t thinking about the well-being of his kids when Holivia moved into their love nest and was constantly papped there?

Since Harry’s this “coke snorting, wild, incubus musician who’s “changing mommy into this unrecognizable person’”, why would Jason allow for his kids to be around and in that unstable environment the past year and a half?

This is Hollywood: Otis and Daisy could have witnessed horrors, such as sex parties, drug abuse, and even became direct victims of that themselves, as morals are lost in Hollywood people. They could have ingested drugs or alcohol that “Harry would had had lying around” or “even been assaulted by people ‘step daddy Harry’ allows in and out the house”.

*Research child stars/children of stars who’s revealed what really goes on and what they all experienced, then rejoin the discussion.*

Jason, the family man, didn’t consider all of this? He didn’t think it was worth the concern when Olivia called the paps to their summer camps? Or used them as props in pap walks? What about dragging them to SF on a school night? LOT ISNT a Frozen musical. The songs aren’t appropriate for young kids to be listening nor should they be in an environment where alcohol is flowing and people are giving drugs and behaving in ways that children should yet to see. There’s video footage of Otis being exhausted and fussy, as he didn’t want to be there. Jason didn’t take his son’s behavior, as the final straw?

Clearly, from Olivia’s own words, under oath, where she confirmed with actual docs that he and her were still living together, though it was reported otherwise in the tabloids, Jason didn’t express parental concerns by, as he allowed for her to live with him at SL.

In fact, things had to have been ideal for HER to ASK for HIM to be listed for protection. The stalker targeted her; not Jason. Yes Harry was mentioned in the notes, only just as “the new guy you’re seen dating in the press.”

Olivia asked for Jason to be protected and it was legally granted as, under California law, you can ask for an extension to be applied ONLY to those apart of your household. That’s why Harry couldn’t be listed.

Italy wasn’t enough for Jason “to be left with no choice?” Seeing pics and videos of “mommy on a yacht swapping spit with the monster who’s making her ‘happiest I’ve ever been” wasn’t the push Jason needed to be feed up with Holivia being circulated and do what’s best for the kids? Not even ALL the weekly pap walks? Or conveniently skipped quality times (holidays, birthdays, family time) that should had been spent with the kids? NONE of the last year’s content wasn’t enough cause for Jason to long involve himself in doing what’s best for the kids?

You have a deadline of 120 days before a case is dismissed to serve someone with custody papers. Jason would had had ample amount of time to have done so in the past 455 days since Hovlia’s inception. But now after Holivia has exhausted itself financially and business wise, Jason has chosen to be “left with no choice, but to take action and do what’s best for the kids?”

From everything, it seems that, not only Jason has participated in and profited from Holvia, he surely has enabled it by never once intervening to stop it from strengthening.

Only now with Holivia being forever immortalitized with its defenders, his career thriving as never before, the drama and content of Holivia not fazing anyone anymore, Harry not being able to even fake convincing, Olivia’s career as a director being at stake, DWD being a flop- with its cast and crew isolating themselves from it- Jason has decided to do swoop in like Superdad and do something that would surely deflect from the negativity and introduce a storyline that would replace the minimal press Holivia was receiving recently?

This is precisely why people are questioning his motives, and aren’t convinced as the facts aren’t aligning with logic and the last year’s behavioral pattern shown by him.

I said it hours before cinemacon happened, which also makes people suspicious of the coincidental timing, and will say it again; Jason’s smarter than Olivia, but they’re different sides of the same coin. That is WHY they lasted as long as they did. Especially, when she was running with Weinstein and others.

Jason has had literally any and every chance and material to “legally” stuff, mount, and have his guy friends come over to throw darts at Olivia nailed to the wall, in order to gain custody of the kids. Tracing as far back to her time with Weinstein, and the model who mentioned her name.

Yet, Jason, the good guy, never did.

It’s hypocritical in exposing and vilifying Olivia, without questioning Jason’s character.

You can’t argue that “SM means nothing” to discredit Hovlia; only to reverse that and use it to credit Jason as the “good dad” or “the one who loves the kids the most and don’t exploit them” based off of SM pics of him with the kids. Jason and Olivia were together for over a decade. He knew who she is. The public is just seeing her insanity amplified, as she’s never had fame (calls into question Jason’s fame before Holivia vs what it is now) like this before. Which is the direct result of the enablement from Harry, his team, fans, and Jason and his crowd.

As in regards to if the docs are truly about custody of the kids or just a convenient publicity stunt to replace Holivia and keep their names in the press- the factors are questionable.

Dateline wrote an article with no official confirmation, yet was officially sure that it was about that specific issue? Not a cease and desist for her to stop using the kids? Or a lawsuit from someone in her past?

Jason, now, is claiming that he didn’t know that she would be served the way it happened.

Sure he may have not known the way it happened, but he had to have known where it would happen. Unless the omniscient fans and paps have returned, Jason had to have been the one to provide Olivia’s schedule in order for the person to be so sure that they would find her there; as HE was the one who would have filed the complaint. If you aren’t the compliant, you aren’t dealing with the serving process. Google it.

Also, Cinemacon’s detail security saying that they don’t know how that person got is suspicious.

Deuxmerde did initially reveal something that I agreed with (Holivia has reproduced a lot of freaky shit) only to amend it to fit her narrative. If Jason wanted to embarrass Olivia for the hurt and humiliation she’s afflicted on him and the kids, why not do it in a public setting where she’d be defenseless and “around the crowd she neglecting her kids for”: ie Coachella.

It would had been believable as:

1) EVERYBODY knew that she was there.

2) It was a public festival where questions of security wouldn’t be scrutinized.

3) It would had not only “got her ass” and embarrassed her, but also Harry as she was at his concert and with him. If Holivia (the brand, not two people) is truly the villain and responsible for Olivia’s parental neglect, why didn’t Jason emphasize that she was at Coachella to his lawyers who handled and communicated with the server? That would had definitely“nailed Olivia and the monster, whose responsible for destroying his family and ruining his kids lives, to the wall” as well effectively ruin their reputations and embarrass them for the “embarrassment” they’ve showed him. Maybe that didn’t happened as he didn’t want to overshadow and intervene with whatever content Holivia was creating that, Jason would later on profit from as he always. Not much but something.

How strange it was that she was served at an event where the “monster who’s planting his flag in her every night and has morphed her into someone who the kids don’t recognize” wasn’t there? Nor was any of the cast and crew. Seems like everyone knew something was happening… but how? If Jason hates Harry and Harry supports Olivia as their narratives claim, why has never the two men/opposing team never had their stories and the press around them overlap or overshadow each other? If none of this wasn’t planned or calculated, then why was Harry not present at CinemaCon though he, as a lead, should had been. It’s almost like the attention of Harry’s at Cinemacon would had minimized the attention Jason is presently recieving, as Olivia being served at Coachella would had overshadowed the attention that Harry was receiving.

Also, isn’t Ted Lasso’s final season premiering at the end of 2022? Strange how DWD premieres in September, only for Ted Lasso’s new/final season to premiere shortly thereafter.

And now, in the meantime to each project debut, we have both project’s leading person captivating the public’s attention on an issue that’s focused on the theme/importance of family…

Hope to hear from you soon!

Stay safe!

Pairing: Billy Russo X Reader (from A Woman Scorned)

Rating: R / 18+ only

A/N: This is a sequel to A Woman Scorned and takes place a few years after the events of AWS.

MasterList (includes links to AWS and previous chapters here)

Summary: You and Billy are happily married when tragedy strikes, jeopardizing your relationship and everything you two have built together. Can the two of you find your way back to each other or is the special bond you once shared broken forever?