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I’ve been talking about this a lot lately, but society has many people believing that all of the hardest things we go through are supposed to be handled solely on our own. Unfortunately, you will come across people who have internalized that message so deeply, that they will tell you that you’re a burden. Sometimes you have internalized that message so deeply that you begin to believe that you’re a burden, even if nobody has told you that. I want you to take a step back from what society has taught us. When I think of something that burdens me, it’s always something that is not important to me, the word comes with that connotation. I would never believe something is a burden if it was important to me. The health and the livelihood of the people I love, is important to me. Now there’s a difference between something being a burden, and something being a lot to handle. When something is a lot to handle, it requires more help and resources, that does not make it a burden. Your condition might require a lot of time, patience, money, etc but that doesn’t make you a burden. The condition might be a burden!! But that’s not you. So yes you come with the condition, but when people really treasure YOU, they know you are not your condition. Even if someone gets overwhelmed by your condition and takes it out on you, that’s not you being a burden. Similarly, don’t blame yourself for your struggle, for your illness. And I know that living with that illness makes it hard to interact with those that don’t have it, but that’s also not inherently your fault. We all have to work before we reach higher levels of compatibility with another person. Anyway just please, don’t be so hard on yourself when you’re already battling something that most don’t ever face.

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