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Do you guys believe in Soul Ties? I met someone who I strongly felt was my twin flame but the way they treated me, I’m not sure anymore. I was involved with them for years.

Do you guys believe in Soul Ties? I met someone who I strongly felt was my twin flame but the way they treated me, I’m not sure anymore. I was involved with them for years.

There’s something about the person who hurt you the most struggling that really brings joy to your soul. Maybe that’s morally wrong I don’t know. But it’s just what happens naturally

I’m so sorry I haven’t been my best self for the last almost decade. A relationship sucked the life force out of me and now I’m dealing with intense grief, self hate, and lack of energy. I’m sorry I have not been what I once was on this blog. Please be patient with me

i hope everything gets easier soon. or at least funnier. amen

All of the artists I find/found that make sad heartbroken girl music started making happy mutual love music (mitski, laufey, etc) so please help me find new artists/songs that fit that vibe please

Happiness Will Come To You.

when tho

When You Least Expect It. Probably Late March

reblog for happiness to come for you in late march!

well at least i don’t have kids

i think people should talk more about the unique sense of hopelessness which stems from the realization that “help” in the form myth promised you does not exist; there is no help coming and you must create from scratch the tools that will dismantle (or at least diminish) your own suffering, and do this not once but every day for the rest of your life

controversial opinion but unfortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are mean to people, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have secret kind thoughts. fortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are kind in your actions and your words, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have mean thoughts. the power is in working against inner negative thoughts and being a better person despite it. you have the ability to cultivate the person you want to be.

"we are who we pretend to be, so we must be careful who we pretend to be"

Wow I never heard this quote before, I like it

not everybody has been exposed to what you have, or has seen what you’ve seen or felt what you’ve felt. so their priorities and abilities are different from yours. that’s why you can’t compare their accomplishments or their journey to your own. you don’t see the mountains you’ve conquered as mountains because the view you’re seeing is skewed. you can’t always trust your own eyes when they’re looking at yourself. you can only strengthen your mind; tell yourself that you’re different and your battle is unique. remind yourself that you’re winning your fight just by surviving.

I don’t think there’s a “why” for why bad things happen and not everything happens for a reason, but recently I’ve been holding on to the fact that I do not know what life has in store for me. And that’s true of us all. I think for me I look at patterns of negativity and assume that’s what the future has in store for me. But I think of all the tiny other moments, tiny moments of neutrality even that can look like positivity because thank God something bad didn’t happen. If I can have those neutral moments, and even flashes of happiness, it’s evidence that life does have surprises. You need to have faith in the unpredictability of life. You don’t know what your future holds so you hold tight to this life because you’ve worked so hard to stay, you pay attention to every small moment that looks a little different than your usual dreary moments, and you have faith in the absolute fact that you do not know what’s in store for you and your future