Heart of Headbanger

“Pull over.  Let me drive for awhile.”

“It reminded me of you.”

“No, no, it’s my treat.”

“Come here.  Let me fix it.”

“I’ll walk you home.”

“Have a good day at work.”

“I dreamt about you last night.”

“Take my seat.”

“I saved a piece for you.”

“I’m sorry for your loss.”

“You can have half.”

“Take my jacket, it’s cold outside.”

“Sorry I’m late.”

“Can I have this dance?”

“I made your favourite.”

“It’s okay.  I couldn’t sleep anyway.”

“Watch your step.”

“Here, drink this.  You’ll feel better.”

“Can I hold your hand?”

“You can borrow mine.”

“You might like this.”

“It’s not heavy.  I’m stronger than I look.”

“I’ll wait.”

“Just because.”

“Look both ways.”

“I’m sorry.  I didn’t mean to.”

“Try some.”

“Drive safely.”

“Well, what do you want to do?”

“One more chapter.”

“Don’t worry about me.”

“It looks good on you.”

“Close your eyes and hold out your hands.”

“That’s okay, I bought two.”

“After you.”

“We’ll figure it out.”

“Can I kiss you?”

“I like your laugh.”

“Don’t cry.”

“I made this for you.”

“Go back to sleep.”

“Is this okay?”

“I picked these for you.”

“I’ll drive you to the hospital.”

“What do you want to watch?”

“You can go first.”

“Did you get my letter?”

“I’ll do it for you.”

“Call me when you get home.”

“I think you’re beautiful.”

“Are you sure?”

“Have fun.”

“Sit down, I’ll get it.”

“I made reservations.”

“I don’t mind.”

“It brings out your eyes.”

“There is enough room for both of us.”

“You don’t have to say anything.”

“Wow.”

“Happy birthday.”

“I’ll pick it up after work.”

“It can wait until tomorrow.”

“Cross my heart and hope to die.”

“It’s two sugars, right?”

“I’ll help you study.”

“Stay over.”

“I did the dishes.”

“You didn’t have to ask.”

“I bought you a ticket.”

“You’re warm.”

“No reason.”

“I’ll meet you halfway.”

“Take mine.”

“We can share.”

“I was just thinking about you.”

“I want you to have this.”

“Call me if you need anything.”

“Do you want to come too?”

“I’ll still be here when you’re ready.”

“Is your seatbelt on?”

“Sweet dreams.”

“I was in the neighbourhood.”

“Stay there.  I’m coming to get you.”

“The key is under the mat.”

“It doesn’t bother me.”

“You’re important too.”

“I saved you a seat.”

“I’ll see you later.”

“I noticed.”

“You can tell me anything.”

“I hope you like it.”

“I want you to be happy.”

“I believe in you.”

“You can do it.”

“Good luck.”

“I brought you an umbrella.”

“I’ll pick you up at the airport.”

“Take a deep breath.”

“Be careful.”

And…

Hakikatnya ayat ‘kalau’ (merujuk kepada penyesalan) seperti ini tidak perlu tunggu ketika di neraka, di dunia ini pun sudah selalu digunakan, “kalaulah aku..” “kalaulah aku..”. Penyakit suka mengungkapkan ‘kalau’ ini terlalu byk digunakan & berlaku kpd manusia yg suka membuat sesuatu perkara tanpa berfikir panjang terlebih dahulu yg akhirnya kesan atau natijah kpd perbuatannya itu tidak seperti diharapkan malah membawa impak yg buruk. Lebih buruk impak tersebut membawa kesan yg tidak baik kpd maruah Islam.

Justeru tidak hairanlah Rasulullah dlm satu hadithnya pernah melarang ‘penyakit kalau’ ini bila sesuatu perkara buruk sudah pun berlaku. Maknanya tidak perlu berkelakuan seolah kita pemegang takdir tetapi jadilah manusia yg belajar berfikir mencari hikmah & belajar sesuatu atas setiap perkara baik & buruk yg telah berlaku.

Perkataan ‘kalau’ ada kalanya baik (dibolehkan malahan digalakkan), & adakalanya dilarang syarak. Penggunaan perkataan ‘kalau’ yg dilarang ialah: apabila berlaku sesuatu yg buruk atau nasib malang bagi seseorg, lalu dia pun berkata: “Kalau aku tak buat, takkan jadi macam ni…”, dan seumpamanya.

Penggunaan kalau seperti ini adalah amalan syaitan, sebagaimana dlm hadith Sahih Muslim menyebut: Nabi bersabda:

“Jgn kamu berkata: Kalau aku buat begini, akan jadi begini. Tetapi katakanlah: ini takdir Allah, apa yg dia kehendaki akan berlaku. sesungguhnya ‘kalau’ membuka pintu syaitan.”

Kenapa ‘kalau’ membuka pintu syaitan? krn:

ia membuka pintu kesedihan, penyesalan, & mgkn kebencian yg payah utk dihilangkan ia merupakan satu adab yg buruk terhadap Alah yg mentakdirkn setiap sesuatu.

Manakala penggunaan ‘kalau’ yg dibolehkan ialah menggunakannya utk mengajarkan ilmu, atau kebaikan, atau utk bercita-cita utk mendptkan suatu yg baik. maka ia dibolehkan menyebut ‘kalau’.

Sebagaimana dlm al-Quran & hadith ada perkataan ‘kalau’ utk mengajar. Sbg contoh dlm firman Allah maksudnya “Kalau di dlmnya (langit & bumi) ada tuhan lain selain Allah, maka hancur binasalah langit bumi ini.”