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I'll be sad to see you gone, you were one of the few voices of reason hanging around still. But whatever works best for you. I bid thee farewell lol

Take care <3

OMG you are here ???

I have never been more happy in my Tumblr life 😃😃😃😃🥳🥳🥳🥳❤️❤️

I’m never going to regret or apologize for calling out hate. This fandom has been so toxic for so long and that is part of it and if a better environment is to be created, giving certain sentiments platforms in an extreme way isn’t going to make it any better. Excusing it by saying it’s just silly doesn’t work either. And sending crazy asks for a conversation I wasn’t even involved in is evidence of that. Also, I don't condone the types of asks I have received happening to anyone, ever.

Everyone is someone behind the screen, and you can excuse it as being anonymous but we see our own reflection in our phones and I can’t just be complacent in things. I also don’t know how people justify saying certain things even on the internet.

Hate breeds hate. You can’t create a hateful environment and publish anything under a guise of a different point of view and then act surprised when anons run off elsewhere to replicate that sentiment. There is a difference between a different pov and hate. There’s a difference between disappointment and hate. There’s a difference between holding somebody accountable, who has literal evidence of them doing horrible things, and directing that towards someone undeserving. And the “accountability” is often for things that are so far off, I’m afraid of the reality some people live in. The insulting and sometimes dangerous names and statements made with such confidence, those of which are so unnecessary, get thrown around so easily. What is ridiculous is accepting that that’s just how it is and expecting it to just happen and no one who is allowed to talk about the hate or they’re a problem. Or too much. It makes no sense. Because hating someone incessantly is just obsession in another font.

It’s oversimplifying to suggest that people can just stay on their spaces, because hate will infiltrate everywhere. Clearly, because anons feel emboldened to say the the most unhinged things on spaces that aren’t “theirs” anyway, and there is no way to avoid cross-contamination. God forbid if that’s pointed out. It’s also rather troublesome to think anything within hate can be expressed but nothing else. And if people try to point out that hate, they’re somehow in the wrong and yelled at, but the hate is confusedly okay in the first place? It’s so simply odd. And no, pointing out hate is not the same thing as the hate itself. Standing up for yourself is not a problem. If you think this is overdramatic, okay. If it offends you, okay. Anyone can predict how people will respond to things if you’ve been in this fandom from the beginning. I don’t think anybody is going to have a come to Jesus moment and all of a sudden change. I’m over the gaslighting and being told that some people are complying and posting even though they don’t agree, cause there’s “nothing we can do,” while anons are attacking each other and calling each other names. It is wild to claim that we can’t control the narrative when the narrative is created by us and it’s also wild to claim that you don’t control what happens on your blog when you’re literally the owner of it.

As a fandom as a whole, it spreads, regardless, when certain things are tolerated. It gains momentum. And then somebody can feign realizations but if you’re not committed to the outcome of those realizations, they quickly fade and are rendered useless, and it returns to where it was in the first place.

I’m lucky I have a life outside of this and even if I’m okay when I log out, coming into a space that keeps getting more problematic and invasive is endlessly frustrating. And it’s not a secret, or at least it shouldn’t be, that some people are deeply affected to the point of concern. We’ve all seen it. Shoving it off as if it’s nothing and that it should not be taken seriously is also ridiculous because some would argue it’s very serious when it has affected them with death threats (only two months into tumblr I got inducted into this club and am now a 3x member) and other serious, offensive and/or ridiculous allegations, or misinformation spreads because of a (sometimes conveniently intentional) misinterpretation of what has been said and it’s posted with no proper context or thought. Or someone decides a non-descriptive post was about them which offsets a slew of very strange interactions and dms and more accusations.

It is easy for anons to feel it is silly when they are not on the receiving end. It’s easy to pass it off as “nothing.” It’s a classic deflection. But this does move into real life for some, especially when it is being encouraged or championed to bring up topics from “silly” tumblr to people in real life as if it’s okay. Hate being defended and broken up into categories as if any hate is better than another and accepted as normal, is one of the most wild concepts and why this fandom has become what it has. But people want to hate. They want to have an outlet for whatever is going on within their own life and release that hate, and so they will excuse it to the deaths. So here we are, still. Asks growing in the inbox day by day make some feel all mighty and powerful which is only worsened by the anonymity the admin has as well. People can claim to be anything, have any degree, or any intel, which isn’t necessarily inherently problematic, but in this context because some will foam at the mouth at the thought, they will continue to post it no matter the content. That feeling gets addictive for some.

These problems speak to humans, way beyond what or who is any singular focus of a fandom.

I don’t care about being popular. I never have. OGs know me from being a mere commenter where I also combatted misinformation and hate. It’s nothing new. I have no other agenda attached to this, so I don’t need to keep a following. My ego is also not dependent on it. I’m not going to let any ask go through and create a hateful environment to keep any of those followers. It’s insane to think all this chatter can’t be defended. I don’t regret making a blog, even though sometimes I have considered it, because I got a lot of answers to a lot of questions that I had before making my own space. And there have been people I have really enjoyed “meeting.” They kept me going when things got weird. And some good things have happened personally too.

https://x.com/Joze_Luiz/status/1890131988134478299

thanks for letting me know. I knew it was only a matter of time.

i know too! it's emma stone!! ajshkdj

god i pray for the woman who will play tom's gwen, it's gonna be hard couple of years for her

“What happened to Zendaya?” If you haven’t seen the most recent Spider-Man movie then don’t read this next part if you don’t like spoilers, but……..

At the end of No Way Home, Peter essentially realizes that people knowing who he is as Spider-Man has caused all the problems for people in his life, so with the help of Doctor Strange, he warps time to make it so that he “doesn’t exist,” meaning everyone who knew him, including MJ, no longer has any memory of him.

So I imagine he might branch out and find a new love interest in the process. Although, I very much doubt they would make him in any way gay or bisexual (aka he might be friends with Johnny but nothing more) because Disney owns Marvel and we know how they feel about that. Also they essentially co-own the character with Sony, and Andrew Garfield has all but confirmed that his Spider-Man reboot was cut short of being a trilogy by Sony because he wanted Peter to be bi and have a male MJ after Gwen’s death. So I truly doubt they’d make Peter bisexual now.

In No Way Home, Dr Strange basically casts a spell so everyone will forget that peter parker is spiderman as a looot of stuff has happened bc of that, and that includes his friends and girlfriend (MJ played by zendaya). His new love interest in the 4th film will probably be gwen stacey, but I think the endgame will be MJ and marvel will do their best to keep it under wraps and not spoil her return

"The fans really want Spider-Man and Johnny to be a couple bc they either are or are just super close in the comics."

i have some genuine questions: does marvel bros want to see them as a couple or is it just the two cute white boys fans? i read somewhere that spider-man will have a new love interest and like?? what the hell happened to zendaya?? do you think they can make spider-man queer? i mean i'd love to because they would have done something that would interest me in years but... can they?

@megatronmunson 🙏🏻

or anyone who knows!

I bet something will happen in the f4 film that will transport them to the earth/timeline the rest of the mcu is at, so yeah, he and tom probably will meet in one of the avengers films coming up

i've been around these parts for a while and I remembered someone gifted him a ring back at the NOLA con. Linked the post where she said it was a size 11 which is on the larger side. also look he has like 5 rings on in that pic. i think this much ado about nothing.