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and my car was in all day and I asked how much I owed him and he laughed and said nah don’t worry about it, and whenever I see him when he’s opening up each day he always looks happy to see me and says hello, so I needed to book my car in again (yes my car is a heap of junk haha) but I was working late so my dad popped round to tell him what needed doig and how much since I needed more stuff than when he gave me a price and he said ‘what I said before and tell her not to worry I’ll look after her’ But now I’m super nervous to take my car in, is he being friendly because it’s just business or is it more, I’m so confused and also I don’t know anything about him so it’s a bit weird and he’s older and might think I’m just some silly girl and yano :( so sorry for such a rambley post xx

 Don’t apologize for having a rambley post.  :) Details are good.I mean, it could be just business, but it’s hard to say.  Elaborate as you were, I wasn’t there for the conversations, you know?  I think it’s impossible to say for sure, unless one of you decided to ask the other to hang out/talk outside of the garage.  Who knows, maybe he’d enjoy it.

If he’s just being nice, though, that’s okay too.  Sometimes, it’s nice to have brief experiences with kind people.  

 By the way, don’t let the factor of age consume you.  It’s good to keep it in mind when you talk to people (especially so much older than you), but as long as you carry yourself normally, and don’t specifically try to impress someone to make up for your young age, then you’re fine.  If somebody won’t talk to you because of their age, I personally don’t think they’re worth talking to.

Hey, everybody!

I sincerely apologize for my lengthy absence.  I was on an unannounced hiatus, and I was caught up in a lot of stress and personal issues.

From how you worded it, you seem to be scared to talk to him because he finds you innocent.

I understand how it feels to be shy, and awkward about things.  Especially when it comes to stuff like this.  It's hard to know what to do when you hear about something that bothers you.  However, he told you directly, himself, that he wanted to hang out with you more.

Personally, I would try and spend more time with him.  Keep talking to him, texting him, and whatever else you guys do.  If he didn't like talking to you, then he probably wouldn't.  Try not to stress out about it, okay?  Hang out as friends, and as long as you're both comfortable, it doesn't matter if he thinks you're innocent.  That isn't always a bad thing. :)