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soft reminder: when you don't feel ok, remember your negative thoughts seem more realistic and smart, but in reality they are lies and don't deserve the extra attention you give them. most negative thoughts want you to repeat bad habits and cycles. they don't save you from unhealthy habits, disappointment or anxiety, they help reinforce them. so try to only notice those thoughts as they drift in your mind: don't place any value on them. kind thoughts are hard to trust and seem fake, but focusing on kind thoughts are more helpful for your happiness.

honestly adults need to stop berating teenagers for their angst. when you’re 14-18 years old it feels like your existence is nothing and everything at the same time. yea yea you haven’t been met with life’s real responsibilities (getting a job , maintaining a family etc etc), but you’re not entirely absolved of them. you’re being told to “enjoy being young” but at the same time develop your character to prepare yourself for adulthood. it’s a liminal period and that’s what makes it feel so unstable. it’s all just so ambiguous and disorienting it’s natural to feel lost. you’re told of so many rites of passages to come yet none of them give you the freedom you want. to be free from this awkward threshold instead of feeling like a ghost, floating half alive half dead, and feel your feet touch solid ground.

hot girl summer means sitting still in your room and staring at walls

hits different this year

bi pride!

Just stopping by to say I think you’re really cute, drink water, and I love you. ♡