Brave is going where no man has gone before.

There’s a specific incident where they thought they were messaging a newly 17 year old (mind you, they are dating a 17 currently who they’ve been dating since they were 15 and his boyfriend was 12). He reached out first privately and the two chatted for about two months until but the 17 year old explained she was actually 16. Even knowing this new age, he continued to message her without any boundaries.

Through complicated means, the 16 year old found out that this 20 year old had romantic and sexual fantasies of them and his attraction towards this 16 year old didn’t sway even after finding out she was 16. He overly showered her in praise, kindness, affection, and love continuously, showing signs of ill behavior as no adult should be acting that way towards a child. (It’s okay if you’re being nice, but he pushed the boundaries too far.)

Yes, the 16 year old shouldn’t have been texting back, but she is not at fault at all, she is a child. This man, this 20 year old, is old enough to understand where boundaries should be placed. This girl suffered emotional and mental issues while and after they stopped messaging.

He was banned from one server because he was making people uncomfortable, later on some members (who were minors) came forwards and told the moderators. After being banned, he went on to create an other server which has a 21+ year old, two 20 year olds, one 18 year old, and two 17 year olds. In this server they had a pictures-n-stuff channel available to children.

When I suggested putting an age maximum for the server to keep minors safe in the suggestions channel, he completely rejected the idea with the excuse of it being “exclusionary.” He proceeded to then message me privately about it instead of simply messaging and defending his reasons/excuses in the server.

His behavior is completely inappropriate and as I always say, adults have no place talking to minors on social media (very few circumstances where that is acceptable or okay). He should at least put a minimum age requirement on there to at least attempt to keep minors safe, but he doesn’t. If he doesn’t understand why these are all problems, then he should not be on here or discord.

this post by @bleedingcoffee42