Indulgent4u2

Being a Dominant is about being in control and making the decisions for your submissive, but its also about making her better. A better submissive, a better person, helping her become more than what she is. It's about encouraging her, teaching her, not tearing her down or belittling her. You are her Dominant because she chose to give up control to you, she deemed you worthy of her submission. Don't take advantage of that and abuse the power that she has given you. After being with you she should be a stronger woman not one that has been beat down and afraid. Dominants should take this as a challenge, how can I make my submissive better, how can I make her stronger, how can I make her life better? She gives us this power over her because serving is what she needs and desires, it's what makes her happy and fulfills her life. But we as Dominants should know that since she gave us this power over her, if it is misused or abused it can be taken back. Yes she is there to serve you at your will but not only because it's what you want its also what she wants. If it gets to a point where her serving you isn't making her happy and fulfilling her life then she isn't happy and why should she continue to serve you if she isn't growing and getting anything out of it? The answer is she shouldn't. To the outside world when they look at our relationship they see an all and nothing relationship. They assume because we the Dominant is in charge then we do 100% of the taking and our submissive are doing 100% of the giving. Well we know that isn't true, it's really 50/50 We as Dominants need to dominate and she as the submissive needs to submit. So as I said it's 50/50. Without both the Dominant and the submissive then there is nothing to be had. Just remember Dominants that we are to build our submissive up and make her better because without her we are just one half of an empty relationship. It takes both for it to work.