Bay Area Master

okay, there’s like a million things i can put here, but i’m going to focus on blowjobs for a second cause (especially cis guys) always seem to just not understand how to give a blowjob to a trans guy

so let me give a few pointers.

- BE GENTLE TO START. for crying out loud. a clit/t-dick contains like 10 TIMES THE NERVES that a penis does, so please for the love of god, dont go straight into it with full force. you have to ease into it. once it starts getting erect (and yes, you will be able to feel and see a t-dick getting erect, it will get bigger), THEN you can start being a little more eager.

- DISPERSE YOUR STIMULATION. please, dont freaking wag your tongue directly onto the head of a t-dick an expect it to feel good. that shit is going to hurt. i promise. when it comes to a trans guy’s bits, pleasure can turn to pain due to too direct simulation REALLY quick and you basically have to start over when that happens. Use your tongue LIBERALLY. side to side motions and circular motions around it are wonderful.

- DO NOT put your tongue anywhere near the guy’s front hole until you ask first. For a lot of guys, this doesnt feel any good at all and at worst can completely ruin the mood due to dysphoria. I personally am not a fan of the sensation. also, avoid giving too much attention to the underside of the clit/dick. again, SUPER sensitive and not always in a good way.

- THE BEST place to give “attention” is actually the TOP side of the dick. like, the whole top of it. again, disperse. Apply tongue LIBERALLY, not CENTRALLY.

- SUCK ON IT!!! but again, primary focus on the TOP side. Taking the whole thing in your mouth and sucking generously can actually help it get more erect, too. But you dont NEED to suck hard. with a t-cock you dont need to do ANYTHING too hard, really. technique >>>>>> force

- ALTERNATE. Use your tongue a bit, then suck on it a bit, then do both, then back to tongue, etc. alternating keeps things going and keeps trans guy bits happy the whole time.

- If you have a beard/stubble. Keep that shit AWAY from the bits, please. Oh my god it feels bad. like really bad. Also dont EVER use fucking teeth unless your partner is VERY SPECIFICALLY INTO THAT. I almost punched the last guy who used his teeth on me. IT HURTS. IT HURTS A LOT. like, TEAR inducing pain. I actually cried

- Lastly, and most importantly, always listen to what your trans guy partner wants you to do. He may have requests and specific stimulation he likes. But, if he’s the quiet type, these tips should at least help you know what he wants at least in general. :p

Voting is very important, so he is required to vote in all elections.

We discuss the candidates and the issues, then i decide how we will vote.

He supports your and guides you.

Gives you what you need, not always what you want.

He gives you His all.

Over the past few years, I have served a wonderful Sir as his meal prep boy. As I understand it, this is a somewhat novel expression of dominant-submissive (Dom-sub) power dynamics. I have looked around online for others in similar submissive positions, but I have come up empty-handed. I have found much enjoyment from serving in this way, and I would like to let others know about my experience.

Much like other forms of submission, a meal prep boy performs a service for his Dominant. Just as the name implies, a meal prep boy performs all the tasks related to preparing weekly meals for his Sir. This involves all the steps related to meal prepping, including procurement of groceries, cooking, and cleanup. The task may seem arduous, but all worthwhile forms of submission involve the submissive willing giving his energy to the Dominant. And with meal prep, there are lasting benefits for both the sub and the Dom.

Being a meal prep boy comes with an important responsibility: the nutrition of your Dom. You are fueling his body’s growth directly through your cooking. Seeing the results of your cooking through the growth of your Dom is exhilarating and encouraging. Of course, the ability to help your Dom grow comes with the responsibility to ensure his nutritional needs are met. This means accounting for all the macros and micros needed for muscle growth as well as any other concerns specific to your Dom (allergies, special diet, taste preference, etc.). All of this requires careful though to plan out tasty meals week after week, and of course the willpower to execute on these ideas.

Meal prepping as a role in a kink relationship requires a level of mental effort and physical care not typically associated with other expressions of kink. As a sub, you will have to think and plan far beyond the mental requirements of a pain pig or other more passive forms of submission. Nevertheless, the rewards, in my opinion, are far greater. Besides the previously stated manifestation of your work in the form of bigger muscles, meal prepping is a useful skill on its own. It promotes thoughtful planning, nutritional learning, and hands-on cooking experience. It’s like taking a cooking course where the instructor is a sexy bodybuilder. And of course, all the world of kink is open to the sub when their meal prep duties are done. Coupled with, say, a growth regimen for the sub, you and your Dom can grow together: physically, emotionally, and sexually.