Meal Prep Boy

Being a submissive is hard work. Not to say being a Dom is easy, just that they both take serious effort to do well. On top of making sure your Dom is pleasured, as a meal prep boy, you must also make sure he is well fed. For most boys prepping for hardcore gains, this can be a real challenge. I only need to look toward my own history as an example.

Before meal prepping, I had almost zero cooking experience. I could barely boil rice, and even then I would usually mess it up. I would consider myself now a competent cook, but I did not have the skill set to please my Dom as a meal prepper. Thankfully, I have a sane Dom, and he understood the barriers to my submission, and helped me tear them down. Here are a few things he did to really help me grow as he needed:

1) We cooked very simple foods at first (seasoned ground turkey)

2) He was more hands-on at first, staying in the kitchen with me longer

3) We only cooked one meal on a day at first.

4) He dictated entirely what he wanted me to cook, and sent recipes

5) I had no other duties at first besides bringing food and clean up after

6) He showed me simple kitchen tips, like how to drain and weigh food

We all might have a clear picture of what meal prepping looks like: a busy kitchen with a large quantity of food in various stages of preparation. Outside of those intense few hours of weekly meal prep. If your meal prep duties are like mine, they involve the logistics of prepping for the prep and post prep clean up. For a person seeking submission as a meal prepper, you will need to discuss responsibilities. Who provides the ingredients? What clean up duties does the boy perform? Does the boy choose meals weekly or does the Sir? The answers to these questions inform the boundaries of the boy's duties, an important concern in any Dom/sub relationship.

Prep work:

- Plan out the meals I will be cooking

  - This involves finding recipes, ensuring they meet his nutritional needs, and getting his approval

- Make a grocery list, adding items as requested by my dom

  - When making a new dish this is critical!

Day of (before cooking):

- Go to the grocery store and buy the items

- Take the groceries to the meal prep location: his place or yours

Cooking:

- Start with items which take longer to cook or can be done separately

 - Start cooking rice

 - Begin preparing and cooking meat for the first dish

- Once the first dish is prepped and cooking, use down time to peel veggies for slow cooker meal

- Finish first meal and weigh out portions into containers

- Start second dish

  - Usually rice is done at this point so I'll take it off the stove

  - Perform other chores during down time: filling up protein containers, drying dishes

- Finish second meal and weigh out portions into containers

- Finish other duties such as cleaning sinks and counters

Post cooking:

Over the past few years, I have served a wonderful Sir as his meal prep boy. As I understand it, this is a somewhat novel expression of dominant-submissive (Dom-sub) power dynamics. I have looked around online for others in similar submissive positions, but I have come up empty-handed. I have found much enjoyment from serving in this way, and I would like to let others know about my experience.

Much like other forms of submission, a meal prep boy performs a service for his Dominant. Just as the name implies, a meal prep boy performs all the tasks related to preparing weekly meals for his Sir. This involves all the steps related to meal prepping, including procurement of groceries, cooking, and cleanup. The task may seem arduous, but all worthwhile forms of submission involve the submissive willing giving his energy to the Dominant. And with meal prep, there are lasting benefits for both the sub and the Dom.

Being a meal prep boy comes with an important responsibility: the nutrition of your Dom. You are fueling his body's growth directly through your cooking. Seeing the results of your cooking through the growth of your Dom is exhilarating and encouraging. Of course, the ability to help your Dom grow comes with the responsibility to ensure his nutritional needs are met. This means accounting for all the macros and micros needed for muscle growth as well as any other concerns specific to your Dom (allergies, special diet, taste preference, etc.). All of this requires careful though to plan out tasty meals week after week, and of course the willpower to execute on these ideas.

Meal prepping as a role in a kink relationship requires a level of mental effort and physical care not typically associated with other expressions of kink. As a sub, you will have to think and plan far beyond the mental requirements of a pain pig or other more passive forms of submission. Nevertheless, the rewards, in my opinion, are far greater. Besides the previously stated manifestation of your work in the form of bigger muscles, meal prepping is a useful skill on its own. It promotes thoughtful planning, nutritional learning, and hands-on cooking experience. It's like taking a cooking course where the instructor is a sexy bodybuilder. And of course, all the world of kink is open to the sub when their meal prep duties are done. Coupled with, say, a growth regimen for the sub, you and your Dom can grow together: physically, emotionally, and sexually.