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Ok less brooding and moping and analysing and lethargy and melancholy and inertia more ACTION even within the limited field available to me. More leaving the house more discipline more drive more fire more relentlessness more joy!!!!

you are not immune to inventing an arbitrary set of rules that only you have to adhere to

''what if you regret it'' then you will expirience regret - a normal and unavoidable part of the human expirience.

the more you twist yourself into a pretzel to avoid regret the harder it will hit when it eventually catches up to you.

Having a "stupider people have done this" attitude about the things you want to do can open so many doors

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

"would i be good at this thing?" and "would it be fun to do this thing?" are two different questions!!

so, for that matter, are "can i endure this?" and "would doing this be worthwhile for me?"

hate when i accidentally take life too seriously girl relax we are all playing

there’s no permanent self and that’s pretty cool

Healing happens in circles, not lines. You will return to old places with new eyes.

the thing is ‘have fun and be yourself’ is good advice

The older I get, the more I realize being in a hurry is a terrible way to live your life.

what they don’t tell you is that it lives inside you until you let it out