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sadly yes whole groups of ppl will trample on young women for just, reacting normally. even fellow women. bringing this topic to "normie" women such as being cishet or just not being perpetually online, the usual reaction is that the voice memo guy was being weird "but typical". like this is a common thing women roll their eyes at when it comes to dating. if the guy was so pressed into needing sex that bad then what's stopping him from pursuing a woman who is just as open to the idea, instead of insisting the matter to someone who already stated that's not what she wants. men can't actually handle sexually confident women I suppose :/ but no, it's this girl that's the problem lol we truly can't win

you’re real to me

the thing with lgbt spaces is that they are still highly misogynistic and racist, yes even while there's women and poc. unfortunately ppl rather hide behind a label than to face their own bigotry. and here we are 🤷‍♀️ you literally have ppl coming in here now calling you emotional, a common throwaway line when a girl dares to speak out on bs. you cannot make this shit up 🤧

Hey, you're going weirdly hard on this and you seem to be getting pretty emotional. I would genuinely suggest taking a step back and taking a breather. I'd also maybe suggest not posting the anons. If you don't give them attention, they'll stop. I think the misgendering you did sucks, and the doubling down is worse, but you seem to be getting earnestly upset. For your own sake it might be time to step away for a bit.

as a queer woman I just wanna say, you're right and I thought this was common fucking sense but once again we are reminded this is the you like waffles so you hate pancakes website. the language the voice memo guy uses speaks for itself, men don't typically hide what they want, from using "craving intimacy" to just plain "fucking", he's only being considerate of his own wants which of course that in itself doesn't make him villainous but if they had this conversation prior to the second date, he's Already aware of her feelings on the matter but continued to bring it up again. idk why ppl all of a sudden here aren't believing in women's experiences when it comes to those "expectations" in m/f relationships. a guy doesn't need to be cornering her physically for it to be forceful. if he's craving sex that much then he should've taken the initiative to end things after the first date since that's something important to him to feel connected; the problem isn't that he wants sex, it's that he thought he could change her mind if he just kept asking, he was wanting His expectations to be met while disregarding hers. and if she had changed her mind despite feeling that she really rather not, then that is still coercion. literally wtf are we talking about here anymore. and I don't blame her friends in posting this online, cuz clearly this is an important conversation to have if there's folks who feel the need to defend this type of man. y'all piss me off. this is SO simple to grasp. oh my god ppl can't be this fucking dumb.

Sorry internet strangers can't magically divine that your mom is dead but youre embarrassing yourself. The misgendering is way worse. Actual bigotry is way worse than saying "I fucked your mom" when someone's mom is dead (a fact they had zero way of knowing).

hun you're literally just wrong. im a woman who dates exclusively men, and its way safer for women for a man to ask over the phone about sex than in person. who would you want someone in person to do that where its harder to turn them down?

you know somebody acting like a childish POS isn't an excuse to misgender them, right?

i dont even disagree with u in the argument but why are u misgendering someone lmao???? transphobic much?